Had we gone out for at least a few times and she deleted it based on the fact that she told me she just likes focusing on one guy at a time (ie. me) then by all means, very positive. The fact that she just deleted it for reasons unknown and certainly nothing to do with me, adding on all the other issues with her, raises serious questions.
The wildest thing is that your metro area isn't known as an Italian-American stronghold.
It is a stronghold of natural blue-eyed blondes and I suspect they've defensively inflated their standards because of that. Also, the men here have a reputation of expecting the women to put out, and they (the Italianas) do like to play hard to get to begin with.
I was like that when I lived there.
Yes, plenty of blue eyed blondes and regular White women with light-ish brown to medium brown hair there. Also, plenty of Hispanic women.
The Italianas online tend to strongly identify as white conservatives (they're big into guns and trump) and I think they're reacting to the latinas as well, since they look similar but the latinas have observably sweeter dispositions. It's like they're stuck in no-man's land here dating wise and it drive them nuts, but they're not about to move back to Michigan or NY with the cold winters.
Wow, that's a very sensible and fair assessment.
This makes sense as well. They're very much wanting something "traditional" according to their bios and they're a social group of women, so I wouldn't doubt that the best ones are disproportionately taken. I wouldn't say it's the "worst of the worst" though, there are some high-value Italians on the apps. What distinguishes them is the pervasiveness of their self-defeating expectations (even compared to other groups).
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The question OP asks isn't even valid. Because it doesn't matter. Regardless of whether she doesn't want to date or want to to date YOU specifically it doesn't matter. The end result is the same and it does no good to even wonder about it.
I think it's a reasonable question to ask, but it's also an easy question to answer. If a girl is jaded it's easy enough to tell, just be prepared to give her a shorter leash and be quicker to move on.
Pretty much. Though for me if she followed up the I'll let you know on so and so day, that would be fine. Simply saying "i'll let you know", or in her case having the gall to write "maybe i'll let you know...." (even though i dont think she realized how that sounded) is someone who is simply not interested in whats going on. If I'm a chick and I had a good first date and am interested, I'm throwing out days I'm free and/or asking the guy what days he's free. Was sad to see. Because this date really was very enjoyable. But this continues to be a trend I see in these mid to late 30's dating app women.
I mean not really, because what you do is exactly the same. Walk away. Bottom line if she thought OP was someone she wanted to see more of, not wanting to date wouldn't be on her mind. Her wondering how his c0ck would feel in her mouth would be.
