girls that are off the market

[espanish]

when someone says "I have a niece for you" is there something wrong with the girl? she is fat or for some reason nobody wants her?

 

[Epicwinguy]

No but they are usually religious, kind of stupid, and won't put out before marriage (for you, anyway.)

 

[Dr.Suave]

Most of the time, yes. There can be exceptions.

 

[Serenity]

Could also just be very shy to point that guys approaching doesn't even help because they act in ways that looks like rejection. There are a myriad of other possibilities though, some bad and some acceptable.

 

[Mike32ct]

It’s a moot point because she likely wouldn’t agree to it anyway.

No girl wants to be fixed up by her family.

 

[Gamisch]

Girls are NEVER off the market. Lol jeezus are you paying attention?

Maybe he meant off limits?

But I second this, a woman is never truly off the market. This understanding alone gave me tons of mental peacefulness. Up until recently I used to believe the opposite. Missed tons of notches out of respect for other people's LTR.

Women have a different view on romance than men . Whereas a 6,5( or higher) man can truly be happy with his hb6,5 wife, this same woman will have a hard time resisting a 8+ Chad . Especially if he creates the right circumstances.

And even if a woman is truly occupied, she will still love flirting ,banter, attention ect. Its horribly frustrating as a man being somewhat aware of this vs being fully aware. This man will pray to the gods she wont cheat , and probably tries to control her as much as possible. I geuss it all fits into the category of "she is not yours it's your turn".

It's liberating to understand this and sense to provide that edge of calmness when dealing with women. Coming year I will " Chad my self up" as much as possible and try to have mucho fun.

 

[espanish]

Maybe he meant off limits?

But I second this, a woman is never truly off the market. This understanding alone gave me tons of mental peacefulness. Up until recently I used to believe the opposite. Missed tons of notches out of respect for other people's LTR.

Women have a different view on romance than men . Whereas a 6,5( or higher) man can truly be happy with his hb6,5 wife, this same woman will have a hard time resisting a 8+ Chad . Especially if he creates the right circumstances.

And even if a woman is truly occupied, she will still love flirting ,banter, attention ect. Its horribly frustrating as a man being somewhat aware of this vs being fully aware. This man will pray to the gods she wont cheat , and probably tries to control her as much as possible. I geuss it all fits into the category of "she is not yours it's your turn".

It's liberating to understand this and sense to provide that edge of calmness when dealing with women. Coming year I will " Chad my self up" as much as possible and try to have mucho fun.

by off the market I mean you know when real estate agents say "this house is off the market" meaning the reason it hasn't sold is not that there is anything wrong with it, it's just not in the market yet. when people introduce their relatives that's the impression they give you. there is nothing wrong with her, she is just not on any dating apps. makes me wonder. if she wasn't fat, wouldn't guys be all over her? why is her relative trying to introduce us to each other? other than being fat, is there any other reason?

 

[jaymbrs]

MANY women would rather meet a man that someone they know can confirm is not a weirdo, creep or a bad person. So they may rely on friends/family to help set them up.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

I don't like being set up. Worse if it's a blind date. Heck, I don't even like the label "date".

I've said this before, I live my life and do things that I enjoy with or without someone. If I am interested in a girl, I'll extend an invite/peek into my world. That's it.