Build a plate workshop

[Divorced w 3]

Alright guys here’s where I am at. I’m at the bar being all beta watching the college football championship with my two friends and my buddy starts talking to the girl and guy next to him. You have to understand that the guy talking is the loudest, largest and legitimately craziest person usually in any location but he’s not a bull****ter either. His wife is also a legit 9, even post pregnancy. I never have not seen him date anyone but a total smoke.

So we learn quickly that the two he’s speaking with are brother and sister. The girl looks good but disheveled a bit, cute but not trying which I liked. Kind of doe eyed, and she’s a spin instructor. My boy is an entrepreneur and one of his assets is a gym. He started to talk about buying bikes to get get started. Anyway so I work my way over, about 30 minutes in and I just pick spots where I am adding thoughts. this girl is 25 and my friend is converting every life lesson he can throw her way. Turns out the brother is a college student across the street from my former house (which is crazy bc I’m 100 miles from there at this moment) and I start breaking his balls about parking and speeding on my street. His sister and everyone get a kick out of it.

so my other boy starts getting a little pissed, he doesn’t say why but it’s obvious he’s trying to run game on this girl. I make a comment to my loud mouth friend that my boy knows im
Batman and he’s not happy about what’s coming. He in turn makes me a bet and he challenges me $50 I can’t get the sisters number. Hours go by. I stay away but once in awhile pick spots but I don’t get too involved except periodically and then I’ll throw the hand on the shoulder briefly and do kino.

so I figure if I am getting the girls number I need to get in with little brother who, with all credit to being cool and letting us chat was still being the good brother. So I talk a bit about Going out in the college town, ask what he’s studying, suggest he intern, ask How is dating going and then I try to get sis attention (who I playfully suggested earlier that she was a bit of a bad girl) so I show brother what I was doing at 21 and I show him that a state winner for miss America follows me on IG and sis can’t help but notice. So I even get to the point about telling bro after he lets me know that he had a couple ONS that im pulling mid 20’s out of the local bar and having a little success there myself. We bond.

I walk out as we leave not sure if/how I am going to get this number. My boy reminds me I owe him $50 so I turn around. I walk right back by myself and I throw my arm around bro shoulder and I say I would like to take your sister out. Then I look at her and say how about we go out sometime. She’s smiling as only a 25 year old who wants to say yes could but she says I can’t in front of my brother. Asks my age. I say 38. She gets this omg smile look and Iook the whole time right back at her. Bro says we should swap emails since my boy had it from the business conversation. I say tell ya what take mine and text me if you want. Im not going to twist your arm. She texts me on the spot. I say alright you guys get home safe and I walk out.

what now guys. Build a plate workshop.

 

[Stanley]

So...you're in right?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Idk. You guys tell me what to do. I am so much better having taken lessons from this board that I am open to a best ideas workshop and I think it’ll help a lot of us. Use this case study. Tell me what’s the next move

 

[RazorRambo24]

Thats' cool and all man but a super long story to tell us you got a girls number. BUt, I get it. Was a proud moment and honestly you wrote everything really well.. I got a real sense of everything that went down. Not gonna lie, I'm the same way when I describe **** to people...

I was hoping you said you got it in with her because in a competitive market, no one cares if you got the number.. We used to roast each other growin g up if someone talked about getting a number.. like "what else u get,a handshake too?" because its all about.. CLOSING the deal. Capitalizing on that poonani. Anyone can get a number.. but can you glaze those donuts and spin that plate?

Regardless, I'd be remiss if I didn't celebrate some number pulls in my time. and it looks like you want advice on what to do next..

I would say if you haven't already just text her saying you had fun talking to her and her brother.. and thrwo in some sh.t relevant to the convos you had.. maybe a joke.. and leave it at that .. If she was lookin super sexy for whatever reason, say a sexual commment about how if her brother weren't there <xyz> .. If she starts engaging in convo, talk to her back.. If not, hit her up a week later and ask her what shes doing on <Friday> , schedule an evening date.. tell her you're going to be running late.. Chances are she'll try to flak eon you to test u or try to cancel.. Its fine, be prepared to have some **** ready the next week after. But always schedule a late date.. 8 pm or so. The point is you're trying to take her home after .. duh lol

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nice work...now let's see if she actually meets up or flakes.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Damn @Divorced w 3 . She is hot. I hope you seal the deal.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Thats' cool and all man but a super long story to tell us you got a girls number. BUt, I get it. Was a proud moment and honestly you wrote everything really well.. I got a real sense of everything that went down. Not gonna lie, I'm the same way when I describe **** to people...

I was hoping you said you got it in with her because in a competitive market, no one cares if you got the number.. We used to roast each other growin g up if someone talked about getting a number.. like "what else u get,a handshake too?" because its all about.. CLOSING the deal. Capitalizing on that poonani. Anyone can get a number.. but can you glaze those donuts and spin that plate?

Regardless, I'd be remiss if I didn't celebrate some number pulls in my time. and it looks like you want advice on what to do next..

I would say if you haven't already just text her saying you had fun talking to her and her brother.. and thrwo in some sh.t relevant to the convos you had.. maybe a joke.. and leave it at that .. If she was lookin super sexy for whatever reason, say a sexual commment about how if her brother weren't there <xyz> .. If she starts engaging in convo, talk to her back.. If not, hit her up a week later and ask her what shes doing on <Friday> , schedule an evening date.. tell her you're going to be running late.. Chances are she'll try to flak eon you to test u or try to cancel.. Its fine, be prepared to have some **** ready the next week after. But always schedule a late date.. 8 pm or so. The point is you're trying to take her home after .. duh lol

I know. I am very loquacious. I had two guys with me that were absolutely lit and were wrestling in the parking lot, or else I would have stuck around and worked that longer.

interesting to point out, she was fretting about meeting high SMV guys showing us the bumble account she had. She had about a dozen conversations going which wasn’t surprising and she was telling us about her date (tonight) and I had her ghost texting blowing this dude up making him look cheap it was fun.

my thinking is the following but I am open to suggestions: text tomorrow, or even maybe tonight during the date. Start speaking to her sexually right out of the gate.

Where we left off was she texted me my name I think she was saving it and texted me. So maybe my first text is, yes? how about we go bowling Sunday. get ready to say my name a lot louder.
Hahah. Idk. Lmk fellas.

 

[Dr.Suave]

She had a date tonight? Texting during the date could be a double edged sword. I would pretend to be busy tonight and wait until tomorrow.

 

[Divorced w 3]

She had a date tonight? Texting during the date could be a double edged sword. I would pretend to be busy tonight and wait until tomorrow.

Im with you. I don’t want to come off even a hint jealous.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

First, forget this girl is as hot/cute as you think she is. Pretend she is an HB7 at best. This will prevent you from putting her on a pedestal.

Second, now that you have in your head that she is just another girl, and it's just your turn, don't go out of your way to hang with her. Pursue but do not chase. They are two completely different approaches. Be intentional but minimal. A girl that age is used to attention, so don't give it to her without her earning it.

Third, make sure you have other options. Chances are she will be flakey and at some point lose interest and then it will be another guy's turn.

Finally, if you put everything above in practice, the theory is that you will be aloof and indifferent but you will make it known you wanna kick it with her. If she complies, I would seal the deal rather fast, I don't believe she will stick around too long so strike the iron while is hot. She is used to drink dates so try to set up some fun/memorable activity near your place so its easier to bring her back.

Lastly, enjoy it all while it lasts and if you bang her, make it count.

 

[Divorced w 3]

First, forget this girl is as hot/cute as you think she is. Pretend she is an HB7 at best. This will prevent you from putting her on a pedestal.

Second, now that you have in your head that she is just another girl, and it's just your turn, don't go out of your way to hang with her. Pursue but do not chase. They are two completely different approaches. Be intentional but minimal. A girl that age is used to attention, so don't give it to her without her earning it.

Third, make sure you have other options. Chances are she will be flakey and at some point lose interest and then it will be another guy's turn.

Finally, if you put everything above in practice, the theory is that you will be aloof and indifferent but you will make it known you wanna kick it with her. If she complies, I would seal the deal rather fast, I don't believe she will stick around too long so strike the iron while is hot. She is used to drink dates so try to set up some fun/memorable activity near your place so its easier to bring her back.

Lastly, enjoy it all while it lasts and if you bang her, make it count.

I’m 90 minutes away. I may have to borrow my boys shore house.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This thread easily could be retitled, ok you got the number now what? I am great at the day 1, I am not good yet moving too far beyond that. I am putting my game back together one phase at a time like Humpty Dumpty. I still think the original thread title is more clever.

 

[LucianoM]

Uhh whyd you leave? I woulda ordered a few rounds of tequila, continue chatting and kept the party going until the brother got the hint to leave.

Also don't expect to ever hear from her again.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Uhh whyd you leave? I woulda ordered a few rounds of tequila, continue chatting and kept the party going until the brother got the hint to leave.

Also don't expect to ever hear from her again.

I drove those two retards

 

[Divorced w 3]

Hey @Divorced what happened to that confident c0cky playful arrogance? Lol

Based on quoted above, specifically bolded, she's into you. Gave you subtle but relatively clear IOIs.

Too late now but in keeping with that playful arrogance you could have texted last night while on her date and asked "Hey [her name[, how's your date"? With a wink emoji

That's not jealousy, it's being playfully arrogant and c0cky like you were at the bar.

Guarantee, if she really likes you, she will think it's hilarious, text back after which you could escalate telling her to ditch her date and meet you.

Even if that's not possible, due to distance or whatever, it's still funny and reflects loads of confidence and that you're not nervous and walking on eggshells.

I've actually had this happen to me, a guy I had randomly met texted while I was on another date (which he knew about) and we continued texting discreetly throughout the night.

I was NOT into my date, I was into texting guy and yeah I thought it was hilarious, and the guy was super confident to do it.

All these different strategies, call in a week, etc, sounds like overthinking to me and it will to her too.

Strike while the iron is hot, don't wait.

Bottom line, IF she's into you, you can do no wrong. (Except perhaps waiting too long to call or text).

If she's not into you, she will hem and haw, make excuses whatever.

That's your cue to move on from it and focus on other girls.

JMO!

PS: I have brothers, two I'm close with. They're protective so I can relate to first bolded, why she said she can't in front of her brother.

Be careful to not come off too playerish with her brother. Like here.

So I even get to the point about telling bro [ ] that im pulling mid 20’s out of the local bar and having a little success there myself. We bond.

I so want to be like, me either lol

 

[Divorced w 3]

Her: I'm sorry? (Like she didn't understand your question).
You: No need to apologize.

LOL!

Okay, so for whatever reason I get your rather twisted sense of humor and think a lot of your stuff is hilarious (like your texts in your other thread too), but not every woman might.

So what you propose sending now "me either, lol," she may not get it.

What you first had in mind..



I thought that was funny, but even if you want to leave the second sentence out, the bowling sounds like a fun first date (imo).

Again, jmo, I'm just one girl who looks innocent but with a somewhat dark side and twisted sense of humor. So I get the c0cky sarcastic type of one-liners. My hubs is just like this too, teases me ALL the time, always tossing me funny one-liners (imo) and the like.

But again, I'm just one girl, so feel free to take my advice with a pinch of salt!

My last text went green and remains green. I don’t get blocked often and from some research I understand that it may be bad service but, that’s been a few hours now. Maybe I’m blocked lol.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Idk but I just got a bumble date. Do some bowling around me and grab a drink after. Have to push it to the later hours

 

[2Rocky]

I've found if I meet a woman in person and want to see her again I solidify that in person before we part. It seems to me that if time elapses, women tend to think worst case scenario, and as a result become pessimistic about you, the possibility of an ongoing relationship, and your intentions. If she is at a high point, and you set a date, she carries that high emotion forward to the date. .

 

[Divorced w 3]

I've found if I meet a woman in person and want to see her again I solidify that in person before we part. It seems to me that if time elapses, women tend to think worst case scenario, and as a result become pessimistic about you, the possibility of an ongoing relationship, and your intentions. If she is at a high point, and you set a date, she carries that high emotion forward to the date. .

I went for it but little bro was there, and I had two drunk friends wrestling in the parking lot. One of them is a catty ***** when he’s drunk.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I am pretty sure the green simply means your text was delivered. A few hours? Hmm, doesn't sound good but who knows.

Also and it may mean nothing but you misspelled a word in your text, you wrote "we can hang soon and so something more exciting and memorable."

Again, I am just one girl but in the beginning when attempting to pull, pay attention to spelling and grammar. It shows that you give a shyt and not firing off texts to random girls to see who bites.

I dunno, I always paid attention to stuff like that. She may not care though.

Let us know if/when you hear from her!

Had my boy look at the number. It’s blue. Im blocked! Print it and hang it up