RazorRambo24
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It was when I was just starkly positive.. and just legit doing my best to be a good person. What does that mean? Not doing anything for attention, being unbiased in my opinions, being a good mediator for arguments and using logic over emotion 100% of the time. Something about a strong positive attitude just seems to turn women on.. Of course guys respect you more for it too, but I've had chicks that otherwise called me an "*******" over simple little things I said or did suddenly act nice af to me and always take my side on any menial things, like choosing what bar or restaurant to go to amongst a group of friends , or just praising me amongst the group like "<raozrrealname> always dresses the nicest, hes always <compliment>..
This might just be partly because otherwise I was really carefree and usually arrogant and blunt about stuff, a bit reckless at times.. which seems to turn off some people while other people appreciate my personality..
The first time I ever got head by 2 girls at the same time was a similar situation.. I was just being positive/good. I remember being attracted to both of them but not really thinking about boning either one of them and just hanging out for the sake of showing them a good time.. It was one of those times none of my boys were around that weekend , and I was just in the city lookin for sh.t to do. I just remember being super kind and nice to them. The first night I just dropped them off nto thinking anything and just wanting to get rest. The second day I took them to a forest preserve/park and planned out a picnic day. Was grilling for them, iI had premarinated stuff prepared it all and everything for them. and they wre just mad impressed.. once the drinks started flowing I had no idea where it would turn.. I remember thinking I'd probably hang out with them for a bit and then hit up some other friends and do something else.. Glad i stuck around .. still have the video of them both giving me head at the same time for keepsake.
Overall, I tried to carry this type of attitude throughout my interaction with women. ofc a few hiccups and bad situations in the way threw me off kilter a bit.. But I since then got back on that same grind.. of being Kind and Respectful more than anything. When I think back to my pops sayin that no matter what you do with women, always be kind and respectful.. he was right. It made a huge differenc ein how i view women sexually too.. Before i'd view women during sex as almost just sexual objects/made for my pleasure.. but thse days, especially with my plates, when im having sex, I feel a great sense of love/care and respect for them.. which makes the sex even better, and then when they do nice things for me, its hard not to appreciate it.. In the past, women I had sex with would suddenly start being bitches and we'd start arguing and fighting alot.. I haven't had that stuff happen in a while now.
Take what you will from this.
P.S Part of me believes that a huge part of my life journey was just to start becoming nice, more respectful, kind to people , to women, and respectful to myself and my body, etc .. and I think while I still struggle to be super positive/kind to everyone, I believe I can get back into that mode and really fulfill that aspect of myself on a spiritual level.. as part of my personal mission
This might just be partly because otherwise I was really carefree and usually arrogant and blunt about stuff, a bit reckless at times.. which seems to turn off some people while other people appreciate my personality..
The first time I ever got head by 2 girls at the same time was a similar situation.. I was just being positive/good. I remember being attracted to both of them but not really thinking about boning either one of them and just hanging out for the sake of showing them a good time.. It was one of those times none of my boys were around that weekend , and I was just in the city lookin for sh.t to do. I just remember being super kind and nice to them. The first night I just dropped them off nto thinking anything and just wanting to get rest. The second day I took them to a forest preserve/park and planned out a picnic day. Was grilling for them, iI had premarinated stuff prepared it all and everything for them. and they wre just mad impressed.. once the drinks started flowing I had no idea where it would turn.. I remember thinking I'd probably hang out with them for a bit and then hit up some other friends and do something else.. Glad i stuck around .. still have the video of them both giving me head at the same time for keepsake.
Overall, I tried to carry this type of attitude throughout my interaction with women. ofc a few hiccups and bad situations in the way threw me off kilter a bit.. But I since then got back on that same grind.. of being Kind and Respectful more than anything. When I think back to my pops sayin that no matter what you do with women, always be kind and respectful.. he was right. It made a huge differenc ein how i view women sexually too.. Before i'd view women during sex as almost just sexual objects/made for my pleasure.. but thse days, especially with my plates, when im having sex, I feel a great sense of love/care and respect for them.. which makes the sex even better, and then when they do nice things for me, its hard not to appreciate it.. In the past, women I had sex with would suddenly start being bitches and we'd start arguing and fighting alot.. I haven't had that stuff happen in a while now.
Take what you will from this.
P.S Part of me believes that a huge part of my life journey was just to start becoming nice, more respectful, kind to people , to women, and respectful to myself and my body, etc .. and I think while I still struggle to be super positive/kind to everyone, I believe I can get back into that mode and really fulfill that aspect of myself on a spiritual level.. as part of my personal mission
