TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I want your points of view on her behavior from yesterday night. I was with her for a good 3 months. Dating 2/3 times a week. She wanted a relationship at some point but I lead her on. In the end I catched feelings also but never did something afc or stupid.
This is the woman that kicked me out of her house after big argument over my car on her parking lot for the brothers that remember. She was in love, all over me, idealising me, then after some bad behavior I confronted her and sh*t went bad. We had a lot of talks but in the end she kicked me out of her house when she was mad. I am on strict no contact for 2 months now.
I saw her 3 weeks after the break up in the same bar, she walked pass me, I talked to her but she ignored me.
Now 7 weeks later she is with her 2 best friends (that obv know me). Look at his behavior:
She notices me and I see her get uncomfortable. I just have fun, dont acknowledge her. She keeps glancing at me a couple of times. Then she starts to dance with guys, and glancing at me in the hope that I see her. Obv she is trying to make me jealous. When I pass her, she looks me in the eyes. Last time she wouldnt even look at me, now she does. At a certain point I pass her and her friends and she looks at me, her friend puts her hands on my girl her eyes so she cant see me. Obv she is having a hard time to face me. My girl pushes her hands away and looks me in my eyes mad.
Ok I ignore, don't do nothing. She then passes me again twice, looking at me shortly, I look back nothing happens. I talked to her best friend twice, just asking if she is okay and she kindly asks me too. I am being nice.
Then the big thing lol. I am in the corner of the bar, I see her coming, she passes me, strokes with her as$, shoulder and back on my stomach and d1ck for a couple of seconds, like rubbing herself to my body, then she looks around and looks past me, not in my eyes. I look back but dont say anything. Then I just bail after 5 seconds. That was the big provocation to get a reaction. I didn't say sh*t.
After that we lock eye contact for two times, where I smile to her. She looks back confused, not doing anything also. I see her smoke outside, (she never smoked wtf), obv stressed out. She stares at me again, I smile briefly and leave. She keeps looking.
Then I go to another bar, I see her and her friends pass me when I stand in the line with my friends and guess what they join the line and come inside aswell. Inside she passes me twice, completly ignoring me this time, I dont give a reaction again, nothing, not a word.
That's it. Ofcourse this is confusing.
I feel like im above her SMV, I am really taking care of me, gym, food and she notices Im doing good. I just know it.
Obv I see all this above as mind games. Would she do it if she didnt care? No. She wouldn't even notice me man. But why?
I just want to f8ck her another time but is she just out for a reaction so she can ignore me again or are these clear signs that she is giving me a brief opening to search for contact ?
This is the woman that kicked me out of her house after big argument over my car on her parking lot for the brothers that remember. She was in love, all over me, idealising me, then after some bad behavior I confronted her and sh*t went bad. We had a lot of talks but in the end she kicked me out of her house when she was mad. I am on strict no contact for 2 months now.
I saw her 3 weeks after the break up in the same bar, she walked pass me, I talked to her but she ignored me.
Now 7 weeks later she is with her 2 best friends (that obv know me). Look at his behavior:
She notices me and I see her get uncomfortable. I just have fun, dont acknowledge her. She keeps glancing at me a couple of times. Then she starts to dance with guys, and glancing at me in the hope that I see her. Obv she is trying to make me jealous. When I pass her, she looks me in the eyes. Last time she wouldnt even look at me, now she does. At a certain point I pass her and her friends and she looks at me, her friend puts her hands on my girl her eyes so she cant see me. Obv she is having a hard time to face me. My girl pushes her hands away and looks me in my eyes mad.
Ok I ignore, don't do nothing. She then passes me again twice, looking at me shortly, I look back nothing happens. I talked to her best friend twice, just asking if she is okay and she kindly asks me too. I am being nice.
Then the big thing lol. I am in the corner of the bar, I see her coming, she passes me, strokes with her as$, shoulder and back on my stomach and d1ck for a couple of seconds, like rubbing herself to my body, then she looks around and looks past me, not in my eyes. I look back but dont say anything. Then I just bail after 5 seconds. That was the big provocation to get a reaction. I didn't say sh*t.
After that we lock eye contact for two times, where I smile to her. She looks back confused, not doing anything also. I see her smoke outside, (she never smoked wtf), obv stressed out. She stares at me again, I smile briefly and leave. She keeps looking.
Then I go to another bar, I see her and her friends pass me when I stand in the line with my friends and guess what they join the line and come inside aswell. Inside she passes me twice, completly ignoring me this time, I dont give a reaction again, nothing, not a word.
That's it. Ofcourse this is confusing.
I feel like im above her SMV, I am really taking care of me, gym, food and she notices Im doing good. I just know it.
Obv I see all this above as mind games. Would she do it if she didnt care? No. She wouldn't even notice me man. But why?
I just want to f8ck her another time but is she just out for a reaction so she can ignore me again or are these clear signs that she is giving me a brief opening to search for contact ?
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