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Before I reveal something,I wish to comment regarding online dating....
Online access to everything is at your fingertips....hell if a single man wanted a nude woman he had to actually go outside his house . Also Dating skills like actually learning the art of conversation in person and 'live' has left the building....most online people want to text small talk all day and never actually meetup ......
That said I have been single for 4 yrs by choice and now I wish to find that one person who hopefully can share the longterm with....I went on 4 different dating sites....as I find meeting someone outside of work difficult...
The common denominator is the the mentality out there....which is trade up for a better model....whether it's men or women, it's a disposable world out there.
If you meet someone and hit it off, do you have to cut the date down to an hour to leave them wanting more? Lol
Do you expect the guy to pay the bill on a first date steak dinner? If a woman doesn't put out on the first date, she's not interested?
There is something clearly messed up with that thinking....after all Steve Harvey is telling women don't give up the cookie for 90 days....anyone can tell when someone is truly interested no matter what the end of night brings....
The reveal....? I am an attractive younger looking 40+ Woman who gets lots of attention from men outside of dating sites but hardly any bold enough to approach lol.....I work ,own my house, funny, smart, make my own wine & beer, and frankly I am a great catch!
I have been guilty of settling in the past, and ultimately relationships take 2 people.... I wish to meet someone one day who has his crap together too, which hopefully won't be long....there is something to be said about swimming in shark invested waters... Lol