Things Don’t Work The Same For Me As Is “Normal”

[SargeMaximus]

So I’ve said before that I feel like Bizarro, everything working different for me than for other people. Tried and true pua theory that just doesn’t work for me so I have to make my own way etc.

One such thing is the idea that the more women you attract, the more women you will attract as a consequence. Success breeds success sort of thing. That hasn’t been my experience.
Typically (like right now) if I get a girl interested in me and I’m sleeping with her, suddenly I start going on a dry spell with other women. It’s like magic. Anyone know why this might be? Thanks

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You can only get laid if you withhold your seed. Don't you read the no-fap threads? lolz

 

[SargeMaximus]

You can only get laid if you withhold your seed. Don't you read the no-fap threads? lolz

Damn, you caught me

 

[NickSavage]

You are probably throwing off signs to women that you aren't available, or that you are hiding another relationship. There's a fine line between spinning plates and hiding something. Women can sense it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I don’t think it’s the principles taught here that is your problem. It’s your improper, miscalibrated execution of said principles. The principles are here because they work. I used to think there was a cosmic law of the universe that most women hate me. When I finally decided to apply myself to proven principles and then made them my own according to my personality, everything turned around for me.

 

[Barrister]

Typically, in the examples of your conversations you have shown us over the past couple of years, you often deliver what you consider "PUA" lines in about the clunkiest, most awkward way possible. You have been given a variety of tools to use but insist on using them all as if they were a hammer.

Directness can be effective - but not always. Subtlety, tact, and insinuation are all skills that greatly enhance your ability with seduction. I think that is where you struggle.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So I’ve said before that I feel like Bizarro, everything working different for me than for other people. Tried and true pua theory that just doesn’t work for me so I have to make my own way etc.

One such thing is the idea that the more women you attract, the more women you will attract as a consequence. Success breeds success sort of thing. That hasn’t been my experience.
Typically (like right now) if I get a girl interested in me and I’m sleeping with her, suddenly I start going on a dry spell with other women. It’s like magic. Anyone know why this might be? Thanks

Perhaps you start gravitating towards that women more and start giving less attention to the others?

 

[Mike32ct]

I used to think there was a cosmic law of the universe that most women hate me.

I know exactly how that feels. I still do at times.

Perhaps you start gravitating towards that women more and start giving less attention to the others?

Agreed. Some game theorists focus too much on being "aloof" or "IDGAF." But too much aloofness (because he already has a girl he likes) doesn't attract other girls.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You are probably throwing off signs to women that you aren't available, or that you are hiding another relationship. There's a fine line between spinning plates and hiding something. Women can sense it.

Lol I don’t hide anything.

Typically, in the examples of your conversations you have shown us over the past couple of years, you often deliver what you consider "PUA" lines in about the clunkiest, most awkward way possible. You have been given a variety of tools to use but insist on using them all as if they were a hammer.

Directness can be effective - but not always. Subtlety, tact, and insinuation are all skills that greatly enhance your ability with seduction. I think that is where you struggle.

I’ll ignore this since you obviously ignored my reasons why I stopped listening to you guys.

I don’t think it’s the principles taught here that is your problem. It’s your improper, miscalibrated execution of said principles. The principles are here because they work. I used to think there was a cosmic law of the universe that most women hate me. When I finally decided to apply myself to proven principles and then made them my own according to my personality, everything turned around for me.

No. Because when I first got into pua I believed it would work and was excited for a new chapter in my life.

Perhaps you start gravitating towards that women more and start giving less attention to the others?

No I’m talking about new girls I haven’t even met yet. When I meet them they seem cold and uninterested and I feel comfortable and at ease. It’s only when I’m without a girl and I’m thirsty that I get results (again, contrary to the common “wisdom” on here)

Agreed. Some game theorists focus too much on being "aloof" or "IDGAF." But too much aloofness (because he already has a girl he likes) doesn't attract other girls.

Yes I think you are right. So how to get the sweet spot again?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lol I don’t hide anything.



I’ll ignore this since you obviously ignored my reasons why I stopped listening to you guys.

No. Because when I first got into pua I believed it would work and was excited for a new chapter in my life.



No I’m talking about new girls I haven’t even met yet. When I meet them they seem cold and uninterested and I feel comfortable and at ease. It’s only when I’m without a girl and I’m thirsty that I get results (again, contrary to the common “wisdom” on here)



Yes I think you are right. So how to get the sweet spot again?

Sounds like you are trying to apply cause and effect with random coincidence. The sample size for any cause and effect to be valid is way too small

 

[SargeMaximus]

Sounds like you are trying to apply cause and effect with random coincidence. The sample size for any cause and effect to be valid is way too small

Hundreds of women is too small a sample size?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hundreds of women is too small a sample size?

I highly doubt this is happening exactly the way you are saying it is. More likely you have decided this is the case and you mind interprets it to indulge your belief.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I highly doubt this is happening exactly the way you are saying it is. More likely you have decided this is the case and you mind interprets it to indulge your belief.

Except that I didn’t have this belief till after I had experienced the same things over and over. You seem to assume I went into pua believing it wouldn’t work. I did not. I believed it would work 100%. Experience proved otherwise

 

[MatureDJ]

So I’ve said before that I feel like Bizarro, everything working different for me than for other people. Tried and true pua theory that just doesn’t work for me so I have to make my own way etc.

One such thing is the idea that the more women you attract, the more women you will attract as a consequence. Success breeds success sort of thing. That hasn’t been my experience.
Typically (like right now) if I get a girl interested in me and I’m sleeping with her, suddenly I start going on a dry spell with other women. It’s like magic. Anyone know why this might be? Thanks

Are you ugly? Short? Autistic?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Are you ugly? Short? Autistic?

I’ve been told I look like a model, I am 6 foot 1, and have been formally tested for autism and missed the spectrum by 2 points

 

[Atom Smasher]

Something’s wrong with your style my man. You’re doing something to turn them off.
You remind me of an aspiring pilot I knew who was slow in getting the knack to be a good pilot and he concluded that the things being taught were worthless. No, the things being taught were life-saving, as he just wasn’t grasping them quickly. Therefore the principles being taught “MUST” be wrong.
If, as you say, you’ve stopped listening to us, why are you still engaging in dialogue with us?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Something’s wrong with your style my man. You’re doing something to turn them off.
You remind me of an aspiring pilot I knew who was slow in getting the knack to be a good pilot and he concluded that the things being taught were worthless. No, the things being taught were life-saving, as he just wasn’t grasping them quickly. Therefore the principles being taught “MUST” be wrong.
If, as you say, you’ve stopped listening to us, why are you still engaging in dialogue with us?

I try to give back with my experience and hopefully help others in the same boat as me

 

[Epicwinguy]

You can only get laid if you withhold your seed. Don't you read the no-fap threads? lolz

Bro science bull****.