The hotter a woman is, the more crazy sh!t you will deal with

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This post is spot on. Probably some of the reasons why many women are on antidepressants as well. The world is handed to you once your boobs developed and you get a free pass until you screw it up.

This female world is completely foreign to me. I wasn’t born with a vag!na nor did I win the genetic lottery so I had to make something of myself. Live my life with integrity and maintain my reputation like the majority of men do everyday. I can’t relate to ever getting a single thing handed to me based on my gender or looks. People have a lot of respect for me at work because I have shown them my consistent and reliable character since day one.

I wonder what that is like to be desired for just walking in the room and not having to do a single thing. It has to eventually mess with your head. This dynamic or the lack there of creates monsters on the other end of the spectrum as well. I listened to a feminist youtube channel one day out of boredom. It sounded basically black pilled but from the female perspective. The girl was a fat lawyer with a degree from Harvard. All of her videos were rants about the patriarchy and how men were holding her down. My take was that she couldn’t monopolize on her looks and had to do the work (like a typical man) and she was pissed for it. Other narcissistic feminists came on a show and couldn’t fathom being mothers, as they were too selfish to care for another person, but that was some how men’s fault too.

I’ve done something similar where the woman was attractive but a complete pain in the ass. I got tired of her bullsh!t and got passed her looks. It was funny to see her scramble when her looks didn’t work anymore. She didn’t have enough good qualities to counter all of her bs.

I think society created this problem by allowing women way too much freedom. We allow women to behave poorly with little to no accountability. This is why we need to reward good behavior and not tolerate nonsense.
 

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This post is spot on. Probably some of the reasons why many women are on antidepressants as well. The world is handed to you once your boobs developed and you get a free pass until you screw it up.

This female world is completely foreign to me. I wasn’t born with a vag!na nor did I win the genetic lottery so I had to make something of myself. Live my life with integrity and maintain my reputation like the majority of men do everyday. I can’t relate to ever getting a single thing handed to me based on my gender or looks. People have a lot of respect for me at work because I have shown them my consistent and reliable character since day one.

I wonder what that is like to be desired for just walking in the room and not having to do a single thing. It has to eventually mess with your head. This dynamic or the lack there of creates monsters on the other end of the spectrum as well. I listened to a feminist youtube channel one day out of boredom. It sounded basically black pilled but from the female perspective. The girl was a fat lawyer with a degree from Harvard. All of her videos were rants about the patriarchy and how men were holding her down. My take was that she couldn’t monopolize on her looks and had to do the work (like a typical man) and she was pissed for it. Other narcissistic feminists came on a show and couldn’t fathom being mothers, as they were too selfish to care for another person, but that was some how men’s fault too.

I’ve done something similar where the woman was attractive but a complete pain in the ass. I got tired of her bullsh!t and got passed her looks. It was funny to see her scramble when her looks didn’t work anymore. She didn’t have enough good qualities to counter all of her bs.

I think society created this problem by allowing women way too much freedom. We allow women to behave poorly with little to no accountability. This is why we need to reward good behavior and not tolerate nonsense.
+1 imo the real reason we are in this mess as a society is giving mice their cookies
 

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I agree with the overall premise that hotter women have more problems. They generally base their entire existence on how they look because that is simply how human mating strategy works. We want the best genes to give to our offspring and the best looking women equal that.

I disagree with idea that settling for a "7" is the best thing you can do. That is a perfect way to lead yourself into being perpetually unhappy. There are hot women out there that you can deal with - and frankly all women have problems.
 

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This is all fine and dandy but if one DID want to punch above their weight class, how would they go about doing it? I remember the good old days when pick up was all about getting girls outside your league. Something happened along the way where now the golden advice is to settle for 7’s? Not cool
Things have changed. Men have gotten soft. Its in every part of our society. No work ethic these days. Too many soy boys.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Its ok I like the challenge. Their is a point when the robotic 6 servant you have gets really fcking boring.
When your girl is hot shes a bytch yea but up your game and enjoy that hot face and body.
Guys agreeing with is major cope. Get better at handling them.
There is also a point where it's simply not worth bringing that type of drama and bullsh!t into your life. Been there done that.

I'd much prefer a 7 I can vibe with and has a nice body than a 9 who is a constant headache that has no ability to carry on any sort of convo or has any worth outside the bedroom to me.

When you invite problems into your life eventually you become the same problem.
 

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This is all fine and dandy but if one DID want to punch above their weight class, how would they go about doing it? I remember the good old days when pick up was all about getting girls outside your league. Something happened along the way where now the golden advice is to settle for 7’s? Not cool
You really don't punch above your weight. It's all about your SMV relative to hers. Raise your SMV(looks, social skills, status, wealth) and you get hotter women that are better behaved. The best men, get the best women.
 
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Hot women are monetized. Nobody is dating a hot woman without giving up a considerable amount of MEAT...Money, Emotion, Attention, and Time.
 

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I guess you don't subscribe to the crazy hot matrix? Have you dated a lot of ugly girls?
Hot girls are more relaxing to be around. During my early days, yes, Ive dated girls who were not very attractive. I have no shame in saying that.
 

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You really don't punch above your weight. It's all about your SMV relative to hers. Raise your SMV(looks, social skills, status, wealth) and you get hotter women that are better behaved. The best men, get the best women.
I don’t believe that. Early pick up had people like Mystery pulling model tier women
 

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I think it's more how ambitiously attractive they are, as opposed to how naturally beautiful they are. The more ambitiously attractive (i.e., the more they desire to be "hot") the crazier they are, regardless of how naturally beautiful they are. Girls with good beauty genes tend to be less crazy than the ambitiously hot ones.

As detailed by Jesse Pinkman and Chase Amante:


 

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This post is spot on. Probably some of the reasons why many women are on antidepressants as well. The world is handed to you once your boobs developed and you get a free pass until you screw it up.

This female world is completely foreign to me. I wasn’t born with a vag!na nor did I win the genetic lottery so I had to make something of myself. Live my life with integrity and maintain my reputation like the majority of men do everyday. I can’t relate to ever getting a single thing handed to me based on my gender or looks. People have a lot of respect for me at work because I have shown them my consistent and reliable character since day one.

I wonder what that is like to be desired for just walking in the room and not having to do a single thing. It has to eventually mess with your head. This dynamic or the lack there of creates monsters on the other end of the spectrum as well. I listened to a feminist youtube channel one day out of boredom. It sounded basically black pilled but from the female perspective. The girl was a fat lawyer with a degree from Harvard. All of her videos were rants about the patriarchy and how men were holding her down. My take was that she couldn’t monopolize on her looks and had to do the work (like a typical man) and she was pissed for it. Other narcissistic feminists came on a show and couldn’t fathom being mothers, as they were too selfish to care for another person, but that was some how men’s fault too.

I’ve done something similar where the woman was attractive but a complete pain in the ass. I got tired of her bullsh!t and got passed her looks. It was funny to see her scramble when her looks didn’t work anymore. She didn’t have enough good qualities to counter all of her bs.

I think society created this problem by allowing women way too much freedom. We allow women to behave poorly with little to no accountability. This is why we need to reward good behavior and not tolerate nonsense.
On the other side of the spectrum we have (sometimes even hot) women crying on tiktok that they never get approached, men ignore them ect. Makes sense if 30% of men is sexless. It's all fun and games untill 30% of men literally give up on women and their possibilities to get a man declines dramatically. I believe this is also the reason why we see women creating RP content; some REALLY realize what's going on.
I don’t believe that. Early pick up had people like Mystery pulling model tier women
??? . It keeps surprising me guys dont understand how this works ( no knock in you bruh). But in my family I have at least three Mystery type of dudes. They just approach everything with a hole in it.

You either go out there and force it by going at it, or like howie said you make sure you attract it. The most dangerous players do both...
 

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On the other side of the spectrum we have (sometimes even hot) women crying on tiktok that they never get approached, men ignore them ect. Makes sense if 30% of men is sexless. It's all fun and games untill 30% of men literally give up on women and their possibilities to get a man declines dramatically. I believe this is also the reason why we see women creating RP content; some REALLY realize what's going on.

??? . It keeps surprising me guys dont understand how this works ( no knock in you bruh). But in my family I have at least three Mystery type of dudes. They just approach everything with a hole in it.

You either go out there and force it by going at it, or like howie said you make sure you attract it. The most dangerous players do both...
The thing is if you approach enough, you will eventually find a really hot women who seemingly thinks you are hot and is super into you regardless of how you look almost. If you are a 5-6 and above at least.

Not sure why this is, but it has happened to me a few times where a super hot woman thinks I am like the sexiest thing of all time and is all about me...it's like you got whatever it is that she considers the pinnacle of what she wants in a man.

They are out there, but you have to go through a lot to find them. Most guys barely want to put in the work to even get one woman interested let alone trying to find a super hot one who is. It's all volume...with enough volume you can overcome most issues in terms of finding women...then it becomes an issue of keeping them.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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The thing is if you approach enough, you will eventually find a really hot women who seemingly thinks you are hot and is super into you regardless of how you look almost. If you are a 5-6 and above at least.

Not sure why this is, but it has happened to me a few times where a super hot woman thinks I am like the sexiest thing of all time and is all about me...it's like you got whatever it is that she considers the pinnacle of what she wants in a man.

They are out there, but you have to go through a lot to find them. Most guys barely want to put in the work to even get one woman interested let alone trying to find a super hot one who is. It's all volume...with enough volume you can overcome most issues in terms of finding women...then it becomes an issue of keeping them.
100. Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity. Remember that fellows!

It's a matter of being at the right place at the right time. The infamous incel feels like he shouldn't dress well, shouldn't work out because " he's invisible to women anyway ". So he basically reinforces his own problems.
I'd even go a step further;there are COUNTLESS women walking around with all kinds of nasty fantasies. If I see a hot girl at the gym for example I cant help but thinking she MIGHT fancy me and even be DTF. Why wouldn't she? She gots what it takes to make me hard, why wouldn't I have it takes to make her wet??
 
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On the other side of the spectrum we have (sometimes even hot) women crying on tiktok that they never get approached, men ignore them ect. Makes sense if 30% of men is sexless. It's all fun and games untill 30% of men literally give up on women and their possibilities to get a man declines dramatically. I believe this is also the reason why we see women creating RP content; some REALLY realize what's going on.

??? . It keeps surprising me guys dont understand how this works ( no knock in you bruh). But in my family I have at least three Mystery type of dudes. They just approach everything with a hole in it.

You either go out there and force it by going at it, or like howie said you make sure you attract it. The most dangerous players do both...
Meh I tried approaching in 2012-2014ish. Experience proved it was not worth my time. I now get laid
 

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Pretty much go hand in hand.

Why? For a few reasons most likely.

1) They are used to a large percentage of guys falling all over themselves to do whatever it is they want "hoping to get a chance" to fvck them. This leads them to thinking they can do whatever they want and face no real consequences because most guys will overlook it.
The ignoring method will take care of all that handily, with no problem.

2) On the other end of the spectrum, they get used by "Chads" and looked at like a sex object and not a real person. The only value they have in many guys eyes is as a sex object which dehumanizes them and makes them not a real person. This creates a strange dynamic where they are worshipped by bootlickers they have no interest in, but treated as a sex object by guys they are interested in many times. They are never really viewed as a person outside of their hotness.
And some dont have a problem with it.

Ever heard of....Instagram? Tiktok?

3) They typically have really bad relationships with guys who are unaffected/don't give a crap about their hotness. Unfortunately most of these dudes are borderline sociopaths/narcissists themselves which leads to the woman never feeling good enough or valuable as a person outside once again being a sex object.
And some of the women in question can be narcissists themselves.

Men can be victims of emotional abuse just like women.

4) They know every time they walk outside some guy wants to fvck them so they have unlimited options and can always find someone else, leading to lots of sh!t tests and hoops to jump through for "winning" her vag.
Yeah but at the end of the day, they are still getting smashed by someone.

So improve your SMV so that you can be that someone...or one of those someones.

5) There is a higher likelihood they have been viewed as sex objects growing up and have been sexually abused/raped by relatives or prior boyfriends...far more frequent than most believe. This causes almost irreparable damage in terms of relationship ability and trusting anyone ever again.
And those same women are the same ones you see at the club or on dating websites.

So, don't believe the hype.

My advice? Find a cute 7 with a great personality and a kick ass body and you are far better off than with a 9 and dealing with her psycho ass and BPD self.
"9's are psycho's and have BPD."

Complete and utter nonsense.

Mental illnesses, childhood trauma, and everything else you mentioned effects women of all rating scales; 1-10.

You are generalizing and stereotyping...and both are fallacious.

If you know the game, you would know not to put ANY woman on a pedestal based on looks.

Smh.
 

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