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Master Don Juan
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Yeah man, this is just some advice and insight.
I already know that some of you guys on here are kiss ass beta males and worship the ground that women walk on, and this information will be hard for you to grasp.
However, for those that are willing to pay attention, learn something, and level up, you may find this info to be fruitful.
Again, I am only telling you what I know based on experience, and just like my cold approaching methods, if it didn't work for me, then I wouldn't be sharing it with you.
But anyways, here is the concept: when you ignore a woman, it creates a psychological effect that can draw her to you...and thus, you can draw her to you without even saying a word to her.
We shall call this method, the "Ignoring Method".
This method is best suited towards women of whom you are in contact with on a regular basis...
1. At school: She is your classmate.
2. At work: She is your coworker.
3. Public places: She works at a store that you frequent...or a library that you frequent often.
4. Neighbor: She lives in your neighborhood and you see her often.
5. Social circle: She is a family friend that you don't know well but see often, or she is a friend of your friends and you see her often.
But what does "ignoring" mean when it comes to this method?
Applying the ignoring method doesn't mean that you are to be impolite or disrespectful if she speaks to you...however, what it does mean is that if she doesn't speak to you, you don't speak to her. If she speaks to you, speak to her. In fact, at places like work or school, you may be even REQUIRED to speak to her. But if you must speak to her, keep the conversations to a bare minimum...you are to be as boring as a gray rock.
Short responses.
Ignoring her means that if you and her are walking towards each other as you each are going the opposite direction, you walk pass her and don't say anything. Don't even give her eye contact.
Why, because she doesn't exist.
And notice that I keep saying "her".
Who is "her"?
"Her" is the woman that you are applying the method to...because the method is not meant for you to go around being antisocial or stone-faced. The method is meant to be applied to certain women of whom YOU'VE decided to apply it to.
So, who does it apply to?
1. It applies to the women that everyone else is giving attention to. Usually this will be the attractive woman that every man wants but none can have...or it can simply be the woman with the sparking personality that everyone is naturally drawn towards.
2. It can also apply to the women that you actually find attractive and you want to draw her to you.
The point is, when you are in those situations, you are to monitor the situation and find out who you will apply it to. It can be one woman, or more than one woman....it just all the depends.
Now that we got all of that out of the way...
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Women have lived their entire lives getting attention and compliments from men. Every woman, from the attractive ones to the unattractive ones, have an abundance mindset. From the time they were young to when the reach adulthood, they have always had pursuers.
So, when you don't give her what she has been getting her entire lives (attention, compliments, validation), it makes her become more curious about you.
"Everyone else is talking to me, what isn't he?"
Women have a certain power over men, and they know it....and when you ignore them, you strip away a little (or a lot) of their power, and it causes a psychological effect...it damages their ego...causing them to be more interesting in whatever is causing this loss of power...which is YOU.
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Before I share my experiences, let me give some final prefaces..
1. This method will not guarantee results, and just because it can work does not mean it will work.
2. Just like cold approaching, if you want maximize your chances, you must work on those self-improvement tips. It is a MUST.
3. This is just one method of a few that you can use to get what you want. It is a tool you can use you please. If it doesn't work, then go to something else.
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Now, real life experiences..
Case 1: The very first case. I was a young man, age 19. I worked at Meijer, which is a large retail chain in the mid-west (like Walmart). I had two work acquaintances of whom I didn't know well, but well enough for us to shoot the breeze on occasions (whenever I saw them, we worked in different departments). We were all around the same age at the time.
There was an attractive, young black cashier that was around our age. She was indeed very attractive.
My two work buddies would typically walk up to her register and start talking to her, which is not uncommon in those environments. However, I was a very shy guy back then and I was intimidated by her beauty, so when they would go and talk to her, I would simply keep walking. I never said one word to her, and she never said one word to me.
This continued to happen they in and day out. One day, as I was checking in for work I walked by her register, minding my own business and she said "Heyyy, good morning", and I told her good morning and kept walking.
Now, I wound up getting fired shortly thereafter and nothing ever materialized (even though I was probably too much of a sucka to make something happen).
I didn't think anything of it at the time, but after getting older and maturing and becoming the man that I am and based on similar experiences of recent, I can look back at that one, small incident and say I was on to something.
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Case 2: Last year, my older cousin invited me to chill with him at a bar for his birthday one night.
We went to a bar and was chilling in the little outside lounge area with tables and chairs.
He is a drinker, I don't drink.
So, he was getting his drink on and we were talking about various topics (he was trying to get me into crypto currency lol). We were just having a good time.
Suddenly, this attractive black woman walks up and comes through the small gate which lead into the lounge. My cousin is one of those smooth type of guys that have NO PROBLEM talking to a woman. He is one of those "How you doin, sweet thang" kind of guys.
So, he did this to this woman and introduced us to the woman, and the two of them were engaged in a conversation.
Now, once they started conversing, I immediately got up from the table and went and sat at one of the lounge chairs so that they can have a little privacy
I saw down at the lounge and pulled out my phone and began to do some internet surfing while cuz handled his business.
I am in my own world, and all of a sudden I hear...
Her: "Look at your cousin over there, aint saying nothing".
Me: "Oh, I'm just letting cuz do his thang, this is his day".
I said that, and went back to my scrolling on my phone.
And I noticed that she kept looking towards my way on occasion, despite my cousin spitting game to her.
My cousin is all in her face, yet, she is focusing on the dude that aint paying her any mind....me.
Her focus was on the dude ignoring her, not on the dude validating her.
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Yeah man, this is just some advice and insight.
I already know that some of you guys on here are kiss ass beta males and worship the ground that women walk on, and this information will be hard for you to grasp.
However, for those that are willing to pay attention, learn something, and level up, you may find this info to be fruitful.
Again, I am only telling you what I know based on experience, and just like my cold approaching methods, if it didn't work for me, then I wouldn't be sharing it with you.
But anyways, here is the concept: when you ignore a woman, it creates a psychological effect that can draw her to you...and thus, you can draw her to you without even saying a word to her.
We shall call this method, the "Ignoring Method".
This method is best suited towards women of whom you are in contact with on a regular basis...
1. At school: She is your classmate.
2. At work: She is your coworker.
3. Public places: She works at a store that you frequent...or a library that you frequent often.
4. Neighbor: She lives in your neighborhood and you see her often.
5. Social circle: She is a family friend that you don't know well but see often, or she is a friend of your friends and you see her often.
But what does "ignoring" mean when it comes to this method?
Applying the ignoring method doesn't mean that you are to be impolite or disrespectful if she speaks to you...however, what it does mean is that if she doesn't speak to you, you don't speak to her. If she speaks to you, speak to her. In fact, at places like work or school, you may be even REQUIRED to speak to her. But if you must speak to her, keep the conversations to a bare minimum...you are to be as boring as a gray rock.
Short responses.
Ignoring her means that if you and her are walking towards each other as you each are going the opposite direction, you walk pass her and don't say anything. Don't even give her eye contact.
Why, because she doesn't exist.
And notice that I keep saying "her".
Who is "her"?
"Her" is the woman that you are applying the method to...because the method is not meant for you to go around being antisocial or stone-faced. The method is meant to be applied to certain women of whom YOU'VE decided to apply it to.
So, who does it apply to?
1. It applies to the women that everyone else is giving attention to. Usually this will be the attractive woman that every man wants but none can have...or it can simply be the woman with the sparking personality that everyone is naturally drawn towards.
2. It can also apply to the women that you actually find attractive and you want to draw her to you.
The point is, when you are in those situations, you are to monitor the situation and find out who you will apply it to. It can be one woman, or more than one woman....it just all the depends.
Now that we got all of that out of the way...
--------------
Women have lived their entire lives getting attention and compliments from men. Every woman, from the attractive ones to the unattractive ones, have an abundance mindset. From the time they were young to when the reach adulthood, they have always had pursuers.
So, when you don't give her what she has been getting her entire lives (attention, compliments, validation), it makes her become more curious about you.
"Everyone else is talking to me, what isn't he?"
Women have a certain power over men, and they know it....and when you ignore them, you strip away a little (or a lot) of their power, and it causes a psychological effect...it damages their ego...causing them to be more interesting in whatever is causing this loss of power...which is YOU.
-------------
Before I share my experiences, let me give some final prefaces..
1. This method will not guarantee results, and just because it can work does not mean it will work.
2. Just like cold approaching, if you want maximize your chances, you must work on those self-improvement tips. It is a MUST.
3. This is just one method of a few that you can use to get what you want. It is a tool you can use you please. If it doesn't work, then go to something else.
------------
Now, real life experiences..
Case 1: The very first case. I was a young man, age 19. I worked at Meijer, which is a large retail chain in the mid-west (like Walmart). I had two work acquaintances of whom I didn't know well, but well enough for us to shoot the breeze on occasions (whenever I saw them, we worked in different departments). We were all around the same age at the time.
There was an attractive, young black cashier that was around our age. She was indeed very attractive.
My two work buddies would typically walk up to her register and start talking to her, which is not uncommon in those environments. However, I was a very shy guy back then and I was intimidated by her beauty, so when they would go and talk to her, I would simply keep walking. I never said one word to her, and she never said one word to me.
This continued to happen they in and day out. One day, as I was checking in for work I walked by her register, minding my own business and she said "Heyyy, good morning", and I told her good morning and kept walking.
Now, I wound up getting fired shortly thereafter and nothing ever materialized (even though I was probably too much of a sucka to make something happen).
I didn't think anything of it at the time, but after getting older and maturing and becoming the man that I am and based on similar experiences of recent, I can look back at that one, small incident and say I was on to something.
--------------
Case 2: Last year, my older cousin invited me to chill with him at a bar for his birthday one night.
We went to a bar and was chilling in the little outside lounge area with tables and chairs.
He is a drinker, I don't drink.
So, he was getting his drink on and we were talking about various topics (he was trying to get me into crypto currency lol). We were just having a good time.
Suddenly, this attractive black woman walks up and comes through the small gate which lead into the lounge. My cousin is one of those smooth type of guys that have NO PROBLEM talking to a woman. He is one of those "How you doin, sweet thang" kind of guys.
So, he did this to this woman and introduced us to the woman, and the two of them were engaged in a conversation.
Now, once they started conversing, I immediately got up from the table and went and sat at one of the lounge chairs so that they can have a little privacy
I saw down at the lounge and pulled out my phone and began to do some internet surfing while cuz handled his business.
I am in my own world, and all of a sudden I hear...
Her: "Look at your cousin over there, aint saying nothing".
Me: "Oh, I'm just letting cuz do his thang, this is his day".
I said that, and went back to my scrolling on my phone.
And I noticed that she kept looking towards my way on occasion, despite my cousin spitting game to her.
My cousin is all in her face, yet, she is focusing on the dude that aint paying her any mind....me.
Her focus was on the dude ignoring her, not on the dude validating her.
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