How often have you been approached by women?

[Stanley]

How often have you guys been approached by women?
Or alternatively how frequently have women pursued you from the get go or shown extreme interest and initiated with you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

When I was a club DJ, every night multiple times a night.

 

[shwami_salami]

its weird bcs I get attention from hotties,but not much approach/interest signals from the mid 5-7 ones. Those girls get hit on the most somehow.

 

[LTG71]

Apart from my wife, only when they need something fixed or want to complain about someone/something.

 

[The Duke]

Maybe every other month it happens. They are almost always very subtle about it.

Had a girl the other day that initiated conversation at the front of a store and I was actually checking out with another person. then a few minutes later she finds her way to the shipping department for no reason where I was picking up some product where she engages me again.

My buddy I was with even picked up on her intent.

This chic(hb7)was probably 15yrs younger. Had I been single I would have got her phone number.

I wasn't even dressed nice. Had work clothes on. I Looked like a blue collar worker.

The time before, a chic was hitting on me at the bar. Her opener was a compliment on my watch. She was hot, but one of these girls in town for the weekend, looking for a tour guide to pay for her fun.

 

[Stanley]

When I was a club DJ, every night multiple times a night.

Don't you mean Club DonJuan

its weird bcs I get attention from hotties,but not much approach/interest signals from the mid 5-7 ones. Those girls get hit on the most somehow.

That's because a lot of guys view them as more approachable and 'easy' and oftentimes they are. The super hot babe seems out of reach, but my god some of these girls in real life never get hit on. On the internet and over Dm's they are inundated though. The past year or so i've jumped into a 'social circle' with a bunch of really attractive young women. Amazingly, they often talk about how they are not hit on or approached and they don't realize when they are. Also, the more attractive the more insecure it seems.

The time before, a chic was hitting on me at the bar. Her opener was a compliment on my watch. She was hot, but one of these girls in town for the weekend, looking for a tour guide to pay for her fun.

What was the watch? Yeah i'm that guy.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Edited to cut some specific mentions and keep sht short:

Plenty of times .. lol still to this day maybe like 5-10 times a year if im going out alot

 

[bat soup]

How often have you guys been approached by women?
Or alternatively how frequently have women pursued you from the get go or shown extreme interest and initiated with you.

It happens to me almost every day. Almost....

 

[Atom Smasher]

Lots of times. I’m a guitarist. Need I say more?

 

[Stanley]

Lots of times. I’m a guitarist. Need I say more?

My brotha! Yeah, playing a gig and being attractive is stupid easy if you actually have chops and carry yourself well. Chicks my age don't dig guitar as much as they used to though, they don't care if I have vibrato like Marty Friedman, piano on the other hand is ridiculous. I played an out of tune spinet by request at a school event and had three girls give me their numbers within the hour.

 

[SW15]

How often have you guys been approached by women?
Or alternatively how frequently have women pursued you from the get go or shown extreme interest and initiated with you.

Infrequently. I've had less than 10 direct approaches in the last 20+ years.

Extreme interest cases have been essentially 0 as well. I can't recall an instance of it right now.

I receive some mild indicators of interest when out in public. This has happened more in daygame than in nightlife venues over the years. I was the one who had to initiate the approach nearly 100% of the time.

I have had my photos rated online and my ratings were in the high 6s/low 7s. It'd be fair to say that my looks rating would be around a 7.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Rarely. Usually grannies from work. I play dumb & ignore.

 

[The Duke]

Don't you mean Club DonJuan


That's because a lot of guys view them as more approachable and 'easy' and oftentimes they are. The super hot babe seems out of reach, but my god some of these girls in real life never get hit on. On the internet and over Dm's they are inundated though. The past year or so i've jumped into a 'social circle' with a bunch of really attractive young women. Amazingly, they often talk about how they are not hit on or approached and they don't realize when they are. Also, the more attractive the more insecure it seems.


What was the watch? Yeah i'm that guy.

It was a $150 Fossil watch that looks very masculine. Nothing special other than it was missing one of the buttons. haha.

 

[Murk]

My last 2 gfs and a girl in Ibiza I had a 1 year fling with. I approached the others and mentally don't register the ugly ones that approach me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

often enough ro where it’s not that unusual. But heavily dependent on how much I’m out & about and (due to my work) inversely to how much I have to mask.

 

[Stanley]

Rarely. Usually grannies from work. I play dumb & ignore.

Man don't pass up the gilfs!

 

[corrector]

Once in a blue moon.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

No direct sexual approach in my life.

4 or 5 overly obvious invitations to approach like rubbing on me pretending to be it on purpose.

Dozens of low profile invitations to approach (mostly eye contact and proximity).

Countless of physical contact cues (like grabbing my arm) while talking with some girl I knew or was introduced to me previously.

 

[Stanley]

No direct sexual approach in my life.

4 or 5 overly obvious invitations to approach like rubbing on me pretending to be it on purpose.

Dozens of low profile invitations to approach (mostly eye contact and proximity).

Countless of physical contact cues (like grabbing my arm) while talking with some girl I knew or was introduced to me previously.

I've been approached far more than I have approached women for most of my life, really up until recently. And my relationships were initiated by the woman each time, this really became a problem for me as I was attracting some 'damaged' women.

I have on one occasion been boldy approached sexually by a girl (22 hb8) while in a pit at a music venue in the city who pulled me aside because I was 'awkward' and immediately made it clear what she wanted. I was too drunk and didn't have my phone so I gave her my personal card and we became fwbs for a while after the fact

It was that interaction which made me realize how uncommon that was and I felt flattered and my confidence boosted

 

[SargeMaximus]

Very often when I was a teen/mid twenties. Not so often now but I actually know what to do about it now. Funny how that works