Should I Call Her Out for standing me up?

[soulforge]

Lol bich has gone crazy and is on her way to my house

 

[member160292]

You need to do a better job screening women OP

 

[Gamisch]

Lol bich has gone crazy and is on her way to my house

Oke bro. You got this!

Just remember it's all fun and games untill Miss psycho her antics work against you ..


For now enjoy,and going out doing bf gf stuff is a nono with this one. Strictly hooking up having s3x and even better on YOUR terms.

Have a great evening!

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

My geuss is that you KNOW exactly what to do now, but perhaps you hope someone will say something like; " ah, the hell with it ,this is just women. Pretend like nothing happened, smile it all away and keep it moving? You had a hotter one recently? No? Then you should forgive her, understand her blablabla"

lmao the cope train

 

[soulforge]

Ok so she is at my house now and argumentative as fuk..

Anyway I'm going to smash her and send her rotten azz home.

Never will I invite her over again

 

[Gamisch]

lmao the cope train

Haha I love that term. Cope train.

If you post this question on R/ , the cope train will take off.

R/relationship be like:
- you are so much older , be the wise one
-maybe she had a great reason to flake
When my gf flakes most of the time it was something minor, like being exhausted from work..
-(woman) -But did she actually confirm the date? I am sometimes so chaotic and forget blabla
-(Woman) but do you love her?Foes she love you?
- bruh, why dont you just ask her and tell her you don't like it. We all gott learn and grow.

Sosuave be like

Dumb her azz.

Ok so she is at my house now and argumentative as fuk..

Anyway I'm going to smash her and send her rotten azz home.

Never will I invite her over again

Argumentive about what? Why you let her drag you into a argument? She should be happy you even let her in. Man,you gotta reframe your own mind.

I hope she is at least alone and didn't have the freaking nerve to bring that cousin along AND put you on the spot by being disrespectful like this.

 

[soulforge]

Are you alive OP? Do we need to call the cyber crimes to track your location to see if you're alive?

Lol smash her and tell her that you don't go out with women who waste your time, and tell her have a nice life. No other guy does that

I'm still alive... She argued like fuk about me not taking her call, she wanted to know how I feel about her... She wanted cuddles and kisses blah blah blah. Anyhow I didn't give too much away, I did mention to her that her communication skills suck, other than that we smashed.

I'm guessing her IL is pretty high, however this girl is NOT relationship material.. ever

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

So been seeing this girl for 3 months.

We had a date planned for tonight, I clearly and specifically arranged everything 3 days ago. She was meant to leave work and come straight to my house.

She went out drinking last night & my gut instinct tells me that she been upto something.

Tonight was our date, and she didn't turn up (Flaked)

She has text me tonight and is acting like nothing has happened, she is putting on an act like the date wasn't even in place. Like its all good.

Do I call her out and let her know that you didn't turn up for the date?

Or simply send her a text saying, I had a good day thanks, and just next her?

I am ready to next her, she has been playing games like this for a while when it comes to dates. Even though I Arrange a date, she still expects me to give chase on the day of the date.

I arranged the date, time, location and left the ball in her court... But she didn't turn up, because I didn't chase her.

Sooo... Tell her that she should have told me that she wasn't going to meet?

Or simply next this disrespectful 304???

Did you hit yet?

 

[derby1]

This Fukin cvnt didn't even feel the need to even send me a text and say sorry I ain't coming.

Instead she acting like nothing happened.

LOL LOL LOL this is the modern western woman for you,

they will literally carry on texting you as if they didnt flake.

she could have super high interest and she still wont respect you one bit, because shes taught herself men are pathetic

 

[derby1]

I'm guessing her IL is pretty high, however this girl is NOT relationship material.. ever

this is the kind of chic who is an entitled brat, if you ever do something she doesnt like or you criticise her, she will activate all her side ****.

when the goings good shes fun as hell,

you fall asleep for an hour and dont reply to her DM and she will presume you are with other women & fck your mate

 

[soulforge]

Her plan isn't backfiring if you allow her to come over.

Has she apologized?

If not, then tell her you're busy.

You can't just let her back in willy nilly, she needs to experience the consequences of her actions!

Instill some fear in her that she's lost you! Like really lost you.

That won't happen by allowing her to call the shots and come over which is what you're doing now.

Tell her no, you're busy. Let the hamster wheels spin for awhile.

Well she turned at my house at my door even though I ignored her.

She has apologised, I think she realises she should have communicated things a little better with me.

We had plans for the date, I was expecting her to

this is the kind of chic who is an entitled brat, if you ever do something she doesnt like or you criticise her, she will activate all her side ****.

when the goings good shes fun as hell,

you fall asleep for an hour and dont reply to her DM and she will presume you are with other women & fck your mate

Your hundred percent on this.. this chic is super insecure about being cheated on, she is type who would smash your mate, because she had a feeling that might have cheated

 

[Divorced w 3]

Well she turned at my house at my door even though I ignored her.

She has apologised, I think she realises she should have communicated things a little better with me.

We had plans for the date, I was expecting her to


Your hundred percent on this.. this chic is super insecure about being cheated on, she is type who would smash your mate, because she had a feeling that might have cheated

She literally came over and apologized?

“I’m sorry”
“No you aren’t “
“Yes I am “
“Prove it”

Edit…..
… she would smash your friend out of neuroticism? Geez man. Why put yourself through that … you obviously like her a lot. You’re setting yourself up

 

[derby1]

She apologized?

“I’m sorry”
“No you aren’t “
“Yes I am “
“Prove it”

this is good, apologies mean nothing, remember all women are rampant on the narc spectrum.

change means everything.

use overt comms to either get her to spend money on you, (presume she will cancel or flake as SDGAF really)

or nut a huge load in her mouth, but dont travel off your sofa to meet her.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Anyway I'm going to smash her and send her rotten azz home.

Pathetic. Get rid of this broad. No smashing.

Never will I invite her over again

You’re capping. You gonna invite her back over as soon as she leaves.

OP, get some self respect. Block this broad.

 

[Divorced w 3]

this is good, apologies mean nothing, remember all women are rampant on the narc spectrum.

change means everything.

use overt comms to either get her to spend money on you, (presume she will cancel or flake as SDGAF really)

or nut a huge load in her mouth, but dont travel off your sofa to meet her.

Yeah this is where I was going. Im not even technically out of a marriage with a psychiatrically unbalance wife and I’ll tell you there is nothing she can say, do, or be worth financially that is worth it. My ex had a multiple 8 figure trust. NOT worth it

 

[derby1]

My ex had a multiple 8 figure trust.

do you mean she had money or do you mean you could write her integrity on water? aka she was a compulsive liar

 

[Divorced w 3]

do you mean she had money or do you mean you could write her integrity on water? aka she was a compulsive liar

She has a father who will cut her endless checks and she is a narcissistic personality on a ****tail of psychiatric drugs since we divorced

 

[soulforge]

Pathetic. Get rid of this broad. No smashing.



You’re capping. You gonna invite her back over as soon as she leaves.

OP, get some self respect. Block this broad.

I'm already working on that... She ain't getting another invite from here on..

She literally came over and apologized?

“I’m sorry”
“No you aren’t “
“Yes I am “
“Prove it”

Edit…..
… she would smash your friend out of neuroticism? Geez man. Why put yourself through that … you obviously like her a lot. You’re setting yourself up

I hear you man... My gut instinct on this one, tells me she is trouble... I'm going to distance myself from her.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I'm already working on that... She ain't getting another invite from here on..



I hear you man... My gut instinct on this one, tells me she is trouble... I'm going to distance myself from her.

Have you fcked her yet? If it’s been 90 days and you haven’t even had sexual contact that’s more than enough to move on. I’ve had ONEitis, I am easily outside looking in, but it’s definitely a red flag.