My Experiences with Cold Approaching Part 2

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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Last year (Sep 2021, to be exact), I went out cold approaching (CA) for the first time.

I decided to document/keep stats of my progress or lack thereof. But first, lets set some parameters, as to what defines success.

Cold approaching success, for me, is based on two categories...

1. The percentage of women that I was able to successfully obtain their numbers.

2. The percentage of women that I was successfully able to have sexual/intimate physical contact with after I successfully obtained their numbers.

Lets talk about both categories..

A. Successfully obtain their numbers: What this means is, after I get a woman's number, we had an ongoing conversation via text or call or in person...that is, a meaningful conversation. Why are meaningful conversation important?

They are important because a woman may give you her phone number, not because she is feeling you, but because she may feel the pressure of the moment (when you approach her) and not want to tell you no...so she gives you her number out of pressure with no intent of building any kind with you.

And you will know EXACTLY if this is the case once you text her and she is giving you vague or late responses, consistently.

If a woman is vague, evasive, or late in her communications with you, then you cannot count that as a success because her heart/mind isn't in the right place when it comes to...you.

So, success is meaningful conversations via text, phone, or in person AFTER your initial encounter. Such conversations is her showing her interest in you, because if a woman doesn't have interest in you, then getting her number was/is pointless.

B. Successfully able to have sexual contact: Self explanatory, isn't it? I define sexual contact as any sexual/physical intimate contact with a woman that goes beyond hugging. Sexual intercourse, oral sex, deep kissing, titty sucking, is all under this category.

Now, the goal is to move from A (getting the number), to B (have sexual contact).

That is the goal.

So, now that we've defined what constitutes success, and the goal, I will share with you what qualifications the woman must meet in order for me to approach her...

1. Big titties: I am a breast man. That is the first thing I look for when I go out hunting for women; do she have big titties? I do not care what her face looks like, because big titties instantly makes virtually any woman look attractive. However, if she has a cute face with small titties, I may be able to compromise, and usually those kind of women have smaller, petite frames. But I digress.

2. Relationship status: If the woman is married, she is OFF TARGET. I do not mess with married women. I also do not mess with women who are in relationships. I try to respect marriage and relationships (bad karma). However, sometimes I may still mess with a woman if she is in a relationship..rare, but it can happen. Married, NO.

Long story short, if the woman is single with big titties...she is eligible to be pursued.

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I make most of my cold approaches at Walmart. That is where I find the most diversity of women on a typical day-to-day basis at any given time, and it is currently my favorite places to go hunting. Most weekends, I go on Walmart touring, visiting 4-5 different stores in a day.

When I go inside Walmart, I make a quick sweep of the store to see if there are women that I find physically appealing.

If I find one, I scope out the vicinity.

Is she alone? Are there people nearby in her immediate area?

Monitoring the situation, and once the time is right, I approach her. This is what I say...

"Dang, you cute. Are you single?"

BAM.

Direct, and STRAIGHT TO THE POINT.

Remember, I don't mess with married women or women in relationships, so if the woman states that she isn't single, I say "Aight then", and simply walk away.

Nothing more to be said.

If the woman say she is single, I say...

"Mind if I get your number then?"

If she says yes I say "Bet.", and I pull out my phone..."whats your name?"

And she gives me her name (let call her Gina). Then I say "Alright Gina. My name is Kevin. What's yo number?"

She gives me her number, and then I say "Alright bet. Are you more of a talker or texter?"

Depending on her answer (if she say texter), I will say "Bet. I will text you later".

She will say "Alright/ok".

I will say "Alright, have a good one."

She say "Ok, you too".

In and out in less than a minute. No long, drawn out conversations trying to impress her. No fancy pancy pick up lines. No juggling or magic tricks.

In, and OUT.

Now, the latter part of the 6 months that I cold approached, instead of getting the WOMAN'S number, I began to give her my number...and if she calls, she calls, and if she doesn't, she doesn't.

It is what it is, either way.

But yeah, that is how an average conversation will go when cold approaching, when I stick to my short script.

However, there are occasions where the conversations will last longer, but if it does, it is because the women insist on talking to me, not because I want to talk to them. (Big difference).

Stay tuned for part 3.

 

[SW15]

if the woman is single with big titties...she is eligible to be pursued.

I make most of my cold approaches at Walmart. That is where I find the most diversity of women on a typical day-to-day basis at any given time, and it is currently my favorite places to go hunting. Most weekends, I go on Walmart touring, visiting 4-5 different stores in a day.

When I go inside Walmart, I make a quick sweep of the store to see if there are women that I find physically appealing.

If I find one, I scope out the vicinity.

Is she alone? Are there people nearby in her immediate area?

Monitoring the situation, and once the time is right, I approach her. This is what I say...

"Dang, you cute. Are you single?"

BAM.

Direct, and STRAIGHT TO THE POINT.

Remember, I don't mess with married women or women in relationships, so if the woman states that she isn't single, I say "Aight then", and simply walk away.

Nothing more to be said.

If the woman say she is single, I say...

"Mind if I get your number then?"

In and out in less than a minute. No long, drawn out conversations trying to impress her. No fancy pancy pick up lines. No juggling or magic tricks.

This is so cool. I've never heard of a guy specializing in doing pickups at Walmart.

I have done grocery store and retail store approaching. With grocery store approaching, I've done approaches inside a variety of grocery store brands.

I've tended to have longer conversations when I've done grocery store approaching.

Is there's a specific area of Walmart where you've done pickup? In a typical Walmart Supercenter, are you doing approaches near the grocery area or in more general merchandise areas?

I've also done more mall approaches.

I like how all you do is ask if they are single and then ask for their number. I've tended to start conversations, pitch a date idea, then collect a number.

 

[KingTurbo]

What's the success rate, AFTER you get her number.
They should just tell you if they are single in conversation using hints.

I am way more assertive and demanding but don't cold approach. I feel cold approaching isn't successful, your much better off befriending someone and meeting a girl at a party or a hobby or something.

"You dropped something"
"What?"
"I want you to drop your number in my phone"
(Puts number in)
"Cool. Maybe I'll text you" (walks away)

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

This is so cool. I've never heard of a guy specializing in doing pickups at Walmart.

I have done grocery store and retail store approaching. With grocery store approaching, I've done approaches inside a variety of grocery store brands.

Bro, when I lived in AZ, there were about 6 different Walmarts within a 7 mile radius of my crib...and no matter what time of the day/night it is, or what day of the week, Walmart has almost NEVER failed me.

I am guaranteed to come out with SOMETHING at Walmart, and I am not talking about store product either.

All different ages, races, and body-types...it is always an adventure. From the employees to the customers.

Hell, even in the parking lot before I even ENTER the store!!

I've tended to have longer conversations when I've done grocery store approaching.

Yup, grocery stores in general...but Walmart though...lol.

Is there's a specific area of Walmart where you've done pickup? In a typical Walmart Supercenter, are you doing approaches near the grocery area or in more general merchandise areas?

I do a sweep through the entire store. Since my pickings are so BROAD and diverse, I have to sweep through the entire store to cover all bases.

I've also done more mall approaches.

I also do mall approaches on occasions as well.

I like how all you do is ask if they are single and then ask for their number. I've tended to start conversations, pitch a date idea, then collect a number.

Sometimes I throw in the date idea when I ask for the number...

"Oh, mind if I get your number...so maybe we can do the dinner/movie thing?"

She should know whether or not she is interested in you based on the first 10 seconds. That is how much your swagger and confidence should be oozing from you, along with your physical appearance.

If she can't see the G in you within those first initial seconds, then charge her to the game.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

What's the success rate, AFTER you get her number.

See part 3.

They should just tell you if they are single in conversation using hints.

Hints? Conversation? If she aint single, then there is nothing to conversate about.

Why waste time looking for hints in a conversation, when you can just straight-forward ask her if she is single and if she is, get her number...and if she aint, move on and look for someone who is single.

I am way more assertive and demanding but don't cold approach.

It aint for everyone.

I feel cold approaching isn't successful

It is for me.

, your much better off befriending someone and meeting a girl at a party or a hobby or something.

Regardless of whether you are at a party or a hobby, you still have to make the approach.

No matter how you look at it, one person has to approach the other person...and 9 times out of 10, the woman wont be the one approaching you.

Not only that, but what if there are no parties to attend...what do you do? Sit around waiting for a future party to present itself?

Not me...I go out and get it.

"You dropped something"
"What?"
"I want you to drop your number in my phone"
(Puts number in)
"Cool. Maybe I'll text you" (walks away)

Cheesy pick up lines and she still might not even give you the number lol.

 

[SW15]

Bro, when I lived in AZ, there were about 6 different Walmarts within a 7 mile radius of my crib...and no matter what time of the day/night it is, or what day of the week, Walmart has almost NEVER failed me.

I am guaranteed to come out with SOMETHING at Walmart, and I am not talking about store product either.

All different ages, races, and body-types...it is always an adventure. From the employees to the customers.

Hell, even in the parking lot before I even ENTER the store!!

Yup, grocery stores in general...but Walmart though...lol.

I've tended to see the most amount of approach opportunities and arranged the most amount of dates in Kroger, both inside the store and in the parking lot. That surprised me. When I first started getting into grocery store approaching, I was expecting to get the most number of approaches and most number of dates in Whole Foods.

You mentioned Arizona. In Arizona, Kroger owns Fry's Food and Drug.

You mentioned doing Walmart touring. When I was most serious about grocery store approaching, I would do 2 hours per weekend in grocery stores. I would do 1 hour in one store, then 1 hour in another store, either on the same day or the next day. I would mix up the grocery store brands. I didn't do Walmart because I didn't figure the demographic I was chasing would be most in Walmart. I could have been wrong on that.

I was mixing up my approaches between a Kroger branded store, an Albertsons branded store, Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Central Market. In Arizona, the rough equivalent of Central Market is AJ's Fine Foods.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I've tended to see the most amount of approach opportunities and arranged the most amount of dates in Kroger, both inside the store and in the parking lot. That surprised me. When I first started getting into grocery store approaching, I was expecting to get the most number of approaches and most number of dates in Whole Foods.

You mentioned Arizona. In Arizona, Kroger owns Fry's Food and Drug.

You are correct, Fry's Food and Drug...that was a nice spot for hunting, too. But let me stress this point; there is no single place that I've seen that has the diverse selection of women than Walmart.

No place.

Now granted, there was a point where malls were the place to go for that kind of stuff...but this day and age, malls aren't popping like they used to be and Walmart as surpassed even shopping malls.

On a good day, I could stand out in the parking lot of Walmart and cold approach for a good half hour before even going inside the store, especially at select stores.

Mannnnn lol.

You mentioned doing Walmart touring. When I was most serious about grocery store approaching, I would do 2 hours per weekend in grocery stores.

Yeahhh, that sounds about right...a good 2 hours of hunting inside the stores...that doesn't include the drive time in between routes as I scoop for women at bus stops or on the street.

I was bussing U-turns in the middle of the street just to holla at chicks at bus stops!!

I would do 1 hour in one store, then 1 hour in another store, either on the same day or the next day. I would mix up the grocery store brands.

1 hour? Whewwww. I can't say I would stay in one Walmart (WM) that long, except for maybe one particular WM which was the best one of them all.

In fact, after I do my initial sweep of the store, I would buy some popcorn and a cherry frostie, and sit at one of the Subway tables and watch the front door as customers come in...and it would never be long before a big titty woman (showing cleavage or braless) would come into the store and I would be on her!!!

However, any of the other Walmarts, I would sweep the store one good time before I chilled in the parking lot for a few minutes before I took off to another one.

The total time of being out in the field, though, could take between 4-5 hours.

I didn't do Walmart because I didn't figure the demographic I was chasing would be most in Walmart. I could have been wrong on that.

Curious, what is/was your demographics? Mines was ANY woman of legal age, regardless of race or age, that has big titties...with very few exceptions (from a physical perspective).

However, I would prefer Black women, for the most part.

In Detroit (where I currently am), the Walmarts here are CRAZZZZYYYYY. Black urban women, with the titties to go along with them.

Not just at Walmarts, either...but EVERYWHERE.

And that was what was lacking in Phoenix, for the most part.

I was mixing up my approaches between a Kroger branded store, an Albertsons branded store, Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Central Market. In Arizona, the rough equivalent of Central Market is AJ's Fine Foods.

Brooo whats crazy is, none of those stores were EVER on my radar...and whats funny is, Walmart was never on your radar lol.

But hell, if I knew those stores were popping, I would have been there too!!!

 

[SW15]

Curious, what is/was your demographics? Mines was ANY woman of legal age, regardless of race or age, that has big titties...with very few exceptions (from a physical perspective).

However, I would prefer Black women, for the most part.

In Detroit (where I currently am), the Walmarts here are CRAZZZZYYYYY. Black urban women, with the titties to go along with them.

Not just at Walmarts, either...but EVERYWHERE.

And that was what was lacking in Phoenix, for the most part.

I am a White male. Since I am Italian-American, I look darker. Over the years, I have been primarily seeking White females that weren't overweight in the 20s-30s age range. Breast size has never been important to me. I also like Hispanic women too but have rarely targeted them. I never targeted Hispanic women in grocery store game, otherwise I would have been at some Hispanic grocery stores.

If I had been more interested in using grocery stores for Hispanic women, there are some Hispanic supermarkets in Dallas, and I would have mixed in Walmart and Aldi as well.

I am not attracted to Black women. I'm not into the Afro-Caribbean Hispanic women either. I like the brown or light skinned Hispanic women.

You're correct that Walmart has the greatest diversity of women.

Phoenix has never been a place with a large Black population.

I was mixing up my approaches between a Kroger branded store, an Albertsons branded store, Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Central Market. In Arizona, the rough equivalent of Central Market is AJ's Fine Foods.

Brooo whats crazy is, none of those stores were EVER on my radar...and whats funny is, Walmart was never on your radar lol.

But hell, if I knew those stores were popping, I would have been there too!!!

If you consider that I've done my pickups at Kroger (Arizona equivalent -- Fry's Food and Drug), Tom Thumb (Arizona equivalent -- Safeway), Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Central Market (Arizona equivalent - AJ's), those are definitely White girl stores. Kroger and Tom Thumb would have more racial diversity.

Whole Foods has the reputation of having pretty and fit women. Of the 5 I mentioned, I went there the least. I got in enough Whole Foods approaches but nothing ever stuck there.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I am a White male. Since I am Italian-American, I look darker. Over the years, I have been primarily seeking White females that weren't overweight in the 20s-30s age range.

Gotchaaaa.

Breast size has never been important to me.

So, what is the best physical trait of a woman, in your opinion?

I also like Hispanic women too but have rarely targeted them.

Same here. Although I have seen some absolutely gorgeous Mexican women in Phoenix, but although most of the younger Mexican women have been born in the USA, I am not really a fan of Mexican culture, including the cuisine.

I never targeted Hispanic women in grocery store game, otherwise I would have been at some Hispanic grocery stores.

Same here...very, very, VERY rare that I target Hispanic women.

If I had been more interested in using grocery stores for Hispanic women, there are some Hispanic supermarkets in Dallas, and I would have mixed in Walmart and Aldi as well.

Gotchaaa.

I am not attracted to Black women.

More for me, then lol.

I'm not into the Afro-Caribbean Hispanic women either. I like the brown or light skinned Hispanic women.

You're correct that Walmart has the greatest diversity of women.

Phoenix has never been a place with a large Black population.

Most of the Black population is on the southside of the city. The Walmart that I spoke highly of (the one where I can spend an hour there on a hunt), that particular Walmart is in an area with a large black population, and that is where I have my most success in more ways than one.

It is the Walmart on 35th ave & Southern, in Laveen. If you take Southern east from 35th ave, everything will turn...blacker lol.

But in general, there aren't a large percentage of Black folks in Phoenix.

If you consider that I've done my pickups at Kroger (Arizona equivalent -- Fry's Food and Drug), Tom Thumb (Arizona equivalent -- Safeway), Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Central Market (Arizona equivalent - AJ's), those are definitely White girl stores. Kroger and Tom Thumb would have more racial diversity.

Yooo, that's crazy!!! I am actually impressed...you definitely know where to go for your targeted demographics, mayne.

Mad props. Besides maybe Fry's, none of those stores scream out "Black Women" to me.

Hahahaa.

Whole Foods has the reputation of having pretty and fit women. Of the 5 I mentioned, I went there the least. I got in enough Whole Foods approaches but nothing ever stuck there.

Gotchaaa.

 

[SW15]

So, what is the best physical trait of a woman, in your opinion?

I like women best when they have a flat stomach with limited body fat. I like well defined legs too. Big breasts can be good. When I have had sex with big breasted women, it has been more women with big breasts due to breast implants rather than big naturals.

Most of the Black population is on the southside of the city. The Walmart that I spoke highly of (the one where I can spend an hour there on a hunt), that particular Walmart is in an area with a large black population, and that is where I have my most success in more ways than one.

It is the Walmart on 35th ave & Southern, in Laveen. If you take Southern east from 35th ave, everything will turn...blacker lol.

But in general, there aren't a large percentage of Black folks in Phoenix.

Yes, that's true about Phoenix. South Phoenix is also rather Hispanic too.

Both Dallas and Phoenix are rather segregated cities. Dallas' Black population in mostly south of Interstate 30. Dallas has a larger Black population than Phoenix.

Yooo, that's crazy!!! I am actually impressed...you definitely know where to go for your targeted demographics, mayne.

Mad props. Besides maybe Fry's, none of those stores scream out "Black Women" to me.

Hahahaa.

It's important to define a target market and know where to find that target market. I think the majority of men do not do this well enough. There have even been times in my life I've struggled to define a target market.

I didn't do much daygame when I lived in Phoenix. I didn't start doing supermarket approaches until I got to Dallas. When I lived in Phoenix, I dabbled in a little bit of daygaming on the hiking trails. I had heard about guys going to yoga classes and doing approaches there, but never did fitness class approaching until after I moved away. I was doing mainly nightlife venue approaches in Old Town Scottsdale and Tempe (Mill Avenue) during that phase of my life.

Had I done grocery store approaching in Phoenix, the Fry's locations I would have gone to for pickup wouldn't have been the Fry's locations with the most Blacks.

When one considers game in the United States by race/ethnicity, Black men have some of the best in-person approaching game of any race/ethnicity. Black men are good in-person approachers. Too many White men are too soft and too content to be dependent upon swipe app game or DMing on Instagram. Hispanic men have some strengths with in-person approaching. The best seducer I know is a 5'5" Hispanic male with a triple digit notch count and far into the triple digits. I'm thinking he's at 200+.

I am an ethnic White person. I am an Italian-American with ancestry from Southern Italy, so I have dark Meditteranean features. I can game Hispanic women and they can think I'm Hispanic. Culturally, I act more White, which is why I have spent more of my life focusing on White women. I have enjoyed sex with Hispanic women.

I am not really a fan of Mexican culture, including the cuisine.

I like Mexican food. It's plentiful in the Southwestern US. Mexican-Americans are the largest Hispanic subgroup in the USA so their culture and food will be easiest to find.

Women with Mexican ancestry aren't the best looking of all the Hispanic/Latina women out there.