Who are all the hot chicks banging right now?

[skipfontaine22]

There are so many babes out there, but it seems they're harder to meet / bang than ever.

I imagine they're bombarded by c*ck as a result of today's social media landscape.

But I also feel women are banging less than they used to?
Perhaps they're just using Instagram for validation instead?

And online dating is pretty crappy nowadays.. and lacks women of good quality..

So my question:

How are these high-quality women meeting their men?
Would you say its primarily social circle?

 

[patb]

1. Helicopter oligarchs in Manhattan
2. Some random they met in Psych 101 at State U

There's no in between (aside from sporadic tatted up gigachads with felony arrest records).

 

[characternote]

Guys who they think are good looking to their tastes. (same guys who of course most girls will think are good looking)
And Typically who they also 'know' (work colleague, social circle, friend of a friend etc - particularly relevant in many places outside of the US where 'cold approach' is generally not gonna be well received)

It's always been the same. Forget 'game'. Work on getting good looking as possible, and on finding a way to get to know lots of hot girls (social circle maxxing I guess you could say!)

 

[patb]

Guys who they think are good looking to their tastes. (same guys who of course most girls will think are good looking)
And Typically who they also 'know' (work colleague, social circle, friend of a friend etc - particularly relevant in many places outside of the US where 'cold approach' is generally not gonna be well received)

It's always been the same. Forget 'game'. Work on getting good looking as possible, and on finding a way to get to know lots of hot girls (social circle maxxing I guess you could say!)

Good luck with social circle maxing after your early-twenties. The older I get, the more I've come to think that the winners in life are picked early -- adolescence at the latest -- and the rest of life is just sort of a dismal epilogue where the also-rans claw each other's eyes out over scraps.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I’d say 80% of the single chicks are banging 5-8% of men.

I am by no means a chad and I have a steady, locked down rotation of (5) 6.5-8.25, I’m talking to 3 more 7-8 that are ripe for the pickin.

If I was 6’ tall I’d probably be able to M&B a new 8-9 every week, and maintain a higher quality rotation as well.

The sad truth is that most men are schlumps, and it’s easy to outdo them, easy as hell. And women would rather share (they know they are, but you cannot flaunt it, they need plausible deniability) a quality man than be seen with or bang a scrub.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Most of them got married or got alpha widowed by Chad Thunderc0ck and are now ussing SM for free attention and validation.

 

[characternote]

Good luck with social circle maxing after your early-twenties. The older I get, the more I've come to think that the winners in life are picked early -- adolescence at the latest -- and the rest of life is just sort of a dismal epilogue where the also-rans claw each other's eyes out over scraps.

if you are old, you play a different game (sugar daddy game)
But then it's about money and not 'attraction'

 

[patb]

if you are old, you play a different game (sugar daddy game)
But then it's about money and not 'attraction'

The line between attraction and venality is always a blurry one for women.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

1. Helicopter oligarchs in Manhattan
2. Some random they met in Psych 101 at State U

There's no in between (aside from sporadic tatted up gigachads with felony arrest records).

TBH this

 

[mikedee]

There are so many babes out there, but it seems they're harder to meet / bang than ever.

I imagine they're bombarded by c*ck as a result of today's social media landscape.

But I also feel women are banging less than they used to?
Perhaps they're just using Instagram for validation instead?

And online dating is pretty crappy nowadays.. and lacks women of good quality..

So my question:

How are these high-quality women meeting their men?
Would you say its primarily social circle?

You would be surprised to know how many hot girls haven't fvcked in a while, I'm talking about months and even years.
There are many reasons

-They are "busier" than ever. Busy doing what? It doesn't matter (work, gym, school, doing their nails 2 times a week, pretending they're busy), they don't have much time to date.
-They have become way more selective, it's never enough, they have completely unrealistic expectations, they keep themselves for Mr. Perfect, which doesn't exist
-They don't crave sex like men do, they don't really need it actually. It's fun when it happens but they can go through super extended dryspell, no problem at all.
-Validation, they have all the validation they need. that's it.
-They have too many options, more is less.
-Men are thirsty, most men are simps. Women don't like simps.
-They are very few high tier/top men, call them as you want. Those men are rare, most of them have a family, wife etc. They also have a busy schedule, they can't spend all their time getting laid.
-etc.

If you combine all of the above...

It's difficult even for high tier men, they will have to deal with BS too, because women are always looking for a better option. I guess that they fvck a random chad from time to time to get the job done. So to answer the question, who fvck them? A random guy here, another random guy there, the rich guys here, the poor but handsome musician there, a guy in her class, her boss at work, a guy she met in the metro, a lucky average looking guy here, a Chad there, her highschool boyfriend.... There is no demographic I think, I still see hot girls with average guys (money, look, etc.)

or Mike Adriano

 

[Zimbabwe]

Whoever owns the Yacht they all seem to be posting pics at on instagram

 

[kavi]

I think that we are going closer to minimal engagement by women in the dating market, be it LTRs or STRs. I wouldnt be surpised if many attractive women are not having sex frequently at all, maybe with years in between.

At the moment, most of you guys are thinking some guy is getting it, or you wanna get it, but the point is women are truly unsatisfied in the 'dating market' and there are currently few if any winners. Hence women will be having less and less sex until we hit rock-bottom and things improve for the better, I imagine.

The last 10years or so has been women having more and more hookups as LTRs became less frequent along with a general down-trend in relationships and the satisfaction of women. Women having Hookups has been keeping things doing for a lot of guys esp those currently doing well and those who built up high notches over the past 10 years.

But as I mentioned, women really are unsatisfied in the dating market and the allure of a hookup with Chad or player is waning. That means fewer and fewer guys are gonna be getting any until there is genuine sincerity and value created (by men) in the relationships market.

 

[mikedee]

I think that we are going closer to minimal engagement by women in the dating market, be it LTRs or STRs. I wouldnt be surpised if many attractive women are not having sex frequently at all, maybe with years in between.

At the moment, most of you guys are thinking some guy is getting it, or you wanna get it, but the point is women are truly unsatisfied in the 'dating market' and there are currently few if any winners. Hence women will be having less and less sex until we hit rock-bottom and things improve for the better, I imagine.

The last 10years or so has been women having more and more hookups as LTRs became less frequent along with a general down-trend in relationships and the satisfaction of women. Women having Hookups has been keeping things doing for a lot of guys esp those currently doing well and those who built up high notches over the past 10 years.

But as I mentioned, women really are unsatisfied in the dating market and the allure of a hookup with Chad or player is waning. That means fewer and fewer guys are gonna be getting any until there is genuine sincerity and value created (by men) in the relationships market.

I agree, but don't you think it's women that should create value? Because from all the girls I've dated in the last 10 years, the only real value was the V. Remove that from the equation and I would get the same enjoyment by watching Dumb & dumber with a 6pack of cheap beer. Why do we have, men, to become better all the time while they sit back and relax. Personal growth? They have never heard of it.

 

[jaymbrs]

I know a girl who is 24 and is a near perfect 10. She used to be a Hooters girl, which is where I met her. She's already divorced and can't keep a guy. She's had 2 "boyfriends" in 2022 and is now posting super thirsty pics of herself on SM. I reached out asking how she's doing and her response was basically she's unhappy because she's not getting the type of attention she wants from the guys she wants. I'm pretty sure she's depressed and will soon settle for a simp.

 

[HaleyBaron]

There are so many babes out there, but it seems they're harder to meet / bang than ever.

I imagine they're bombarded by c*ck as a result of today's social media landscape.

But I also feel women are banging less than they used to?
Perhaps they're just using Instagram for validation instead?

And online dating is pretty crappy nowadays.. and lacks women of good quality..

So my question:

How are these high-quality women meeting their men?
Would you say its primarily social circle?

The answer is that there's less hot chicks.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Good luck with social circle maxing after your early-twenties. The older I get, the more I've come to think that the winners in life are picked early -- adolescence at the latest -- and the rest of life is just sort of a dismal epilogue where the also-rans claw each other's eyes out over scraps.

I was a late bloomer, and didn't get puss till after college and getting my act straight. You are never too late to game. Just be happy you're not a woman. They have it much harder past the 20s.

 

[patb]

I agree, but don't you think it's women that should create value? Because from all the girls I've dated in the last 10 years, the only real value was the V. Remove that from the equation and I would get the same enjoyment by watching Dumb & dumber with a 6pack of cheap beer. Why do we have, men, to become better all the time while they sit back and relax. Personal growth? They have never heard of it.

K-type males have foolishly created a world in which they themselves have become obsolete (similar to an automation engineer coding his own job away). Difficult to put that toothpaste back in the tube.

But this is why I have so little patience for the macho posturing so prevalent in the seduction sphere. Unless and until collective action is taken, the race to the bottom will continue.

 

[HaleyBaron]

You would be surprised to know how many hot girls haven't fvcked in a while, I'm talking about months and even years.
There are many reasons

-They are "busier" than ever. Busy doing what? It doesn't matter (work, gym, school, doing their nails 2 times a week, pretending they're busy), they don't have much time to date.
-They have become way more selective, it's never enough, they have completely unrealistic expectations, they keep themselves for Mr. Perfect, which doesn't exist
-They don't crave sex like men do, they don't really need it actually. It's fun when it happens but they can go through super extended dryspell, no problem at all.
-Validation, they have all the validation they need. that's it.
-They have too many options, more is less.
-Men are thirsty, most men are simps. Women don't like simps.
-They are very few high tier/top men, call them as you want. Those men are rare, most of them have a family, wife etc. They also have a busy schedule, they can't spend all their time getting laid.
-etc.

If you combine all of the above...

It's difficult even for high tier men, they will have to deal with BS too, because women are always looking for a better option. I guess that they fvck a random chad from time to time to get the job done. So to answer the question, who fvck them? A random guy here, another random guy there, the rich guys here, the poor but handsome musician there, a guy in her class, her boss at work, a guy she met in the metro, a lucky average looking guy here, a Chad there, her highschool boyfriend.... There is no demographic I think, I still see hot girls with average guys (money, look, etc.)

or Mike Adriano

The reason is double-fold: hot women are very picky, but thats because they keep holding out for the right pick. They don't want to make the wrong one, so they sit there indecisive as hell never choosing to just go with someone that happened to ask her out, even guys that are not bad looking to her. Most of the time, women like this have to be pressured a bit like how Indiana Jones, James Bond, and other bravado role models did back in the day. The trick is to knock down her self perceive value and make all that makeup and good clothing look like the thrift store.

I suppose this is also called dread game but there's a different reason for it instead of out of some kind of strat.

 

[The Duke]

K-type males have foolishly created a world in which they themselves have become obsolete (similar to an automation engineer coding his own job away). Difficult to put that toothpaste back in the tube.

But this is why I have so little patience for the macho posturing so prevalent in the seduction sphere. Unless and until collective action is taken, the race to the bottom will continue.

What is a k-type male?

 

[patb]

What is a k-type male?

r/K selection theory - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

"Discredited" according to liberals. In other words, empirically valid and analytically valuable.