Well the night was pretty interesting to say the least.
I got asked twice by 2 Women "When are you going to propose" as they held their ring ringers up...
I just smirked and didn't say anything because in the back of my mind, I was thinking, these Women seem to only care about "The rock" on their finger. I am not one to talk negatively or judge anyone but to be honest, their soon to be husbands just looked deflated and for lack of a better term, beta.
I think these guys are cool people and I wished them well but something within me feels like they were bullied into this sh*t.
While they all sipped on their drinks, I watched as 4 Women were taking pictures together holding up their rings to post on Instagram. I chuckled a bit because it was like they were posing for the cover of an ESPN magazine showing their championship rings or something. I don't know why but I found it quite amusing.... but also scary at the same time.
The status of getting married for Women seems to me like "I found a Man who is willing to put up with my nagging throughout his life, my irrational shenanigan's, my period tantrums and everything else I can thrown at him while also restricting his freedom and prevent him from leaving for younger, hotter Women. I Got Him Locked In"
Sure society will try and shame me with that comment but am I wrong?
Statistically speaking, Men in marriage and in some cases, LTRs, have a drop in their testosterone levels. Their drive, their focus, energy and sexual prowess come to a halt and they NEED to become softer in order to make their Women happy. It's no surprise that bodyfat slowly begins to increase, more sitting on the couch eating crap, etc.
Look, I'm not against a Man getting married if he wants to and getting friends together to celebrate is enjoyable fun but it's what happens AFTER that, that is the concern.
