They will ALWAYS come back if........

[RazorRambo24]

"coming back" lmao.. if she leaves in the first place and has to "come back', shes using you as emotional support/ bench player.. and giving you a chance because her starters are acting up lol. good luck

i personally never settle for being 2nd or 3rd in a girls life.. if shes leaving you're prob not her 1st priority.. or u did something wrong.. in which case if shes high value enough, she'd be smarter not to come back.

 

[Cazam]

So i have a question considering this.

I was seeing a girl in November and December!

She is a trainwreck single mom with a lot of issues but somehow i fall for her despite spinning other girls.
Even if i hang out with those others i still think about her.
I know its not good and i should eject.

But just for the sake of it:
She cancelled a date on me and then holidays came and she always had the kid and was away with her parents etc.

I stopped initiating after she broke the date and she contacted me again once a week. I always said get in touch again if you figure out your schedule.


Last time she contacted me was christmas where she said she would be kid free in january again, since then silence.

I al not sure if i was to cold not initiating ever again. But i was not cold in the messages i exchanged when she initiated contact.

Would you contact a girl again in this case (lets say without the trainwreck part of her).

I know this is not good, has no future and she didnt make time for me or anything.
Guess i am just looking for you to get my head straight again about this girl and keep it to not contacting her.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

or u did something wrong.. in which case if shes high value enough, she'd be smarter not to come back.

The last part isn't quite true. If you are pretty high value, she'd be smarter to actually come back.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

So i have a question considering this.

I was seeing a girl in November and December!

She is a trainwreck single mom with a lot of issues but somehow i fall for her despite spinning other girls.
Even if i hang out with those others i still think about her.
I know its not good and i should eject.

But just for the sake of it:
She cancelled a date on me and then holidays came and she always had the kid and was away with her parents etc.

I stopped initiating after she broke the date and she contacted me again once a week. I always said get in touch again if you figure out your schedule.


Last time she contacted me was christmas where she said she would be kid free in january again, since then silence.

I al not sure if i was to cold not initiating ever again. But i was not cold in the messages i exchanged when she initiated contact.

Would you contact a girl again in this case (lets say without the trainwreck part of her).

I know this is not good, has no future and she didnt make time for me or anything.
Guess i am just looking for you to get my head straight again about this girl and keep it to not contacting her.

You already know the answer man. There are better single childless women out there who will have time for you. Just go get them. Don't waste your time with single moms. At best they're good for one/a few night stands, even if that.

 

[soulforge]

If she leaves the first time and smashes some other dude.

Why would you even want her back... Once she leaves, it's fukin over for life

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Trust me, if you have high value (looks, money, social status, career, personality, witty, educated) MOST women will be at least slightly intimidated by you. That should be the case once you go out with them once or twice and the see what a great guy you are and wonder how you are single (thats when you cant beat them away with at stick btw). Intimidation can be very sexual, especially now with all of the feminine B-D-S-M shyte these days with Shades of Gray, which women gobble up.

Intimidation can increase interest. I feel it will actually create stronger sexual tension and increase her interest in you.

And if she honestly think she is way below you on the attraction/lifestyle scale to the point that she doesnt want to date you, she is probably right and you need to stop dumpster diving.

Low interest/loss of interest/interest in someone else....these are the reasons women stop responding to guy's messages/calls/offers. The reference in my post about not reaching out is for just that.....when she is not responding anymore or much less often and you are the only one keeping the convo going. If she has high interests she will reach back out. If she doesnt, she wont.

Women used to tell me they were intimidated by me because of my physical build(very wide shoulders and muscular) and because I looked at them intensely while listening to them(they said it seemed like I was looking through them). But most also told me they were extremely turned on by it as well even though they were intimidated, which took me a while to understand because it made no sense to me.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Some Exes never came back, but I’m glad they didn’t.

 

[TimothyPrice]

Ummm. No they won't. So what? Move on. Like Roissy taught, keep two on the kitty.

 

[soulforge]

Honestly if a girl left you... Went around giving her puzzy/azz to other men, and came back to you when it didn't work out with chad, why the hell would you take her back?

I see absolutely no reason for it, not even for a one night bang.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Honestly if a girl left you... Went around giving her puzzy/azz to other men, and came back to you when it didn't work out with chad, why the hell would you take her back?

I see absolutely no reason for it, not even for a one night bang.

god this

 

[soulforge]

god this

In-fact by fukin her and giving her pleasure you are rewarding her for leaving and smashing chad.

The moment a chick leaves, you should be cutting her out of your life permanently. Delete/block/remove/ghost/no contact

Hit the gym, eat well, fix your mind, learn from the mistakes you made (which you will have) and move onto the next one

 

[sangheilios]

Honestly if a girl left you... Went around giving her puzzy/azz to other men, and came back to you when it didn't work out with chad, why the hell would you take her back?

I see absolutely no reason for it, not even for a one night bang.

god this

LOL Who said she even got involved with Chad in the first place? It's totally possible she leaves and then finds nothing but disappointment or even loneliness and then realizes what she left and is missing out on lol. This Chad nonsense in the red pill is ridiculous, most women aren't getting slammed by Chad and are honestly going on fairly long sexual droughts holding out for her Prince Chad that often times never shows up lol.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

LOL Who said she even got involved with Chad in the first place? It's totally possible she leaves and then finds nothing but disappointment or even loneliness and then realizes what she left and is missing out on lol. This Chad nonsense in the red pill is ridiculous, most women aren't getting slammed by Chad and are honestly going on fairly long sexual droughts holding out for her Prince Chad that often times never shows up lol.

who cares what she did lol. Taking this chick back is a downgrade to YOU unless she left because of something you did 100%.

 

[sangheilios]

who cares what she did lol. Taking this chick back is a downgrade to YOU unless she left because of something you did 100%.

I'm not disagreeing with that part. I'm just saying that this whole Chad thing is often just a bunch of nonsense that is repetitively used because of the red pill. Reality is most women are holding out for some mythical Chad that would never even be interested in her, resulting in a fairly long sexual drought. The problem is these women are rejecting tons of other men, leaving them entirely sexless. I've first hand seen this a lot over the years, women's expectations are insanely high when they can't even live up to it themselves.

 

[soulforge]

LOL Who said she even got involved with Chad in the first place? It's totally possible she leaves and then finds nothing but disappointment or even loneliness and then realizes what she left and is missing out on lol. This Chad nonsense in the red pill is ridiculous, most women aren't getting slammed by Chad and are honestly going on fairly long sexual droughts holding out for her Prince Chad that often times never shows up lol.

Ok ok it wasn't Chad who smashed her... It was some lame beta who jizzed all over her face and she swallowed it all...

Now she is back and wants you, and wants to kiss you with those lips? Does that make things any better lol

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I'm not disagreeing with that part. I'm just saying that this whole Chad thing is often just a bunch of nonsense that is repetitively used because of the red pill. Reality is most women are holding out for some mythical Chad that would never even be interested in her, resulting in a fairly long sexual drought. The problem is these women are rejecting tons of other men, leaving them entirely sexless. I've first hand seen this a lot over the years, women's expectations are insanely high when they can't even live up to it themselves.

oh I agree that the chad thing is just a marketing boogeyman scare/cope tactic used. You screwed up with a woman, blame Chad not your inability to maintain solid frame or quack game. There’s much more to what’s going on a women’s head other than a jawline lol.

Im really anti taking back exes or girls that did you wrong because it is basically the most beta thing a man can do. This girl went and sucked another dudes dvck and rode him reverse cowgirl style and you will take her back just for pvssy

 

[soulforge]

oh I agree that the chad thing is just a marketing boogeyman scare/cope tactic used. You screwed up with a woman, blame Chad not your inability to maintain solid frame or quack game. There’s much more to what’s going on a women’s head other than a jawline lol.

Im really anti taking back exes or girls that did you wrong because it is basically the most beta thing a man can do. This girl went and sucked another dudes dvck and rode him reverse cowgirl style and you will take her back just for pvssy

This... It doesn't matter if it's Chad or some lame Beta... She let other dudes inside her, now she bringing her used Vag back to you.

Absolutely pathetic to take that girl back, in-fact deep inside she knows how pathetic you are for taking her back.

These days a man's game needs to be super super tight, the slightest slip here or there and she is GONE

Makes you wonder even if it's worth entertainment these 304s

 

[patb]

None of that actually works.

 

[Robert28]

I’ve had two women from my past suddenly show up recently. One was a girl I went on one date with, things went great but she cancelled the second date and gave me the run around when I tried to reschedule. That was back in September, now she’s sliding in my inbox this month sending me long ass messages. Keep in mind, we just had one date.
The other one is a girl I was hung up on for a long time who friendzoned me 3 years ago. Suddenly she’s popped up out of nowhere and SHES the one who’s spilling her feelings and I’m just keeping silent like she did me. “I was scared of being in a relationship, it was nothing to do with you, I always found you attractive” blah blah blah. The thing is I’m not interested in either of these women anymore, not even for a lay. Once I move on from someone that’s it, I can’t get my attraction back no matter what.

 

[soulforge]

I’ve had two women from my past suddenly show up recently. One was a girl I went on one date with, things went great but she cancelled the second date and gave me the run around when I tried to reschedule. That was back in September, now she’s sliding in my inbox this month sending me long ass messages. Keep in mind, we just had one date.
The other one is a girl I was hung up on for a long time who friendzoned me 3 years ago. Suddenly she’s popped up out of nowhere and SHES the one who’s spilling her feelings and I’m just keeping silent like she did me. “I was scared of being in a relationship, it was nothing to do with you, I always found you attractive” blah blah blah. The thing is I’m not interested in either of these women anymore, not even for a lay. Once I move on from someone that’s it, I can’t get my attraction back no matter what.

Best policy