This is absolutely false. Not only did I eat a girl out on the first date, I had also brought her back to a completely , and I mean totally empty apartment save for a well made, comfortable bed…AND because we had spent the 72 hours leading up tinder/text/phone I would say like 8 hours minimum before even seeing her face, that by the time she was leaving I actually asked her to be my girlfriend… I mean to tell you I did it all wrong would be a massive understatement, but I was 3 months out of a nasty start of a divorce with 3 kids and my self esteem was virtually zero… and to boot she was hot… anyway so it was definitely awkward as I walked her out to her car saying in the back of my head I know I’ll never see this girl again… well you know what, the next day she texted me and wanted to come by my office and fck in the back of her Range Rover in our parking lot. True story
if you’re doing it for yourself it’ll be obvious and then it’s alpha … if you’re doing it for her, it’ll also be obvious