Illuminating encounter the other night

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I was in my whip at a Walmart parking lot after making my round inside when out of nowhere my uncle pulls up on me
“Hey G what’s good”
had not seen him in almost two years.
I stepped out and we started chopping it up.
The convo swerved to women and how the night prior he dispatched one because he wouldn’t have her as a friend on FB and she got upset and started being intolerable.
The lizard’s girlfriends were drilling in her head that it’s bad that he didn’t have her on there and that he was most likely playing the field.
I was like aight let’s go to the drawing board familia..we each sparked up a drag due to the occasion
I was shooting from the hip saying that it was proper the right move for him to give that insecure female the boot along with the pack of her hyena friends.

We were speaking in parables

Straight smoking one liners from the game manual and he was nodding in approval reciprocating saying that he don’t got time for that drama he needs to have a crystal clear conscious for his full capacity mental line of work. One legal glitch or incorrect statement on a doc. and heads start rollin

I was going to slide him the sosuave business card for full fledged membership but his english is not his strong suit. He would definitely contribute and provide receipts with hard cold evidence

He is 40 a very connected government judiciary attorney here in MX and has tap access to “professional chicks” that move around those high level circles. The female governor of the state we are in even tried to throw him the eye fvck. definitely rubs elbows with more women than I do. He hasn’t settled yet though.
He is seasoned and is aware of the murky waters right now with women

That talking session got me in a thinking voyage is it really this bad out here with most women?

even this guy who has mad social status /proximity game/pull/assets/tall/dressed to the 9s is giving women the walking papers and some have just left.

No denying around here we as men got our flaws and 7 deadly sins everyday is a struggle but we never break stride that’s on the set.

Seems like women are just lost or …man I can’t even call it no more without some disrespect

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Key to a good, low drama relationship is not finding the woman you want, but choosing the woman you like the most amongst the women that really want you. The woman has to think you are the best that she can get. She will be submissive or at least compliant and do almost anything to keep you around.

That might mean you have to settle a level or two below your own, but in the end it doesnt matter as even the best pvssy gets old after you fvcked her for a couple of years.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

This is depressing but true.

Women who are genuinely attracted to you act so differently it's silly - they are never disagreeable and always down to F, and its good. Why have a hot gf if she's more trouble than the 7.5?

Key to a good, low drama relationship is not finding the woman you want, but choosing the woman you like the most amongst the women that really want you. The woman has to think you are the best that she can get. She will be submissive or at least compliant and do almost anything to keep you around.

That might mean you have to settle a level or two below your own, but in the end it doesnt matter as even the best pvssy gets old after you fvcked her for a couple of years.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

This is depressing but true.

Women who are genuinely attracted to you act so differently it's silly - they are never disagreeable and always down to F, and its good. Why have a hot gf if she's more trouble than the 7.5?

I told him, maybe what you need is a girl outside your social circle who may be of lower status but she will genuinely care for you and respect you for who you are.

I rather 1000% be with the 6.5-7.5 cute chick working the register at the grocery store who is feminine and genuinely likes me for who I am. Humble grounded chick that plays no games.
I can treat her with masculine respect through my leadership and she will be happy and receptive.

than the toxic independent hotter chick who is self centered , superficial with not one humble bone in her body.
I don’t give a fvck about her career or her top tier position.
These women are even worse and a cramp to deal with because they want to challenge your masculinity/decisions at every turn.

I once read this on here

“All women who comes to you or are in ur vicinity in ur sphere of influence will feel empowered to explore their femininity.
They shall have ur protection and all of ur strengths - physical, mental and spiritual.
They have freedom through you”

This is not relevant with most women now a days

 

[Murk]

Nah trust me that 7.5/10 turns into a 5 or 6 after a couple years and you will always want better. That’s why I advocate aiming for a 9 or 10. After a couple of years they will still be a 7 or 8.

It’s settling with average looking women that causes problems a few years later. Yes it’s easier, that’s why most men are with average chicks or cute chicks, not stunning gorgeous chicks.

I’m only settling with a gorgeous women that I’ve selected myself. Not girls that approach me and make it easy. Anything else you start resenting them.

 

[The Duke]

Good for him. His rules. She can comply or it's bye! He has his reasons. I've done the same thing several times. I told them I needed to know they were a solid chic before I added them.

If a girl is really into to you, she will comply with your rules. If not it's enough proof that she isn't submissive enough.

Good way to filter them for submissiveness and insecurities. Play the game smarter and you will spend time with better girls.

 

[The Duke]

As men we need to hold ourselves accountable more often when it comes to relationships. Most of our problems are due to we did not screen/filter properly.

Have some standards, stand your ground, stop being afraid she'll leave. Realize you are saving yourself pain and stress in the future by having firm boundaries in the beginning. She either complies or leaves.

A woman gets to pick the guy, but the man gets to decide if that girl gets a relationship. Be thankful we have that power, and don't take it lightly.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Nah trust me that 7.5/10 turns into a 5 or 6 after a couple years and you will always want better. That’s why I advocate aiming for a 9 or 10. After a couple of years they will still be a 7 or 8.

It’s settling with average looking women that causes problems a few years later. Yes it’s easier, that’s why most men are with average chicks or cute chicks, not stunning gorgeous chicks.

I’m only settling with a gorgeous women that I’ve selected myself. Not girls that approach me and make it easy. Anything else you start resenting them.

There’s definitely some truth to this. When you settle for a girl who is below your level (in terms of SMV), you will never be satisfied and, as you say, will grow to resent her (for something that isn’t even her fault). The key is to find someone who is neither above nor below you.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Nah trust me that 7.5/10 turns into a 5 or 6 after a couple years and you will always want better. That’s why I advocate aiming for a 9 or 10. After a couple of years they will still be a 7 or 8.

It’s settling with average looking women that causes problems a few years later. Yes it’s easier, that’s why most men are with average chicks or cute chicks, not stunning gorgeous chicks.

I’m only settling with a gorgeous women that I’ve selected myself. Not girls that approach me and make it easy. Anything else you start resenting them.

6+ women are not average and the 10 is a unicorn, good luck finding one once you remove makeup and all the fake parts. Also, if you think women lose 2 lvls after a couple of years you are from 9 to1 in 8 years, good luck with that mindset.

What really causes problems a few years later is settling for a women that is not compliant, high maintainance and a pain in the ass from the start.

But thats usually a problem men play down that havent been in a relationship and actually living with a woman over a couple of years, let alone getting into serious stuff like marriage and kids.

Its one thing to date a "hot" woman over a few months or actually living with her over years and getting into legal responsibilities.

Men also tend to find out that EVERY pvssy gets boring after you have been there for 300+ times and the grass will ALLWAYS be greener on the other side of the fence after years of LTR. So if she is a 9 or a 7, doesnt really matter in the long run as long as your dik gets hard on her.

BUT..... to each his own. And if one needs a perceived "hot" woman that permanently asks herself if she could do better then (#hypergamy) and therefore permanently inducing shiat into the relationship, he has to go for that.

 

[Murk]

6+ women are not average and the 10 is a unicorn, good luck finding one once you remove makeup and all the fake parts. Also, if you think women lose 2 lvls after a couple of years you are from 9 to1 in 8 years, good luck with that mindset.

No I'm saying they lose 1-2 points in attractiveness when you are with them long term, I never said every few years that number keeps dropping. My point only applies to attractive/confident men that can get good looking women but settle. For many men, that 6 or 7 is perfect for them to remain happy/content.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So would he be one of the people who fights the cartels or is he in a position that is typically bought off by the cartels or does he not really get involved in that one way or the other with what he does?

Just interested in how things work down in Mexico because at times it almost seems like the cartels are the actual government more than the government.

Was watching an Amazon Prime series called Zero, Zero, Zero and it followed three drug families, one in America, one in Italy and one in Mexico and showed how they all worked together to move product around and process it and the roles each of them played...

I am assuming it was loosely based on real events but nonetheless it was crazy how much more openly ruthless the cartels in Mexico were than the others...

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So would he be one of the people who fights the cartels or is he in a position that is typically bought off by the cartels or does he not really get involved in that one way or the other with what he does?

Just interested in how things work down in Mexico because at times it almost seems like the cartels are the actual government more than the government.

Was watching an Amazon Prime series called Zero, Zero, Zero and it followed three drug families, one in America, one in Italy and one in Mexico and showed how they all worked together to move product around and process it and the roles each of them played...

I am assuming it was loosely based on real events but nonetheless it was crazy how much more openly ruthless the cartels in Mexico were than the others...

The Cartels are financed by in part the CIA, so in other words it's the same Deep State bs as everywhere else. Although apparently it was originally for ufo/black budget funding to develop the ET tech and for ET defense. Bush Sr (the prez, not Prescott) oversaw the ops while he ran the CIA in the 70's.

 

[jaymbrs]

You just need to find a woman who doesn't aspire to be like a man. A romantic relationship only works if there are roles and the couple adhere to them.

 

[Solomon]

social circle will truly open your eyes especially if you're in one where there are high-earning folks in it (including women)
I have/had access to women I never would have had because I'm not a looker
But I even had a chick recently who was a former model begging me to get her knocked up (met her through social circle) she was batshyt crazy tho, but was fun lay

 

[FlirtLife]

But I even had a chick recently who was a former model begging me to get her knocked up (met her through social circle) she was batshyt crazy tho, but was fun lay

Best wishes on Maury Povich saying "You are... NOT the father".

 

[jafman]

You just need to find a woman who doesn't aspire to be like a man. A romantic relationship only works if there are roles and the couple adhere to them.

It really is this simple. Not much else matters.

I met a woman the other day 43 years old. Looks 35. Wealthy. Works out daily. Perfect teeth,amazing tits, no kids…

why has she got no kids? Well because she acted like a man for 30 years….

God help her