Thoughts on Going on Dates for the Hell of it?

[member160292]

As you know I’m in a relationship. Though, I’d like to constantly brush up on my social skills. Anyone here have a similar perspective?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Meaning- taking your woman on dates or dating other women?

 

[member160292]

Meaning- taking your woman on dates or dating other women?

The latter…

 

[Divorced w 3]

The latter…

Dude… lol

 

[corrector]

Some relationship.

 

[member160292]

Feedback taken, thanks for setting me straight. Going to cancel the date tonight

 

[Gamisch]

Feedback taken, thanks for setting me straight. Going to cancel the date tonight

I disagree with this.

You should be the one in the " I am not reliable " driver seat rather than the woman.

Look at my picture (good guy Greg). This is typical GGG thinking. And that's great untill she starts to date other people and its not so great anymore for you.

We can take about God, karma ect but that's always based upon a personal opinion. We all know that abundance only comes when you have options. So yes, you could cancel the date and just leave it at an ego boost. Personally I would give new chick a change to proof herself.

I rather be a happy azzhole than a depressed GoodGuy Greg .

 

[Divorced w 3]

I disagree with this.

You should be the one in the " I am not reliable " driver seat rather than the woman.

Look at my picture (good guy Greg). This is typical GGG thinking. And that's great untill she starts to date other people and its not so great anymore for you.

We can take about God, karma ect but that's always based upon a personal opinion. We all know that abundance only comes when you have options. So yes, you could cancel the date and just leave it at an ego boost. Personally I would give new chick a change to proof herself.

I rather be a happy azzhole than a depressed GoodGuy Greg .

Yeah but he’s in a relationship he’s not spinning. Have some character. If he defined the relationship he either wants out or doesn’t have the guts to maintain Frame.

 

[EyeBRollin]

The latter…

Don’t get caught!

Also, question why you are dating women just “for the sake of it.” Even single guys shouldn’t be doing that. If you want a side piece at least that is a defined goal!

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah but he’s in a relationship he’s not spinning. Have some character. If he defined the relationship he either wants out or doesn’t have the guts to maintain Frame.

From a moral standpoint you are 100%right.

I just think it's good for a man to know he can and will replace her at any given moment . Modern dating and morals dont mix that well.

New girl would become the first plate, the mistress. Gf stays the main one.

 

[Divorced w 3]

From a moral standpoint you are 100%right.

I just think it's good for a man to know he can and will replace her at any given moment . Modern dating and morals dont mix that well.

New girl would become the first plate, the mistress. Gf stays the main one.

I still think it’s bad frame. Your reputation is priceless. Be the guy who tells it straight and honest. Alpha men don’t sneak.

 

[member160292]

Interesting insights, haven’t canceled yet…
My uncle always said to have a side chick with a GF, he’s single approaching 60 now and having a rough time.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Interesting insights, haven’t canceled yet…
My uncle always said to have a side chick with a GF, he’s single approaching 60 now and having a rough time.

Your uncle is 60 and single having a rough time and you’re taking his advice. Sit with that one for a minute.

 

[member160292]

Your uncle is 60 and single having a rough time and you’re taking his advice. Sit with that one for a minute.

He told me this 25 years ago …actually at the same age I am now lol

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I don’t give women that aren’t putting out my energy for free.

 

[Divorced w 3]

He told me this 25 years ago …actually the at the same age I am now lol

If it were me, and you are operating in a relationship of definite exclusivity, you should tell her you want to begin to see other people. You can have w couple mojitos first and turn on Popular by Nada Surf while you’re doing it in order to lighten the mood, but you should do it. I am not joking you, my 5 year old told me yesterday that he didn’t want to advertise to the class that he broke up with the girl that called him her bf, because he didn’t want to hurt her. Be more mature than a 5 year old.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Interesting insights, haven’t canceled yet…
My uncle always said to have a side chick with a GF, he’s single approaching 60 now and having a rough time.

Probably not the best example then lol.

Having one chick does make you soft though. There is truth to this.

 

[member160292]

I’m thinking this would add more drama to my life than its worth. Hell, it was tough to break up with my plates when going exclusive.

These male urges for something different we get sometimes fellas….

 

[Divorced w 3]

I’m thinking this would add more drama to my life than its worth. Hell, it was tough to break up with my plates when going exclusive.

These male urges for something different we get sometimes fellas….

Seriously, Nada Surf laid it all out back in the early 90’s. Just go listen.

 

[Dr.Suave]

@Chowdah The problem is not so much going out with another girl. The problem is going behind you girlfriend´s back.

If you have a good frame in your relationship, you can see you girlfriend, have sex with her, and as you cuddle you can say something like "Listen, I want you to hear it from me. Last night I went out to dinner with a female friend." and if she trusts you and you maintain frame you can get away with it.