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Pierce Manhammer

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A lot of the time their actions don't match their words, plenty of girls say they don't want ONS but we all know how that turns out.
hah, back when I was going kind of nuts I’d focus on chicks that said that outright, it was always a guaranteed high success rate.
 

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Absolutely not. That only benefits the female mating strategy.

Men, the bottom line is any girl that still has a soul and is truly interested in you will try to lock you down. All you can do is stall, delay, and negotiate. Accept that they will fall off as plates when you don’t give them that exclusivity.
Sir it's 2022, not 2012 anymore guess what there are women that only want to hook up *GULP*
the reason you're having these issues is cause you putting relationship vibes
are you gonna miss out on a lot of girls? yes but there are a lot of women out there just looking for casual fun
 

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Women in non-exclusive relationships have a shelf life of about 3-4 months. Just how it is. There really isn't much advice to give on it. If you are unwilling to give them exclusivity after that amount of time they assume you aren't serious about them and move on to someone else.

And there isn't anything wrong with that. They simply have different goals in terms of relationships and have given you all the time they are willing to give you to see if you want the same thing.

It's why you always keep women in the pipeline, you never know when a plate will break and you will need to replace her
 

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Don’t lead them on, you do you and let them roll off then find new plates.

Wasting girls time and lying to them is morally wrong. Some men have the time and energy to lie, some men don’t. I personally find that behaviour beyond beta, lying to women to bang them or keep them around while wasting their time because you lack the means to find another women. Sickening.

They will all want to lock you down if you’re a man worth a damn. Just don’t get any pregnant. Lots of men in this forum impregnated hoes, have complicated lives and dish out subpar advice to us smart men.
 
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Don’t lead them on, you do you and let them roll off then find new plates.

Wasting girls time and lying to them is morally wrong. Some men have the time and energy to lie, some men don’t. I personally find that behaviour beyond beta, lying to women to bang them or keep them around while wasting their time because you lack the means to find another women. Sickening.
We preach here that relationships don't last, but rarely apply it to plates. Just enjoy the time and move on.
 

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So you had sex with them ? How long have you been dating them. I would say stop being romantic ( do not even touch them ) immediately and be honest with your intentions. These girls are not going to be sex buddies and you are targeting wrong girls. Probably using some manipulation tactics knowing or unknowing to sleep with them.

If you are using some apps to get these girls then as someone said let her know you are into relationships. You can directly or indirectly say you have slept with x amount of girls but have not found the one or something like that. Do not have to be complete jerk but you must show your sexual, playboy intent. You can still get laid but own yourself that you are a cool guy who is not needy and has abundance. No bf vibes or manipulation is needed. I think for casual sex night game is probably best, so find venues in your area and see how it goes. I may be wrong but girls who like to party a lot, drink, smoke have tattoos, piercing are probably ideal target for you ( I know many such girl are trash lol )
 
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