What to do when a girl who blows you off comes around?

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys, so I’ve had this happen before and it’s happening tonight actually. Anyhow In general I’m asking not this specific girl.

So, in general, if a girlblows you off and then comes back, how do you handle that?
My initial thinking is to just ignore till the next day. Thoughts? Thanks

 

[jaymbrs]

Only way to make it right is if she comes over to f*ck.

 

[Young OG]

Hey guys, so I’ve had this happen before and it’s happening tonight actually. Anyhow In general I’m asking not this specific girl.

So, in general, if a girlblows you off and then comes back, how do you handle that?
My initial thinking is to just ignore till the next day. Thoughts? Thanks

Invite her over to your place. If she declines then ghost her

 

[SargeMaximus]

Invite her over to your place. If she declines then ghost her

Yeah I’m already hanging with my brother so I told her. But I’ll keep that in mind for next time, thanks

 

[BadBoy89]

So, in general, if a girlblows you off and then comes back, how do you handle that?

Sextoy.

 

[Serenity]

Personally I would confront her straight away about blowing me off last time and ask what changed. I would accept nothing other than an answer I deemed sincere. It's a golden opportunity to sh!t test a woman, if she's at least honest it's a good sign. If it's an obvious lie then I don't see any reason to entertain it.

This is impossible to do if you can't handle the idea of forfeiting that pvssy to retain some sense of self-respect, she might very well be a bad apple you could have fvcked at the expense of your self-worth.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No dates, she can come over and if she isn't DTF then send her packing.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Personally I would confront her straight away about blowing me off last time and ask what changed. I would accept nothing other than an answer I deemed sincere. It's a golden opportunity to sh!t test a woman, if she's at least honest it's a good sign. If it's an obvious lie then I don't see any reason to entertain it.

This is impossible to do if you can't handle the idea of forfeiting that pvssy to retain some sense of self-respect, she might very well be a bad apple you could have fvcked at the expense of your self-worth.

Yeah I don’t mind losing this one or any for that matter.
The answers you guys are giving is in line with my inclination: she gotta make it up to me in bed.

but yeah, if she a liar she gotta be gone because you need women you can trust at the very least. But don’t all women lie?

 

[Serenity]

But don’t all women lie?

Of course it depends on the severity of the lie, but no, not if they're worth anything.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Of course it depends on the severity of the lie, but no, not if they're worth anything.

So I take it a girl who lies when she thinks she has a different guy and then comes back to you is past the line of acceptable?

 

[Serenity]

So I take it a girl who lies when she thinks she has a different guy and then comes back to you is past the line of acceptable?

Absolutely. Besdies lying, her motive for doing this is purely selfish. I want a woman to love me, the actions of lying and keeping me as a plan B shows absolutely no love. It's of no value to me.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Absolutely. Besdies lying, her motive for doing this is purely selfish. I want a woman to love me, the actions of lying and keeping me as a plan B shows absolutely no love. It's of no value to me.

I agree with you. We will see what happens. At this point she’s at 0 and if she plays more games I’ll just block. I’ve not had a woman play these kinds of games with me before.
I did have a woman who kept breaking up with me and coming back but that’s different since she was honest about what she was doing. Maybe I got a nut here. Thanks for your insight

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Hey guys, so I’ve had this happen before and it’s happening tonight actually. Anyhow In general I’m asking not this specific girl.

So, in general, if a girlblows you off and then comes back, how do you handle that?
My initial thinking is to just ignore till the next day. Thoughts? Thanks

Sounds like a broken record but...

Mode one!!

 

[Gamisch]

Sounds like a broken record but...

Mode one!!

On this one I agree with you. He already slept with her so going " mode 1" is appropriate now, maybe even the only option.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

On this one I agree with you. He already slept with her so going " mode 1" is appropriate now, maybe even the only option.

The more you agree with me, the better you will become.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Thank you all for your replies.

I spent the night at her house last night and we ****ed 4 times. At least 2 of those were longer than an hour. Very fatigued today but recovering nicely.

She didn’t cvm as much as she usually does so that was odd, especially since this time we weren’t using a condom.

She also told me about a guy she was having sex with but recently blocked because he always asked her afterwards if she came. So I found that interesting