How to handle this situation?

[MulteMach]

I met a girl at the grocery store about 3 weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and I texted her about 3 days after I got her number. We texted a few days then I asked her to meet me for some drinks at a bar on a friday and she agreed. On the day of our meetup, she texts me and says her grandmother was sent to hospital so she cant make it to the bar to meet me. I told her im sorry about that. She texts back saying she hope she is alright too. 3 days pass and I ask her if her grandmother is alright. She doesnt text back. I text about one week later and no response. Fast forward to now and I text her last night and she responds. I ask her if shes doing alright and she responds that shes alright but has alot going on. I text her that we met in the cheese aisle then she responds back with lol. How should I handle this situation from now on? I wanna meetup with her but what is the best way to approach this.

 

[Stanley]

Dude, extreme low interest move on

 

[CollegeMan22]

Her grandma did not get sent to the hospital.

 

[CollegeMan22]

Rule number 1 of asking a girl out: if she wants to meet up with you, she WILL meet up with you. She will FIND a time that works. If she does not reschedule or say yes, she is not interested.

 

[SW15]

Time wasting prospect. Delete her number and move on.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Dude don't wait 3 days to text a cold approach rando. You've got more like 3 hours to stay in her mind.

You wait 3 days, she will be of low interest.

 

[MulteMach]

Dude don't wait 3 days to text a cold approach rando. You've got more like 3 hours to stay in her mind.

You wait 3 days, she will be of low interest.

Really? That seems needy to me...

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Really? That seems needy to me...

Always err on the side of "striking while the iron is hot".

To be fair, being concerned with appearing "needy" is arguably needy in itself.

 

[MulteMach]

Always err on the side of "striking while the iron is hot".

To be fair, being concerned with appearing "needy" is arguably needy in itself.

lol true

 

[CollegeMan22]

And its always one of the grandparents right? I get that elderly are more propense to go to hospitals more believable , but never her mom or her dad, I guess karma will to bad to throw parents like that, but granny who the fvck cares she's old anyways

Ohhh you should see college girls. Some are like “so sorrryyy!!! I have an exam tomorrow and have to study. And the next day. And the next!”. Girls really are studious these days haha.

I like the ones that are at least honest. Got this recently: “Hey OP thanks for the offer but I’m actually busy this week and just not interested. It was nice meeting you and maybe I’ll see you around. Wishing you the best ”. At least they have the decency to tell me what they actually think, which makes her interest level clear to both parties.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She is telling you every way she knows how that she isn't interested but you don't seem to be taking the hint.

 

[Young OG]

I met a girl at the grocery store about 3 weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and I texted her about 3 days after I got her number. We texted a few days then I asked her to meet me for some drinks at a bar on a friday and she agreed. On the day of our meetup, she texts me and says her grandmother was sent to hospital so she cant make it to the bar to meet me. I told her im sorry about that. She texts back saying she hope she is alright too. 3 days pass and I ask her if her grandmother is alright. She doesnt text back. I text about one week later and no response. Fast forward to now and I text her last night and she responds. I ask her if shes doing alright and she responds that shes alright but has alot going on. I text her that we met in the cheese aisle then she responds back with lol. How should I handle this situation from now on? I wanna meetup with her but what is the best way to approach this.

Like everyone else said, move on, she’s not interested.

Her grandma was never in the hospital. Also, next time you get a number, text the girl in the evening the following day. Don’t wait 3 days.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

go take a cold azz shower my man.
this one is getting d1cked down by another dude.
her grandma has been probably dead for 10 years already

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Really? That seems needy to me...

yeah I've Messed this up too, you gotta text that same day you met

I've even texted each others names back and forth but then after that you STILL send a re-initiation text that night just to get something going sooner than later

 

[PlatoPacks23]

And its always one of the grandparents right? I get that elderly are more propense to go to hospitals more believable , but never her mom or her dad, I guess karma will to bad to throw parents like that, but granny who the fvck cares she's old anyways

I am dying, I got the text that this girl said her grandmother was sick too but never even thought she was lying