First time poster.
Recently discovered the Rational Male and Rollo's content has really resonated with me. After living the oneitis life I've recently begun plate spinning and changing my mindset is working wonders for me.
Anyway the reason for this post is to get opinions/confirm my suspicions about a recent date.
The first date went quite quickly and she seemed to want to go early but later hit me up for a second.
We had a picnic, after which she suggested drinks so we hit some bars. I drove her home and she invited me in for another drink. We sat in her porch and had a few more, had great convo, but I didn't feel there was an opportunity to make a move. Eventually she said she's tired and that I should go and she'll see me next week. Since I was also kinda sick (covid) she said I'd hug you but don't want covid which I think is reasonable, but she still wanted to see me knowing this.
Side note: at one point she even said "you have nervous energy" Lol which I do and she said she does too.
I think she surely wanted me to make a move right? But it almost seems like she's very reserved and is also wanting to take things slow but still obviously interested. I believe the mistake I made is being too friendly with conversation and not enough flirting. Curious to hear thoughts on this?
Thinking next time we'll do a bar crawl or something more involved like pool? Personally I don't mind waiting a bit for sex as I want to keep seeing her anyway but I left feeling a bit underwhelmed and confused. We haven't kissed yet incase that's not obvious enough lol
Recently discovered the Rational Male and Rollo's content has really resonated with me. After living the oneitis life I've recently begun plate spinning and changing my mindset is working wonders for me.
Anyway the reason for this post is to get opinions/confirm my suspicions about a recent date.
The first date went quite quickly and she seemed to want to go early but later hit me up for a second.
We had a picnic, after which she suggested drinks so we hit some bars. I drove her home and she invited me in for another drink. We sat in her porch and had a few more, had great convo, but I didn't feel there was an opportunity to make a move. Eventually she said she's tired and that I should go and she'll see me next week. Since I was also kinda sick (covid) she said I'd hug you but don't want covid which I think is reasonable, but she still wanted to see me knowing this.
Side note: at one point she even said "you have nervous energy" Lol which I do and she said she does too.
I think she surely wanted me to make a move right? But it almost seems like she's very reserved and is also wanting to take things slow but still obviously interested. I believe the mistake I made is being too friendly with conversation and not enough flirting. Curious to hear thoughts on this?
Thinking next time we'll do a bar crawl or something more involved like pool? Personally I don't mind waiting a bit for sex as I want to keep seeing her anyway but I left feeling a bit underwhelmed and confused. We haven't kissed yet incase that's not obvious enough lol