Had Sex 4 Times with a returning fwb today

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So a girl who left to find her soul mate and wanted to be friends (to which I said “I don’t do friends”) was back in the app today. She came over and we had sex a bunch of times. She says she doesn’t know what she wants rn. Oh well, I’ll take it
 

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I hope you wrapped up.
 

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Awesome. I don’t care if it was with a pill or not, 4x is a great performance. You left an impression for sure and I’m sure you’ll get repeat business.
 

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4 times is a magical number. First time I met my current fwb we also ****ed 4 times (ngl tho I did use a pill at that time) and just from the puppy eyes I was getting I knew she'll be around lol
 

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4 times is a magical number. First time I met my current fwb we also ****ed 4 times (ngl tho I did use a pill at that time) and just from the puppy eyes I was getting I knew she'll be around lol
Nice. I had to pace myself tho or I’d cvm too fast. Wish there was a pull for that. I didn’t cvm at all tho
 

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Nice. I had to pace myself tho or I’d cvm too fast. Wish there was a pull for that. I didn’t cvm at all tho
Oh I'm from the other, less known side - I very often struggle to cvm at all (even went to sexuologist, dude told me there doesnt seem to be any block in my psyche so he had no clue why lol). This girl has some magical ***** shape though, so whenever she'd be having a strong orgasm I'd start cvmming too. Let's say both sides are satisfied with the fwb arrangement
 
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The crazy thing is she told me she had a date later that night
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Have you considered building an LTR? Many people find value in committed, monogamous relationships because they provide a deeper level of intimacy and connection. In a monogamous relationship, both partners agree to prioritize each other and commit to building a life together. This can create a sense of security and trust that is difficult to achieve in more casual dating situations. As Carl Jung once wrote:
"The monogamous relationship is a crucible for personal transformation." (from "The Psychology of the Transference," 1946)
This quote suggests that monogamy, despite its challenges, can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth and development. He also wrote:
"Marriage is not a simple love affair, it's an ordeal, and the ordeal is the sacrifice of ego to a relationship in which two have become one." (from "The Wisdom of the Dream," 1989)
This quote suggests that marriage requires a willingness to put the needs and desires of the relationship above one's own individual desires, which can be challenging but ultimately rewarding. Lastly he wrote about how men and women differ when it comes to marriage:
"In the eyes of the ordinary man, love in its true sense coincides with the institution of marriage, and outside marriage there is only adultery or "platonic" friendship. For woman, marriage is not an institution at all but a human love-relationship. ("Civilization in Transition", 1964) "
This quote suggests that there may be differences in how men and women view love and marriage. According to Jung, the "ordinary man" tends to equate love with the institution of marriage, and sees any love or sexual relationship outside of marriage as either adultery or "platonic" friendship. However, Jung suggests that women may view marriage and love differently. For women, marriage is not just an institutional arrangement, but a deeply personal and emotional love-relationship. This may be because women historically have been socialized to view marriage as a key aspect of their identity and role in society, while men have not been as strongly tied to this idea.
 
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I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Have you considered building an LTR? Many people find value in committed, monogamous relationships because they provide a deeper level of intimacy and connection. In a monogamous relationship, both partners agree to prioritize each other and commit to building a life together. This can create a sense of security and trust that is difficult to achieve in more casual dating situations. As Carl Jung once wrote: This quote suggests that monogamy, despite its challenges, can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth and development. He also wrote: This quote suggests that marriage requires a willingness to put the needs and desires of the relationship above one's own individual desires, which can be challenging but ultimately rewarding. Lastly he wrote about how men and women differ when it comes to marriage: This quote suggests that there may be differences in how men and women view love and marriage. According to Jung, the "ordinary man" tends to equate love with the institution of marriage, and sees any love or sexual relationship outside of marriage as either adultery or "platonic" friendship. However, Jung suggests that women may view marriage and love differently. For women, marriage is not just an institutional arrangement, but a deeply personal and emotional love-relationship. This may be because women historically have been socialized to view marriage as a key aspect of their identity and role in society, while men have not been as strongly tied to this idea.
Powerful post, like a Double Barrel shotgun.
 

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I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Have you considered building an LTR? Many people find value in committed, monogamous relationships because they provide a deeper level of intimacy and connection. In a monogamous relationship, both partners agree to prioritize each other and commit to building a life together. This can create a sense of security and trust that is difficult to achieve in more casual dating situations. As Carl Jung once wrote: This quote suggests that monogamy, despite its challenges, can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth and development. He also wrote: This quote suggests that marriage requires a willingness to put the needs and desires of the relationship above one's own individual desires, which can be challenging but ultimately rewarding. Lastly he wrote about how men and women differ when it comes to marriage: This quote suggests that there may be differences in how men and women view love and marriage. According to Jung, the "ordinary man" tends to equate love with the institution of marriage, and sees any love or sexual relationship outside of marriage as either adultery or "platonic" friendship. However, Jung suggests that women may view marriage and love differently. For women, marriage is not just an institutional arrangement, but a deeply personal and emotional love-relationship. This may be because women historically have been socialized to view marriage as a key aspect of their identity and role in society, while men have not been as strongly tied to this idea.
Lol I just find it funny how different my perspective is to everyone. While you are “sorry” she had a date later that night, I feel like an absolute boss having fvcked her before her beta provider buys her dinner. We are not the same
 
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