Unprotected Anal Sex

[corsica]

Today I banged this chick I met. She lives nearby and I went to her apartment. Tattoos and nipple piercings, so the type of girl you wouldn't marry.

I was banging her with a condom but I was having problems keeping my erection. So I took the condom and banged her raw. In the heat of the moment I decided to eat her ass and stab her arsehole with my penis.

She told me she's clean but I don't want to rely on her word.

I'm not concerned about worms or any other curable STD. I'm concerned about HIV.

- I didn't *** inside her and it wasn't rough (no lube though). I washed my dik after and it looks normal (no bruises or marks).

Checking online it says you have to take some medication for 28 days (starting before 72h after the encounter). And if you contract HIV, it'll show only after 3 months with a test.

What I can't find is what are the chances of contracting HIV. I know the chances are low for the man in vaginal sex. But what about anal? Should I be worried?

 

[The Duke]

I have no idea about HIV, but for you and everyone else....always go pee immediately after unprotected anal. Go pee a few times to flush the line out.

I didn't pee one time and got an infection. That was the only time.

Girls that let you fuhk their ass on the first meetup are high risk wh0res. I would not trust those types at all. Does she do p0rn?

 

[corsica]

Does she do p0rn?

I don't think so.


It's sad being hostage of your own dik. After some drinks I went full throttle. I didn't *** inside her and my dik was clean. I went to the bathroom to wash it and pee so I don't think I'll get a urinary tract infection.




I'm thinking about buying a test (those you get from a pharmacy) and seeing her again. I just don't know how to ask her without calling her a wh0re.

The other safer option would be to take medication for 28 days. I don't know the side effects and going to a clinic would be a little embarrassing.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Everyones into their own thing but eating A$$ is just a step too far for me

It actually makes me feel sick lol

 

[corsica]

It was a pristine arse. In the sense that it was pink and perfectly hairless. I was licking it while finger banging her. I don't stick my tongue inside though.

I bought a test kit for HIV type 1 and 2 (didn't know there was two types).

I'm going to call her to see her again today before night because she's going to party with some friends.

My question is:

When I see her in person, how do I phrase I want to test her, without calling her a wh0re?

 

[Dr.Suave]

How many SoSuave Forum members have had unprotected sex? A lot.

How many of have got HIV? None, as far as I know.

Chill bro, you are probably in the clear.

 

[Redwolf]

The std risk is a lot lower than what everyone fears. However you are right tattoo's and piercings are a red flag. Those girls are normally sluts with a high body count. She let you smash fast that confirms it. I wouldn't have gone raw with a chick like that but that's me. If you're worried get tested.

 

[The Duke]

It's pretty rare to get sti's or hiv. Not what the media wants you to think. My buddies and I have ran the numbers of what we've had vs how many girls.

 

[sangheilios]

Anal sex itself is far more risky for the one getting penetrated than the one doing the ****ing, the reason for this is that area is highly prone to tearing during this sex act. As a heterosexual man ****ing a woman in the booty, your chance of even being exposed to HIV/AIDs is incredibly low and a single sexual interaction does not guarantee that you will be infected, especially since you were the one with the penis lol. Prevalence of HIV/AIDs in women is very very low, less than 1%. Black American women have a slightly higher rate, I believe it's around 2%. Your chance of finding a woman with HIV/AIDs is incredibly low and even if you did you have a low chance of even contracting it from one sexual encounter.

HIV is a far greater issue for men in the homosexual community. A major reason for this is simply because anal sex has far greater risk of spreading STDs compared to vaginal sex. Another major reason is because gay men are in a relatively small and contained demographic that have sex with each other. Lastly, men are just far more sexual compared to women and when both parties have this mindset there is substantially more (risky)sex going on. Ever heard of gay "bath houses" or these clandestine rendezvous they have in public places? The gay dating app, grindr, has a feature where you can literally locate where your match is if you were at a mall, park, etc. It's similar to google maps where the little pinpoint is marked and it shows their proximity, etc.

Some little facts, about 1 out of 6 gay men in the U.S will be HIV/AIDs positive in their lifetime, if this was ever a statistic for the general population it would be a public health crisis. Those numbers are on par with some Sub Saharan African countries, incredibly alarming. The crazy thing is that some specific demographics of gay/trans men have even higher rates of HIV/AIDs, I recall reading that 50% of gay black men will be positive in their lifetime, scary stuff.

The only other exceptions to this are those who are injectable drug users, which I'm sure you aren't.

I wouldn't worry about it but lol at going down there in the back, it's not something I would do with a random woman lol.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I wouldn't be overly worried about HIV as it a far bigger concern in the gay male community.

I've had no condom anal sex many times and never got anything

 

[corsica]

Like I said, she was that type of woman (easy). Even though the chances are slim, I don't want to wait 3 months to find out.

I bought a test and I want to see her again before the 72h timeframe. If she's positive, I can take medication for a month to fight the virus and have a scary life lesson.

How do I tell her I want to test her?

- Look honey, with all those tattoos and your piercings, we both know you're a wh0re. Let me see your finger (so I can take a drop of blood)...

If she's negative, would be okay to raw dog her? Lol, I'm not sure I'll do that.

 

[Pandora]

Bruh why did you eat azz of a random chick with peircings. Hahaha. . . . . Why eat ass at all? Why brotha why?

 

[sangheilios]

Like I said, she was that type of woman (easy). Even though the chances are slim, I don't want to wait 3 months to find out.

I bought a test and I want to see her again before the 72h timeframe. If she's positive, I can take medication for a month to fight the virus and have a scary life lesson.

How do I tell her I want to test her?

- Look honey, with all those tattoos and your piercings, we both know you're a wh0re. Let me see your finger (so I can take a drop of blood)...

If she's negative, would be okay to raw dog her? Lol, I'm not sure I'll do that.

Wait, so you are worried about HIV exposure from this woman and yet you want to go back? Chances are she is HIV negative, but there is a very high likelihood that she has other STDs lol. You can still get genital herpes even when wearing a condom, most people aren't aware of this though.

 

[sangheilios]

Bruh why did you eat azz of a random chick with peircings. Hahaha. . . . . Why eat ass at all? Why brotha why?

Some guys are just wild af, though I really never understood the desire to do this to a woman or have a woman do this to me. With the case of the latter, I kind of question if they are on the spectrum of homosexuality to some extent because that's very weird in my opinion.

 

[CollegeMan22]

You’re probably good with the HIV. 95% of cases come from gay men, who do this kind of thing on the regular. AIDS used to be called GRIDS (Gay-Related Immune Deficiency Syndrome). She might have had some other STD, but the chances of HIV are pretty low.

 

[sangheilios]

I wouldn't be overly worried about HIV as it a far bigger concern in the gay male community.

I've had no condom anal sex many times and never got anything

Anal sex spreads STDs far more readily than vaginal sex, though it's far worse for the receiver than the penetrator. Not really my thing but as I and you have mentioned, if you are doing this with a woman your chances of exposure, let alone being infection, are very low.

 

[sangheilios]

You’re probably good with the HIV. 95% of cases come from gay men, who do this kind of thing on the regular. AIDS used to be called GRIDS (Gay-Related Immune Deficiency Syndrome). She might have had some other STD, but the chances of HIV are pretty low.

Exactly, it's gay men or injectable drug users, at least in the modern world. Africa is a different set of circumstances though.

 

[RickTheToad]

Today I banged this chick I met. She lives nearby and I went to her apartment. Tattoos and nipple piercings, so the type of girl you wouldn't marry.

I was banging her with a condom but I was having problems keeping my erection. So I took the condom and banged her raw. In the heat of the moment I decided to eat her ass and stab her arsehole with my penis.

She told me she's clean but I don't want to rely on her word.

I'm not concerned about worms or any other curable STD. I'm concerned about HIV.

- I didn't *** inside her and it wasn't rough (no lube though). I washed my dik after and it looks normal (no bruises or marks).

Checking online it says you have to take some medication for 28 days (starting before 72h after the encounter). And if you contract HIV, it'll show only after 3 months with a test.

What I can't find is what are the chances of contracting HIV. I know the chances are low for the man in vaginal sex. But what about anal? Should I be worried?

Worried, no, but concerned. In 3 months, order a full panel STD test. I'd be more concerned with da Herp, syphilis, pubic lice, HPV and Gonorrhea.

If you are going to have sex again before the tests, always use a condom so the next person is not exposed to any STIs/STDs you may have contracted while dumpster diving.

 

[corsica]

I tried to see her but she already left to party (new year's eve). I'll try tomorrow.

I'll let you guys know how awkward it was asking her to do a test. I'll bring good condoms and I'll take a generic Viagra this time.

 

[corsica]

Okay guys, everything went okay. I took the test kit, lube and condoms.

I showed her the test and asked her if it was okay to do the test since we had unprotected sex...

Instead of doing it, she puts the kit on the table and starts kissing me. This time no booty-licking. But my small brain (penis) started to think for me. I tried to rationalize how it would be okay to bang her again without condom because of she had HIV, I would know soon enough and start medication ASAP.

So I stabbed her again with my penis. Seeing that nice booty, I decided to switch to anal. Some lube and raw dog her again. I tried to finish in her mouth but she complained about the smell.

I go to the shower and I felt a little sting in my junk. It was a small cut. When I left the shower I saw a little bit of blood forming. I became desperate and asked her to do the test. Took me a few minutes to make sure everything was in order (the kit is easy to use but the instructions are a little confusing). After 15 long and tense minutes, it showed negative (only one stripe instead of two).