Woke Plates w/Strong Frames

[shwami_salami]

Im in grad school rn in nyc and I cant really seem to find any girls my age group here ora bit younger that share the same values as I do.I currently have 3 plates atm and the 19 yr old blond one(the hottest) has been shiit testing me like crazy recently. She is feminist woke all the works and I dont really care when Im ****ing them but hearing them outside
them outside of sex I feel like drilling a hole in my head lolol. The sex
is great and I feel like I should just compromise for peace.Its not bothering debating them.Is it even worth it to keep frame in terms of traditional values. ??How do you guys usually handle the girls lecturing about (1) toxic masculinity (2) wage gap (4) gender madness?I dont want to debate them. I can outsmart a wmn any day but I dont want the headache of dealing w/this nonsense.I feel like its not worth it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Do something that doesn’t involve discussing politics.

 

[shwami_salami]

I never initiate those convos. But if I try to stray away from that topic she'll bring it up alot.I brought up trad gndr roles once to shiit test her back nd she got mad at me and accussed me of being misogynist.Ur right tho its better to just drop it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Do not discuss. Keep piping her. Keep her in the “sex only” category. Simply find a more traditional woman when you are ready to settle down.

 

[FlirtLife]

How do you guys usually handle the girls lecturing about (1) toxic masculinity (2) wage gap (4) gender madness?I dont want to debate them.

Some studies break the wage gap into three categories: women with kids, women without kids, and men. The latter two categories are near parity, suggesting that having kids is the biggest factor in the wage gap. Maybe tease before and after saying that, to prevent the debate?

 

[HaleyBaron]

I loooove feminist chicks. They are some of the easiest to game because they are insecure and projecting af. All of them want to be submissive and none of them believe the values they spout from their mouth. Your mistake was acknowledging her on your level of intellect. Treat her like a child and don't take anything she says seriously. Believe me, she would become more affectionate to you for it.

 

[shwami_salami]

I loooove feminist chicks. They are some of the easiest to game because they are insecure and projecting af. All of them want to be submissive and none of them believe the values they spout from their mouth. Your mistake was acknowledging her on your level of intellect. Treat her like a child and don't take anything she says seriously. Believe me, she would become more affectionate to you for it.

I agree. so just ignore her right? I got this advice from another place that told me to outframe her instead of not engaging. "If you ignore her you will show her she can get away with it. The key is to outframe her hard by saying something hyper philosphical. I don't care if she doesn't get it. What I care about is her realizing I can destroy her quasi smartness." yeap thinking of her like a child will help in not getting annoyed.

 

[HaleyBaron]

You outframe her with your presence and actions. There's no need to talk to her on those topics unless you two have already ****ed and got intimate enough. Then you can try the talk method. Right now, you are still strangers and she hasn't earned the privilege to speak to you "deeply."

 

[Solomon]

I avoid talking about polticis but there is a chick I went out on a date with that I use to bang 4 years ago and she wouldn't stop talking about it even after I warned her to drop needless to say I ended up blocking her, she wasn't hot anymore either easily put on 50 pounds in the last 4 yearsthat's why she is talking all this jezebel babble

As a man I've come to realize that I have value, so if a woman doesn't heed my warning or we have different idelogies and she refuses to compromise I'm wasting my time, to many men give in, in hopes of getting the panties and are willing to compromise their value. In other words set your own boundaries and if a woman doesn't respect them move to one that will!

 

[DonJuanjr]

Guys are saying "there's no need to talk to her about that stuff".... I assume the chick is the one bringing it up, and it wouldn't be surprising for the chick to press for answers... I'd assume the right play would then be to just constantly change subjects until she keeps pressing and starting arguments, at which point it would be time to drop her?

Edit: Solomon posted^^ while I was writing this... Looks like this is the case...

 

[ThisIsSparta]

The question is.... at what point in your life will pvssy become not worth putting up with annoying women like that anymore?

I mean we know boys put up with EVERYTHING just to get laid, we all have been there. Men shouldnt act like that, especially men that think of themselves as high value men.

This needy for pvssy behaviour is breeding women that think they can get away with their feminist BS and they will carry it through their life.

Id rather "fight" any feminist and not get her pvssy then being a simp and agree to her BS for the sake of her pvssy.

In your case id tease the **** out of her by ridiculing her woke BS at every opportunity.

BUT, be aware that feminazis have more then once gone so far as hatefvcking guys and dragging them to courts with false rape-allegations.

 

[DonJuanjr]

In your case id tease the **** out of her by ridiculing her woke BS at every opportunity.

Could you give a couple examples of what you'd say?

 

[Murk]

I avoid woke feminists. If I'm with one, I'm so strong and outspoken in my beliefs that I naturally repel them. Ain't nobody got time for that. I have the last laugh by never seeing them again.

 

[Solomon]

The question is.... at what point in your life will pvssy become not worth putting up with annoying women like that anymore?

I mean we know boys put up with EVERYTHING just to get laid, we all have been there. Men shouldnt act like that, especially men that think of themselves as high value men.

This needy for pvssy behaviour is breeding women that think they can get away with their feminist BS and they will carry it through their life.

Id rather "fight" any feminist and not get her pvssy then being a simp and agree to her BS for the sake of her pvssy.

In your case id tease the **** out of her by ridiculing her woke BS at every opportunity.

BUT, be aware that feminazis have more then once gone so far as hatefvcking guys and dragging them to courts with false rape-allegations.

You hit the nail on the head for me, I didn't get to this point until 33-35 years old
As men your values come from your idelogies, princplies, morals and how you live your life
If you let a woman get away with murder on the first night just to smash it's gonna get worse usually instead of better
I recently had to relearn this again the hard way

It's not worth it

 

[shwami_salami]

You hit the nail on the head for me, I didn't get to this point until 33-35 years old
As men your values come from your idelogies, princplies, morals and how you live your life
If you let a woman get away with murder on the first night just to smash it's gonna get worse usually instead of better
I recently had to relearn this again the hard way

It's not worth it

Ye shes hot and my weakness is frame slipping with attractive girls.I let her get away with a little more shiit than she shouldand she knows it.Its something I need to work on moving forward. The sex is incredible tho so I just tolerate her rant
lectures smtimes. Its bad lol

 

[shwami_salami]

I disagree with the bolded. By ignoring her, what you are showing her is indifference.

Indifference is the most effective way of dealing with crap you don't wish to deal with and destroying her 'quasi smartness.' It will totally disarm her.

Why? Because she is expecting a reaction, expecting a 'fight' (so to speak). It feeds into her need for drama.

Don't give it to her. Play dumb, look at her like she has two heads, ignore, change subject, and continue fvcking like jack rabbits.



Are you? Not accusing, just asking.

thanks for ur suggestion.Maybe Im just making too much of a big deal over her opinions .I cant change someone elses mind if theyve made up their mind strongly as Ive made up mine abt this kinda stuff.I dont think shes looking for a fight she just wants to shift my opinion abt social issues. The strong aggressive frame is a major turnoff tho.

is it misogynist if I think wmen are inferior to men in some aspects? I dont think so. having this attitude actually gave me more success with them.

 

[shwami_salami]

deep down I dont think women r inferior. disappointing bcs I treat them good nd they lie and betray to me.If I treat them like there slightly beneath me they come craving after me.
yea she calls me ******* but lets me put her in her place every night.I dont get it.Its just how women r

and I dont think any women is exempt from this.Even the ones that claim they r good.

 

[Stanley]

Maybe Im just making too much of a big deal over her opinions

You are!

I cant change someone elses mind if theyve made up their mind strongly as Ive made up mine abt this kinda stuff.I dont think shes looking for a fight she just wants to shift my opinion abt social issues. The strong aggressive frame is a major turnoff tho.

Correct, don't bother trying to sway her or combat her, it is a waste of energy and time. Is it unattractive to be disagreeable? 100%, men that are super bull headed are equally unattractive to women at times. Stubbornness and close mindedness are not very appealing period. If you know how you feel on the matter then be self assured and brush it off. This is a plate, not a girlfriend. You guys are funk buddies so just keep it that way.

Your situation is a perfect example, she accuses you of being a misogynist but yet she's happy to fvck you like there is no tomorrow.
What does that tell you? It tells me that you should ignore her rants and just continue enjoying the hot sex and screwing like rabbits.

Bing bing bing

Watch her actions, not her words.

She attempts to sway you to her side, yet she is still consistently putting out for you right? Pay her opinions no mind and she 'should' pay your political views the same in this regard.

Also, from experience don't reveal the red pill to a more plugged in woman, she will not take well to it and feel attacked since it directly opposes the conditioning she's lived through. Back in november a fwb got into an argument over some new laws in our state (very very woke) and I showed my views unintentionally in response. She got livid, called me a bigot, misogynist and so on... I defused, applied silence and distance and she came back like a puppy dog. After she reflected she came to understand my viewpoint and I used a socratic approach to 'combat' her view. If you wanted to challenge it that would be the best way to go about it imo...

That said, if you have drastically different views on things why express them if you know the result with be discord? Just keep doing you, it isn't worth the fight especially when you aren't this girls bf.

is it misogynist if I think wmen are inferior to men in some aspects? I dont think so. having this attitude actually gave me more success with them.

No it isn't misogynist to say men and women have different strengths and weakness, but the way you phrased it here as inferior can ruffle some feathers and come across that way to some. Egalitarianism can piss off, but maybe frame it a bit better if you want to express that view and not be polarizing.

my unsolicited 2 cents

 

[shwami_salami]

Not all women are like this, I would never (and have never) called any of my boyfriends or husband derogatory names or attempted to argue with them about political shyt or much of anything else for that matter. I wouldn't be dating him OR fvcking him if I had that much disrespect for him.

That's not to say I don't express my opinions when necessary but calling him a misogynist or an a$$hole is not something I would EVER be inclined to do.

Woke feminists have issues, and many of them are misandrists. I know you're familiar with that toxic woke feminist forum Female Dating Strategy, you've written about it on SS, so you know this already.

Take them with a grain of salt and if you enjoy fvcking them, simply ignore the rants or attempts to wind you up and enjoy.

P.S. Try to not lump all women together in one category - ALL women are like this or that.

I have experienced that and it pissed me off (and turned me off) to no end.

Every woman (and man for that matter) is different. Judge the individual, not the gender.

yeapp lol I read the **** on there.whats weirder is that those gals combined the woke n the conservative all to benefit them.its like the worst combo ever lolol Its just hard
for me to trust any women.Even the ones who insist they r different those turn out to be the worst betrayers in the end.
I'd actually rather have a women b upfront abt their intentions but they never are.I dont blame them since they r acting in their best interests just like us.They r all kinda evil actresses but I dont blame em sin is tempting. Hell if I were a women it would be temptin to start an onlyfans and make quick money that way.Why not?

 

[FlirtLife]

Many of the things women complain about are the very things that attract them!

Not all women are like this, ...

P.S. Try to not lump all women together in one category - ALL women are like this or that.

I have experienced that and it pissed me off (and turned me off) to no end.

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