When love becomes complicated, what to do?

[Courageous]

Trying to fix, is this the solution? What is the best way to stop a relationship? Some will say we have to stop everything, not everyone has this ability. What to do when you are crazy about the person?

People who have a lot of experiences, could you analyze for me please?

 

[Stanley]

Dude, bail. Are you a teenager? This is some middleschool level conversation. This girls sounds livid with you so just move on.

 

[Courageous]

Dude, bail. Are you a teenager? This is some middleschool level conversation. This girls sounds livid with you so just move on.

No, I'm 24 years old. I haven't had enough experience with women
Can you help me ?

 

[Stanley]

You don't give any context or let us know what happened. From what you post she is pissed off at you for something.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No, I'm 24 years old. I haven't had enough experience with women
Can you help me ?

I already told you what to do in your last thread.

Walk. The Fvck. Away.

This is not hard. You keep trying to "salvage" the situation. Salvage what? Being treated like her b!tch? This woman has ZERO respect for you. None. There is no salvaging it. There is only you deciding you have had enough of this train wreck and doing the only thing that will help you, which is walk away.

I wanted to almost vomit in my mouth reading that text exchange.

Do you have ANY respect for yourself? Like even the littlest, tiniest piece of respect at all for yourself?

If yes, then walk away, delete her number and do not talk to this toxic woman ever again.

Then before doing anything else read every article, book, thread, etc with content on self improvement on this site twice before talking to another woman.

You have a LOT of work to do on yourself OP. There is no way in the world even in my worst days before I made it to this site that I would ever have tolerated a woman, or anyone for that matter, talking to me the way she was talking to you.

Honestly by the stuff you are saying you sound as if you enjoy the toxicity, so you might want to go get help for that. Whatever "that" is, it damn sure isn't love.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You should never let anyone speak to you that way, no matter how wrong you are. If you did something absolutely atrocious then you need to own that, but her level of anger is if you got her fired from a job or worse. That’s unhealthy stuff. I have no sympathy for you if you continue to talk to her. She’s telling you exactly what to do, leave her alone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

normally it is the woman begging to meet in person so that she can twist the knife during a breakup. Why are you?

OP doesn't want to break up with her...he wants to "fix it". Good luck with that. That relationship is broken beyond repair, and by the looks of it was probably that way from day 1.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Both of you are Toxic. Both of you should go your separate ways, become better people, and find someone new

 

[Modern Man Advice]

You're not living up to your username. Use some of it, have some self-respect and dignity, and as everyone has said here: walk away.

Now if you are set on "fixing" this and getting her back, then none of us can truly help you. Whoever says they can, is wasting your time. Straight up.

PS: Without context, it will be hard to give proper advice, you obviously did something to p**s her off. Own up to it, learn from it, and move on.

 

[lgbs2004]

I wanted to almost vomit in my mouth reading that text exchange.

Certainly painful to read

could you analyze for me please?

You're begging attention from a nasty b1tch who treats you like dirty. Stop embarrassing yourself, have some self esteem!

 

[threeforfree]

MEDIC!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Both of you are Toxic. Both of you should go your separate ways, become better people, and find someone new

Water tends to find it's level.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

All of you are wrong on this read. His only issue is the nice guy behavior.
If your girls are not feeling some degree of this kinda shyt towards you occasionally you are screwed. She will die of boredom.
There are degrees of this but you get the idea.
OP stop the please shyt talk and the begging. Say OK. Or silent.
She will be back.
I have a reply but you figure it out. This forum can't handle what needs to be said.
But anyhow. Stop the begging crap.
Hate and indignation is closer to love then this puzzy behavior lol

If she dont want to punch you sometimes your doing it wrong

Or maybe we just recognize toxicity when we see it?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

When love becomes complicated, what to do?

Um...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Context? Toxicity? This is how the loathe the begger. The medium is the message. She did not block him. <-----
Action not words.
Now I dont know the back story but polarity is required.
Comfort and boredom are the antithesis of a good relationship to grow.

This is a girl being a girl. OP problem is he is afraid of her emotions. Lol
All the replies requiring "the good girl" projection just don't understand woman's subtext or nature and need to study more.
I have had worst things said to me and still they cam back and smashed. Blocked unblocked.
Chic crack. Its not the girl. Its OPs lack of frame.

Anyone woman who talked to me like that would be getting blocked from my end so she wouldn't have to worry about it anymore. No time for this type of silliness and being treated like a peasant.

But that's the whole point. You teach people how to treat you. OP has taught her he is deserving of no respect so he gets none.

 

[kavi]

No, I'm 24 years old. I haven't had enough experience with women
Can you help me ?

Yes,

You need to be chill, when you are saying stuff like "please, I just wanna talk" or whatever it is giving her too much power and in the texts she is abusing you for her pleasure because you are allowing it to happen.

Can you not see that you are begging?

 

[kavi]

Anyone woman who talked to me like that would be getting blocked from my end so she wouldn't have to worry about it anymore. No time for this type of silliness and being treated like a peasant.

But that's the whole point. You teach people how to treat you. OP has taught her he is deserving of no respect so he gets none.

Yeah but blocking is a female move imo. If a woman talks to a guy like that he simply ignores it.

I would neither block nor next just be aloof to it. OP needs to be aloof to this cos it looks like ****-testing, drama, etc.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah but blocking is a female move imo. If a woman talks to a guy like that he simply ignores it.

I would neither block nor next just be aloof to it. OP needs to be aloof to this cos it looks like ****-testing, drama, etc.

It's neither male nor female. It's removing a toxic person from your life. But since most people actually enjoy toxicity many won't do it.