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Tamra Judge (formerly Tamra Barney) has been on Bravo's "The Real Housewives of Orange County" since 2007, save for a 2 season break in 2020-21.
Her back story is incredibly interesting and a good case study on simping, male thirst, and the lack of a Wall.
In Spring 1985, Tamra was 17 years old and graduated high school 3 months pregnant. She turned 18 shortly after that, married the Baby Daddy, and had her first child as a 18 year old with a high school diploma.
This was her senior year of high school picture. Most of her male classmates in that era likely would have rated her as cute. I doubt she was in the Top 25% in terms of looks of her high school graduating class, which was in a middle class (not even upper middle class) suburban Los Angeles area.
Let's move forward to 1990. Tamra is now 22-23 years old and she's a divorced single mom of a 4-5 year old. That sounds bad! But she's looking like this in the late 1980s at her peak SMV age. Looks like her body bounced back from early child birth.
At some point in the 1990s, she moves from Los Angeles County to Orange County. She's jumping from one suburb to another. She meets some guy named Simon Barney. Barney has been in sales management for luxury car brands since at least the 2000s, so in the 1990s, he was likely selling luxury cars and reporting to a dealership sales manager. Anyway, Simon Barney, probable luxury car salesman, wifes up a divorcee and single mom. How great of him to maximize his SMV standing by doing that! This is the 30-31 year old he wifed up in 1998.
They have 3 kids between 1998 and the start of Tamra being on Real Housewives in 2007 as a 39-40 year old woman. By the time Tamra starts appearing on reality TV, she has breast implants and is a stay-at-home mom. Simon Barney likely paid for her breast implants and other cosmetic procedures in her 30s. Also, when she starts on the show, it appears there is trouble in their marriage, a common element of a 10+ year long LTR with 3 kids and 1 stepkid. Their marriage is failing on national TV. This leads Simon into writing a massively beta male blog post below in early 2010. Much of it won't make sense to someone who never watches the show. There's one quote from it that really stands out that people reading this post need to know...
https://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-orange-county/season-5/blogs/drifting-apart
"This did remind me of a conversation on the first day of 2009 (January 1, 2009). Tamra and I were in Las Vegas the day after New Year’s Eve. She told me she knew she could get someone better looking, with more money, and who would let her do whatever she wants, regardless. But she was going to stay together for the kids. I was shocked, and I'm shocked now watching her at dinner with her mother, when she says, "If it wasn't for the kids, I would leave him.""
On January 1, 2009, Tamra is a 41 year old woman who tells her husband that she can upgrade. This shows female hypergamy. This also shows how Simon lost frame. When your wife tells you that kind of ****, you need to tell her to GTFO, not write a whiny blog post on Bravo's website. Of course, by the time a married woman says that to her husband, the marriage is effectively over. Clearly, Simon Barney was not familiar with Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 that Frame is Everything. Tamra demonstrated ZERO appreciation for Simon's beta provisioning skills which helped her be a stay-at-home mom for years, paying for at least one cosmetic surgery procedure, putting up with her existing child, and saving her from a possible life of McJobs with a high school diploma and living in working class/lower middle class neighborhoods and struggling to stay off government assistance and not be a crime victim. This is the embodiment of a spoiled, entitled woman.
Tamra ends up with a man 5 years younger who is friends with Simon Barney. He's Eddie Judge, a fitness trainer and gym owner. Eddie Judge was friends with Simon Barney. Guess bros before hoes means nothing. @Jesse Pinkman has acknowledged that. Eddie Judge proposes marriage to a ~45 year old woman with 4 kids by 2 men. Eddie demonstrated extreme thirst here.
www.nydailynews.com
Look at Tamra in the videos below in her 50s. Her skin on her arms (especially in the first video) is definitely the skin of an older woman. Yet she has amazing female game to get a younger man while having 4 kids with 2 men. Tamra was supposed to be a woman who has hit The Wall yet The Wall was nothing for her.
Her back story is incredibly interesting and a good case study on simping, male thirst, and the lack of a Wall.
In Spring 1985, Tamra was 17 years old and graduated high school 3 months pregnant. She turned 18 shortly after that, married the Baby Daddy, and had her first child as a 18 year old with a high school diploma.
This was her senior year of high school picture. Most of her male classmates in that era likely would have rated her as cute. I doubt she was in the Top 25% in terms of looks of her high school graduating class, which was in a middle class (not even upper middle class) suburban Los Angeles area.
Let's move forward to 1990. Tamra is now 22-23 years old and she's a divorced single mom of a 4-5 year old. That sounds bad! But she's looking like this in the late 1980s at her peak SMV age. Looks like her body bounced back from early child birth.
At some point in the 1990s, she moves from Los Angeles County to Orange County. She's jumping from one suburb to another. She meets some guy named Simon Barney. Barney has been in sales management for luxury car brands since at least the 2000s, so in the 1990s, he was likely selling luxury cars and reporting to a dealership sales manager. Anyway, Simon Barney, probable luxury car salesman, wifes up a divorcee and single mom. How great of him to maximize his SMV standing by doing that! This is the 30-31 year old he wifed up in 1998.
They have 3 kids between 1998 and the start of Tamra being on Real Housewives in 2007 as a 39-40 year old woman. By the time Tamra starts appearing on reality TV, she has breast implants and is a stay-at-home mom. Simon Barney likely paid for her breast implants and other cosmetic procedures in her 30s. Also, when she starts on the show, it appears there is trouble in their marriage, a common element of a 10+ year long LTR with 3 kids and 1 stepkid. Their marriage is failing on national TV. This leads Simon into writing a massively beta male blog post below in early 2010. Much of it won't make sense to someone who never watches the show. There's one quote from it that really stands out that people reading this post need to know...
https://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-orange-county/season-5/blogs/drifting-apart
"This did remind me of a conversation on the first day of 2009 (January 1, 2009). Tamra and I were in Las Vegas the day after New Year’s Eve. She told me she knew she could get someone better looking, with more money, and who would let her do whatever she wants, regardless. But she was going to stay together for the kids. I was shocked, and I'm shocked now watching her at dinner with her mother, when she says, "If it wasn't for the kids, I would leave him.""
On January 1, 2009, Tamra is a 41 year old woman who tells her husband that she can upgrade. This shows female hypergamy. This also shows how Simon lost frame. When your wife tells you that kind of ****, you need to tell her to GTFO, not write a whiny blog post on Bravo's website. Of course, by the time a married woman says that to her husband, the marriage is effectively over. Clearly, Simon Barney was not familiar with Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 that Frame is Everything. Tamra demonstrated ZERO appreciation for Simon's beta provisioning skills which helped her be a stay-at-home mom for years, paying for at least one cosmetic surgery procedure, putting up with her existing child, and saving her from a possible life of McJobs with a high school diploma and living in working class/lower middle class neighborhoods and struggling to stay off government assistance and not be a crime victim. This is the embodiment of a spoiled, entitled woman.
Tamra ends up with a man 5 years younger who is friends with Simon Barney. He's Eddie Judge, a fitness trainer and gym owner. Eddie Judge was friends with Simon Barney. Guess bros before hoes means nothing. @Jesse Pinkman has acknowledged that. Eddie Judge proposes marriage to a ~45 year old woman with 4 kids by 2 men. Eddie demonstrated extreme thirst here.
‘Real Housewives” Tamra Barney rebounds with estranged husband Simon Barney’s friend, Eddie Judge
Hell hath no fury like a “Real Housewives” star accused of adultery. After denying her estranged husband’s accusations of adultery, “Real Housewives of Orange County” …
www.nydailynews.com
Look at Tamra in the videos below in her 50s. Her skin on her arms (especially in the first video) is definitely the skin of an older woman. Yet she has amazing female game to get a younger man while having 4 kids with 2 men. Tamra was supposed to be a woman who has hit The Wall yet The Wall was nothing for her.
