my advice for any incel or guy looking for an LTR or girlfriend? Join a church or religious community. Serious, it is so easy that I do not even count Church game as game. You join it, be a good person, add value, and you will find a wife. Everyone is trying to get married there anyways. However, most incels are god awful people too so I don't think it would be viable to them.
The biggest problem with making that effort is numerical. In the last 15 years or so, there aren't that many younger single people who actively practice a religion anymore.
Go to the Sunday service in any Judeo-Christian denomination. Try to see how many solo males or solo females are attending service alone, are approachable, and are under 40. It's not a big number in the majority of churches. There are some churches that are exceptions to this.
Your advice would have worked better 15-25 years ago, in the pre-Millennial era. For the Boomers, going to church made sense. Even for the Gen X'ers as things were changing, it was still possible to make things work. The Millennials in their 20s/30s haven't been practicing religion as much as Boomers and Gen X'ers.
As someone who still considers himself a Protestant and tries to live by the Bible (except for the no sex before marriage part), a lot of the religious act is a farce. The people you meet in church can also be some of the most shallow, devious, and vain people out there. The more someone brags about being a Christian, the less of a Christian they are. Churches can bring out some of the worst people in society.
The "no sex before marriage" rule does affect church participation for Millennials. I noticed that in past decades, the Boomers and Gen X'ers would still go to church but ignore that rule, whereas the Millennials don't want to participate because of that rule. Millennial men are also thirstier for sex than the Boomers or even the X'er men.
Grew up in a very religious part of the US (church is huge down south) and as soon as the kids from good Christian homes went away for college, they went WILD. I mean these girls were the sluttiest because they had religious parents that said no sex before marriage. They wanted to rebel so bad compared to the girls who had lenient parents and got the craziness out of their systems in high school.
Youth groups and the youth church scene is loaded with horny people. These women do not show it openly but when they are hooked, man they are hooked like crazy.
If the kids from good Christian homes go to a public university with no religious tenets, they tend to go wild.
If the kids from good Chirstian homes go to a more strict, religious school, those are the ones that tend to practice religion and be less wild. A lot of them still get rings before college graduation.
Over the years, post-college, I've had some odd interactions with women who participate in young adults groups at churches. Most of my interactions have been with women that didn't actively practice religion or never mentioned religion and we only had a "one date, no sex, no second date" type date. Some of the women that never mentioned religion (I didn't mention it either) likely practiced religion.
