Lets say you were somewhat wealthy with about a 5 million dollar net worth.
How would you leverage money to get more women in your life?
Update: I don't mean for the person to spend all of the money. I just mean what kind of dating-related things would you consider using money to leverage at this level?
$5 million is a solid net worth. It could make a person set for life if managed well and the person might not need to work another day of their life at this net worth. We don't know the age of the hypothetical $5 million net worth guy. I am guessing for this exercise that the thread respondent assumes his own current age with a $5 million net worth. I'll review the ideas one by one below.
1.) Hire social people to approach women at bars and pull them into your social circle (ie afterparties)
2.) Get a cool place and have big parties at your place and develop a large social circle.
3.) Hire people to optimize / maximize your social media and dating profiles.
4.) Start or acquire a business that revolves around hot women (ie modeling agency).
5.) Start events in your city for charity and become a local celebrity.
6.) Start a bar in your area and become a local celebrity.
7.) Get a party boat and have your people invite women onto it.
8.) Travel often and maximize your dating options.
Idea 1: Not exciting. Likely would be too much effort for not a great return.
Idea 2: Good idea. Depends on how big of parties, how often you have parties, and how cool your place is. Does the man own/rent?
It's an idea where a man could go broke if he had too big of parties, too frequent of parties, or bought too much/too nice of a place. It also depends on where his social circle stands right now.
I like the idea, but it's an idea that has limited value. It could work with a decent pre-existing social circle and parties every so often (once every 2-3 months if the man wants to spin plates and not get into an LTR), and he's not overspending on real estate and keeping the guest list reasonable.
Idea 3: Interesting, but no. Your dating profile depends most on what you look like, though displays of wealth/status can help. Your social media profiles depends on what you do in your free time. A man can't hire people to maximize social media/dating profiles if he doesn't have an exciting life.
Idea 4: This is a great way to lose $5 million. No.
Idea 5: There are scenes around charity events in certain cities. The better play is to try to get to those events. Starting events seems like wasted effort. Basically no to this one, with the exception of occasionally attending an existing charity event. Also, charity events likely haven't recovered from the pandemic. Even if they are taking place, as more of them were in 2022, a lot of people aren't that excited for a non-essential crowded event like a charity event. Attending the charity events was likely a better play pre-2020 than post-2020.
Also, the charity events are more of the hot older women types (30s/40s) than peak SMV 18-29 year olds. Many of those 30s/40s hotties at charity events are married women. I don't think there's a great pickup scene at charity events in most cities. The best bet at one of these in an attractive, childless 30s/40s woman, and even that's a tough demographic to find at those events.
Idea 6: This is a great way to lose $5 million. No.
Idea 7: Along with Idea 2, this is probably the best one. Like #2, it has limited value and the details need to be managed correctly. I'll get into it below.
Idea 8: I'd say no. A lot of travel is geared towards people in existing relationships and not single/unattached people. Additionally, travel doesn't help for LTRs regardless of net worth.
7.) Get a party boat and have your people invite women onto it.
I used to be into the party cove lake scene. For those that don't know, its where everyone ties up their boats at the lake and it turns into one giant party with booze, music, and girls in the water. Its pretty much anything goes.
This old guy had a big yacht(WET RAT) he took to party cove about every weekend throughout the summer. He was famous for having all the hot girls and free booze. On the boat they kept a book with pictures of all the girls that got naked. The rest of the pics(girls that had their bikini's on) got posted on his website every Monday.
Its pretty easy to get into this scene, even if you don't have a boat. But the bigger the boat, the more hot girls you get.
Story about WetRat Boat
Pat Douglass steers his 31-foot cabin cruiser, the "Wet Rat," away from its slip at Pier 121 Marina and slowly motors through the "no wake" zone on Lewisville Lake, about 20 miles north of Dallas. His business partner stands on the bow and watches boat traffic. His fiancee stands at...
www.dallasobserver.com
This is a good article but a man might need to have above a $5 million net worth to play that game. Boats are expensive and not every boat is conducive to being a pusssy magnet.
If you have a $5 million net worth, you can probably afford to buy a boat that is good enough to attract pusssy. The problems become upkeep, marina fees, fuel, and party costs. Is this the best way use money to get women? A man would have to be quite careful in this.
Some of this depends on where you live. Do you live close enough to bodies of water to make this happen?