30 Year old Line Cook

[Epicwinguy]

Can a 30 Year old line cook still bang the waitresses? If so, how?

 

[Stanley]

Game them? The chefs who were older at my old country club job got with the waitresses. Everyone is funking everyone in service jobs like those. Propinquity is your friend, build rapport, be friendly and be the fun dude at work.

When I was bartending at this same club every girl would make an effort to hide back in my liquor room or chat with me. If the wait staff is escaping the floor looking for downtime be the guy they want to chat with. Every job in food service women have come on to me hard, the only thing consistent was I was fun to be around. I never bothered with any of em since I needed the job though. I can recall one line cook who everyone liked. He wasn't attractive and he looked like a greasy punk rocker and wore a fake Rolex Submariner. He was known to get with girls at work (not they were all that attractive either) because he was fun to be around. Dude was always saying hello to everyone and was just a charming guy in general. I had a shift once on the day my dog died, my man saw I was down and made me fresh donuts, that was awesome. If the kitchen had extra food he'd put it aside for the wait staff to eat. Little things like that just made him a cool dude, pair that with his ability to flirt with the chicks at work and he was in.

So be fun and likeable above all else is what I'm thinking. ****ting where you eat though...

 

[Epicwinguy]

Game them? The chefs who were older at my old country club job got with the waitresses. Everyone is funking everyone in service jobs like those. Propinquity is your friend, build rapport, be friendly and be the fun dude at work.

When I was bartending at this same club every girl would make an effort to hide back in my liquor room or chat with me. If the wait staff is escaping the floor looking for downtime be the guy they want to chat with. Every job in food service women have come on to me hard, the only thing consistent was I was fun to be around. I never bothered with any of em since I needed the job though. I can recall one line cook who everyone liked. He wasn't attractive and he looked like a greasy punk rocker and wore a fake Rolex Submariner. He was known to get with girls at work (not they were all that attractive either) because he was fun to be around. Dude was always saying hello to everyone and was just a charming guy in general. I had a shift once on the day my dog died, my man saw I was down and made me fresh donuts, that was awesome. If the kitchen had extra food he'd put it aside for the wait staff to eat. Little things like that just made him a cool dude, pair that with his ability to flirt with the chicks at work and he was in.

So be fun and likeable above all else is what I'm thinking. ****ting where you eat though...

How can I practice game to get better at it? I mean besides running up to women on the sidewalk, which any normal person with an ounce of self awareness and idea of social norms knows isn't normal? I was a line cook for many years and never figured it out.

 

[Stanley]

How can I practice game to get better at it? I mean besides running up to women on the sidewalk, which any normal person with an ounce of self awareness and idea of social norms knows isn't normal? I was a line cook for many years and never figured it out.

When you were in the kitchen did you make attempts at conversing with the staff? In my jobs in service I would always make an effort to chat to people even if I didn't like them. This made work feel less like work and more like a social thing as well and everyone's mood seemed to get better. Little things went a long way as well. Always thanking the staff for menial things and saying their name makes them feel appreciated. Knowing there is some camaraderie amongst us also made situations where **** hit the fan go over smoothly. Kinda like a " I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine" situation.

I would always bro down with our dishwasher who was a standoffish bum, he did not like me at first, but I always thanked him for clearing and cleaning. In time we became work buds and he actually saved my ass when a waitress at work yanked on my nuts when putting away plates and later claimed I sexually assaulted her (along with previously mentioned line cook) she got fired. Dishwasher saw the whole thing. This same dishwasher was this homely little dude in his late 20s that would always complain to me about some dumb 19 year old girls he was seeing. My man was always ALWAYS hitting on the waitresses who were much younger. He was shameless and with time he did hook up with several of them. I think persistence in the work place and building rapport is the way to go. Mode one probably isn't the preferred method... I still expect 'someone' to chime in though lol

Ask yourself this, are you well liked and social at work?
If not that's probably the place to start. At my current job which is not in service I've made an effort to get to know my coworkers. I am the only man at this job and my coworkers are all attractive 20 somethings. I go out of my way to chat with them and they do the same. This turned out to be a double edge sword as one girl became my summer oneitis and ****ed with my head and brought me here. Another co-worker got involved with me and the oneitis which made work an anxious drama filled hellhole. That second girl a few weeks back literally stripped down at work in front of me during closing so I was doing something 'right'. Another girl at work invited me to her wedding because I went out of my way to always say hello with no intention of gaming her period. I gave her a bottle of wine as a housewarming gift and she invited me. This weekend these two coworkers invited me out to trivia and want to set me up with their friend (pass). All i've done is be charming, personable and receptive, BUT I had to take the initiative to be social.

Honestly, I am trying to not get involved with chicks at work now. It isn't worth the drama. I was actually debating making a lengthy post on this... That said leaving past jobs i've had these girls come out of the woodwork so there's always that...
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So TLDR without all the anecdotal stories
-Aim to be a social butterfly
-Be the guy the waitstaff wants to chat with
-Build rapport over time and make use of propinquity
-Be persistent, but not pushy (don't loose your job)
-Make a dedicated effort to say hello and converse with your coworkers
-find ways to make use of your position to benefit wait staff, they will do the same for you.
-Know whether or not it is worth pursuing a girl at work
-Never add to a negative vibe in the workplace
-Initiate initiate INITIATE ↓

Don't hide behind the window in the kitchen. Talk to the staff! Our cooks were always a blast to chat with and were such characters. I loved seeing servers go up to the window to get food fired and hear some snarky coy remark from one of the line cooks. It made for such an entertaining work environment. Be that personable likeable dude and you're golden

 

[RazorRambo24]

Man in restaurants big and small, banging the waitresses is like something that you just do .. lol I know it sounds funny. But, if the dishwasher is getting some and you're not, theres an issue. I've worked in 2 diff restaurants but known people who worked in more, suhc as waitresses and whatnot.. Basically, theres always at least 1 guy at the restaurant whos boning someone else at a restaurant. It can be a cook and a bartender, a busboy and a bartender, a waitress and a dishwasher, a cook and a waitress.. a server and a manager.. You never know till you kinda know or hear about it. Some restaurants are worse than others and can have multiple people banging each other , hence the "at least 1 guy".

as far as how? <- if you're not already talking to them. its not likely to happen. all you have to do is talk , and then make moves.. simple as that. you all have immense common ground to relate to

 

[characternote]

all you have to do is talk , and then make moves.. simple as that. you all have immense common ground to relate to

This is basically the answer. Very simple. Although an important caveat is that the result is out of your control.
When it all comes down too it, 'game' is really just flirting/shooting your shot/chatting.
For that to 'work', there is a pre-requisiste that she is sexually attracted to you, basically. This isn't some 'skill' whereby you can learn stuff here that makes the girls want you
You could chat with and flirt with every girl you work with, but that doesn't mean any of them will wanna bang you.
You need to find out though! So shoot your shot with the ones you like and find out.

 

[2Rocky]

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