I cant speak for others but for myself, I've been involved in the nightlfie over 10 years. 6 years hardcore meaning like every single weekend .. Nightlife = going to bars /clubs with friends and to pick up women.
See, that first section explains it all right then and there. You literally put in a ton of time and effort into playing a numbers game in a nightlife setting. Based on your description of this, it literally sounds like this was a hobby/lifestyle for you. It's like guys that are very fit, they exercise or go to the gym multiple days per week and have good dietary and sleeping habits. It's not like they go to the gym here and there, sometimes eat well or have erratic sleep habits. Unless a man is actively going out of his way to do what you did, there's no way he'd ever rack up those kind of numbers, it's just not possible. Also, a lot of men have many other things going on in their lives and may not have the time or energy to devote into a hobby like that. There is nothing wrong with this, it's just not something I'd be willing or able to realistically pull off. I also hate the nightlife scene and never felt natural in that environment, even if I tried it would never work.
If you bang one a week for 20 years, that's 1040. Not unimaginable, really. Now do I buy all the LARPing on this board? No
That's the thing, how would a man be able to meet a brand new woman every single week, two weeks or even a month? This could be on tinder, the gym, class, grocery store or anything you could imagine. Now, out of all of these women how many would he be able to get out on a first date, meetup, hang out or whatever? Now, from here how many can he potentially have a one night stand with, first date sex etc.? If that doesn't happen, how many of these first dates/meetups would follow through on a 2nd date? Then from there how many would he be having sex with?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
You have to live in a large city, pretty much. Apps can be good for volume (quality not so much).
I'm not saying it's impossible, it would just require a ridiculous amount of time and energy. Most women aren't just going to show up to your house to get ****ed, this does happen but they generally expect a first date as a MINIMUM lol. This means you have to dress appropriately, leave the house and arrive at wherever you are meeting up, then spend time interacting with her, etc. She may be down for first date sex or maybe you just go on a second date and just repeat this process again, meaning a lot of time is invested. There's also a high probability of being rejected or her losing interest, though if a woman is going on a first date with you then she at least has some interest. If you are able to get her on a 2nd date you have a much higher chance of success. A lot of men get no first dates at all or may get them but ultimately it leads to nothing.
I mean yes, I don't disagree that it's taxing. I'd emphasize the role of sheer time, though -- even one every two months gets you to 120 in 20 years. What a lot of these guys won't tell you, of course, is that these chicks are far from models. Low standards are the secret of every keyboard Casanova.
I've had handfuls of times where I banged a chick that was average.. never any that were below average however.. but I mostly have high standards.. something my friends always admired about me. but to me, its not a thing about standards as much as I simply am attracted to good looking women, and if a girl doesnt meet the mark, she just doesnt meet that mark.. its not that they are ugly to me, but im turned on by hot girls
I totally agree. There is a guy that I knew in my area, no longer lives, here that claimed to have a high notch count. He did indeed meetup with women that were decent or even attractive but many of those he was fooling around with were legitimately trashy, unattractive, fat, etc. One thing I also noticed was that there was no real "type" that he went for. One was this super trashy, ghetto white woman. Another was a fat and trashy woman from a rural part of our state. Another was this super liberal/SJW type with short hair lol. One was some girl from Africa, etc. I could list a whole different range here but it was interesting to see.
In all honesty, my only real standard (for FWB/ONS anyway) is skinny, younger than me and not aggressively ugly facially. Of course even that's "picky" to some -- I've seen some serious bottom feeders in my day.
That other poster went into detail of how he attained a high count, and it was because he literally dedicated his lifestyle to game/picking up women, which he did by going out on a weekly basis. Most guys don't even have the time or energy for something like this if you have things like a career or other hobbies in your life. Some guys also might not be into nightlife or spam approaching in environments like this. Not only do you have to physically go out of your way to attend these places, but you'd also have to be willing to go through potentially a ton of bull****, rejection, etc. In addition to this, it would also potentially be an expensive endeavor, most places in a good sized metro will have cover charges and you are most likely going to buy yourself or maybe a woman a drink, it would add up quickly. @RazorRambo24 literally put a ton of work into attaining this high of a body count and invested a ton of time, energy and money into this, which is not something most men would be willing to do. Some other guys may prefer to dedicate this spare time towards a money making side hustle, investing or maybe just enjoying other hobbies instead. This is not at all something most men would ever do, nothing wrong with it at all but I sure as hell wouldn't be willing or able to.
LOL, you are not north of 3 digits, that's extremely rare, at my size I'm in the top 1%, no god damn way you have that lol. Chances are that the majority of the people on here claiming to have these notch coutns well into the hundreds are completely making this up or at best heavily exaggerating. @RazorRambo24 is a believable example though because he specifically broke down that he made nightlife and gaming women a lifestyle, meaning he invested an insane amount of time and energy in an environment filled with women that are looking to have a good time that they totally forget about the next day.
OP said all chicks included. That said, I didn't include the times I've directly paid in my tally. I damn sure included fat/unattractive girls.
In the presence of a true badass omG
Yeah a lot of guys probably exaggerate, but there are posters here who likely do have absurd numbers and every so often post 'receipts'.
