Chinese girl pursuing

[BackInTheGame78]

lol
This girl is a keeper man. Very kind polite and feminine. Any western woman next to her looks like a mule. I really want to try to pursue this but I’m not sure what approach. Never dated Chinese

When will men learn. This girl is NOT a keeper unless you practice domestic violence. Most women who end up in those situations do so for a reason...because they LIKE being with men like that deep down and feel that's all they are worth.

But on top of this...how the hell would you know she is a keeper after 3 weeks?? 3 weeks and you aren't even dating her, you are acting like a total simp. No wonder she is brushing you off.

But as usual she loves the free attention you are giving.

 

[manfrombelow]

When will men learn. This girl is NOT a keeper unless you practice domestic violence. Most women who end up in those situations do so for a reason...because they LIKE being with men like that deep down and feel that's all they are worth.

But on top of this...how the hell would you know she is a keeper after 3 weeks?? 3 weeks and you aren't even dating her, you are acting like a total simp. No wonder she is brushing you off.

But as usual she loves the free attention you are giving.

How about discussing the fact that some men (like OP) have this unhealthy and unreasonable tendency to insist some particular woman is "a keeper" when the reality is they have never had any sex, or intimate interaction, and virtually have not known almost anything about her?

When will some men (like OP) learn that even after years of marriage and having kids, she might not even a "keeper"?

 

[Bokanovsky]

lol
This girl is a keeper man. Very kind polite and feminine. Any western woman next to her looks like a mule. I really want to try to pursue this but I’m not sure what approach. Never dated Chinese

You will find out the hard way that she is NOT. Any time a woman tells you about domestic violence, that’s your cue to hit the eject button. Think of it as an early warning system.

 

[RicBoy]

Take your time. Let it happen naturally. Let the idea grow in her head. Don't mention anything about her or her ex or her and her ex.

But stay out of beta orbiter zone. Don't start spending money on her or anything.

I texted a good morning msg to her something I would never do with western women especially before sex.
Good morning!
I hope your day is as beautiful as you.
Have a fantastic day

she replied quite well with emojis wishing me too and then sent me 2 pictures of the place she is and walking the dog.
I’m guessing if she wasn’t interested she would have cut it short and especially no pics.

 

[RicBoy]

I don’t agree with the fact guys here are saying women are women don’t matter rhe background. That is disregarding totally many studies. For example Robert Greene in laws of human nature speaks of the influence of the group. The group in this case country and background has major influence.
Like I said before here in Finland women have body count of 15, 30 even 100 plus.
You will never see this in my country Portugal china and more conservative cultures

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I texted a good morning msg to her something I would never do with western women especially before sex.
Good morning!
I hope your day is as beautiful as you.
Have a fantastic day

she replied quite well with emojis wishing me too and then sent me 2 pictures of the place she is and walking the dog.
I’m guessing if she wasn’t interested she would have cut it short and especially no pics.

Of course she did...more free attention for her while giving you nothing in return. Notice how anytime you try anything more than that you get brushed off tho.

If she was truly interested that wouldn't be happening, and make no mistake her husband wouldn't be an issue either.

The excuses only happen with guys she isn't interested in. Keep simping tho OP. Gonna not feel great when you see her with a guy who does none of that stuff and they head up to her room as you are walking past them.

Some people have to learn things the hard way I guess.

 

[RicBoy]

Of course she did...more free attention for her while giving you nothing in return. Notice how anytime you try anything more than that you get brushed off tho.

If she was truly interested that wouldn't be happening, and make no mistake her husband wouldn't be an issue either.

The excuses only happen with guys she isn't interested in. Keep simping tho OP. Gonna not feel great when you see her with a guy who does none of that stuff and they head up to her room as you are walking past them.

Some people have to learn things the hard way I guess.

She is Chinese man, I bet if she had 3 guys all her life probably too many

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She is Chinese man, I bet if she had 3 guys all her life probably too many

Yeah...here we go with the justification and the pedastalizing and telling everyone "but this girl is special!". Simps are gonna simp I guess.

She isn't special OP. You don't know anything about her. All the sh!t she told you could be made up BS...for all you know she is there cause her husband put her out for cheating on him.

She is a woman like any other. And you aren't gonna "nice guy" yourself into her pants so I would suggest coming up with a different strategy but she may already realize you are way too invested at this point.

Hungry mouths don't get fed and you are telling this woman with the way you are acting that you are starving.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You will find out the hard way that she is NOT. Any time a woman tells you about domestic violence, that’s your cue to hit the eject button. Think of it as an early warning system.

The majority of the time women are with guys like that for a reason. Because deep down they think that's normal and what it means to be loved and it's all they feel worthy of. They have low to no self esteem and think they have little worth.

Therefore if she ever finds herself in a healthy and non-abusive relationship she starts feeling that she isn't worthy of that and feels like there is "something wrong" with the guy after a while...that the guy can do so much better than her and feels he will leave her for someone else at some point. She doesn't feel worthy of being treated well or loved normally.

Women like this will sabotage their own happiness and relationships that are going well because it freaks them out after a while. Seems counterintuitive but I have been through it and seen it time and time again to know it's accurate.

So I agree...you run, not walk, away as fast as possible. Or at least realize that she can never be anything more than a plate if you are determined to fvck her.

 

[RicBoy]

Yeah...here we go with the justification and the pedastalizing and telling everyone "but this girl is special!".

She isn't special OP. You don't know anything about her. All the sh!t she told you could be made up BS...for all you know she is there cause her husband put her out for cheating on him.

She is a woman like any other. And you aren't gonna "nice guy" yourself into her pants so I would suggest coming up with a different strategy but she may already realize you are way too invested at this point.

Hungry mouths don't get fed and you are telling this woman with the way you are acting that you are starving.

I have at my work around 15 couples of Philippines married. It’s one and done. There’s no let divorce it’s not you it’s me. It’s the end of the line.
Chinese girl is either for relationship and marriage or nothing I don’t need her as plate. She isn’t that physically attractive and I have other 2 girls for banging. She won’t be a plate anyways, she told me in 5 years she went one time to a bar, she doesn’t go bars, drinks or smokes. She stays home studying reading books and all that stuff. Not everyone is a slut man

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have at my work around 15 couples of Philippines married. It’s one and done. There’s no let divorce it’s not you it’s me. It’s the end of the line.
Chinese girl is either for relationship and marriage or nothing I don’t need her as plate. She isn’t that physically attractive and I have other 2 girls for banging. She won’t be a plate anyways, she told me in 5 years she went one time to a bar, she doesn’t go bars, drinks or smokes. She stays home studying reading books and all that stuff. Not everyone is a slut man

Keep believing this fairy tale you are creating in your head Prince Charming.

So you want to marry a "meh" looking Chinese woman because you "know" she won't divorce you?

There's confidence talking. I think you are beyond help bro. I'm done trying because you didn't post this looking for advice you posted this to try and get support for your simping behavior. Sorry bro, you aren't getting it from me.

 

[RicBoy]

Keep believing this fairy tale you are creating in your head Prince Charming.

So you want to marry a "meh" looking Chinese woman because you "know" she won't divorce you?

There's confidence talking. I think you are beyond help bro. I'm done trying because you didn't post this looking for advice you posted this to try and get support for your simping behavior. Sorry bro, you aren't getting it from me.

She comes back to the hotel in couple of days and I’ll ask her again in a date

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She comes back to the hotel in couple of days and I’ll ask her again in a date

And you will get brushed off again.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Ric,
I have been dating Chinese Ladies for 20+Years,one for almost 18 years...Western women no longer interest me,they might be chalk and cheese...Appreciate them?...Yes....Understand them?...No...They are inheritors of a culture maybe 6.000 years old and it shows...Your observations are on the ball,I suggest you show restraint and slowly build rapport....Good Luck!

 

[RicBoy]

Hi Ric,
I have been dating Chinese Ladies for 20+Years,one for almost 18 years...Western women no longer interest me,they might be chalk and cheese...Appreciate them?...Yes....Understand them?...No...They are inheritors of a culture maybe 6.000 years old and it shows...Your observations are on the ball,I suggest you show restraint and slowly build rapport....Good Luck!

Problem is she never initiates texts and it’s starting to bother me a bit

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Ric,
Texts are worrying you?....Forget about it....Frankly I don't understand the conventions relating to them either...
Just be patient and she will come...Mainland Chinese are unobtrusive they let the Man Lead...I shall forewarn you that
generally they are not interested in kissing either,perhaps that has something to do with Oral Hygiene in the East.

 

[RicBoy]

Hi Ric,
Texts are worrying you?....Forget about it....Frankly I don't understand the conventions relating to them either...
Just be patient and she will come...Mainland Chinese are unobtrusive they let the Man Lead...I shall forewarn you that
generally they are not interested in kissing either,perhaps that has something to do with Oral Hygiene in the East.

I tell you how it went so far. After 5 days knowing her and talking to her face to face down in the hotel we both live, she went on holidays 5 days to another city. Before she left we met 5 min for saying goodbye and told her to text me when she arrived safely. She did text me and all was sweet.
Wednesday 2 days later I sent a morning text and she replied nicely with emoji and for the first time she sent me pics of her walking the dog and whatnot. All good. In the evening I asked how her day was and she cut me short and I hinted that maybe I’m texting too much and she said she need more time for herself. Hinting she is going through divorce and doing final essays for school which are late. This was all

I think I’m gonna back off and see if she initiates and maybe text her once or twice a week only and not ask her out yet? Husband hasn’t signed divorce papers yet and she left home 3 weeks ago and her clothes still there.

 

[RicBoy]

This is fvcking cringe, you don't even know this woman and your texting like this is your wife who has svcked your d!ck for years.


Translation "I wanted to get some d!ck from you, but you behaved like a simp, not escalating, or not walking away when I rejected your date offer, now I'll put you in the simp category so I can have my validation when you text me all those cringe messages, at least my hubby is an alpha who doesn't treat me like I'm a queen without even fvcked me first"

She is not western you need to chase be nice and what not cringe stuff. I don’t do that with western. I escalate sexting and close. East and western is like earth and mars to different worlds

 

[RicBoy]

This is fvcking cringe, you don't even know this woman and your texting like this is your wife who has svcked your d!ck for years.


Translation "I wanted to get some d!ck from you, but you behaved like a simp, not escalating, or not walking away when I rejected your date offer, now I'll put you in the simp category so I can have my validation when you text me all those cringe messages, at least my hubby is an alpha who doesn't treat me like I'm a queen without even fvcked me first"

I know the game man I just use different approach depending on nationality for example. Yesterday night I was having dinner with a girl from Iraq that sat in front of me and she stayed for 7 hours. I paused the convo she said what? And I told her straight I want you in my bed tonight. She laughed and loved it.
I would never do this to a Chinese woman, I would say she is an angel and I had never seen a girl this beautiful in my life or some non sense like that.

 

[FlirtLife]

She is not western you need to chase be nice and what not cringe stuff. I don’t do that with western. I escalate sexting and close. East and western is like earth and mars to different worlds

China had a "one child" policy for decades, which had some ugly facets and resulted in far more sons than daughters. Those women grew up outnumbered by men, many of whom can't find a wife in China. The women have a lot more power in that sexual marketplace.

If you met her in China, you'd be exotic and be the one getting chased. But you met her in Europe, where exotic men are the norm. My guess is that she's trying to figure out how hot of a guy she can get. Would it be fair to say both of you see each other as fallback plans?