Be faithful or entertain other women in a relationship? Modern Man Need Advice

[EyeBRollin]

So?
I thought you said they can't upgrade.

Perhaps you aren’t understanding. 31 year old woman with no kids is a lot different than being 42 with 4 kids.

I dunno if Gisele is gonna find someone with even higher status than Tom

She won’t.

or that she even cares if he is or not. Think her priority is in finding someone who she can rely on being there for her and the kids. Which Tom wasn't too interested in.

Like I said, she can find a rich simp.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Lol dude if you catch her your walking is already 10 months behind.
Your walking away from her DOES NOTHING.
At the point she has another dik in her its too late.
Her anxiety about other women done sailed to the new world lol

If my wife wants another dvck she can go have all of him. I’ll be out. Deuces.

 

[Velasco]

Perhaps you aren’t understanding. 31 year old woman with no kids is a lot different than being 42 with 4 kids.

Yet she did it?

She won’t.

Kim did.

Like I said, she can find a rich simp.

Simp = someone who makes a good married partner? Are you a simp then?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yet she did it?

This is going over your head.

Kim did.

Kim will not find a higher status husband than Kanye.

Simp = someone who makes a good married partner? Are you a simp then?

No. A simp is a man desperate enough to raise a 42 year old woman’s children from another man.

 

[logicallefty]

Only cheated on a woman once. Had a one night stand. Felt so guilty that I broke up with the GF because I couldn’t look her in the eye anymore. Felt like such a POS. Never again.

 

[Velasco]

Kim will not find a higher status husband than Kanye

She was dating and then broke up with, a dude that is higher status than Kanye rn (who noone wants to be associated with. Not even sketchers).

No. A simp is a man desperate enough to raise a 42 year old woman’s children from another man

Alright is Ben Affleck a simp for marrying J-LO? Don't know if I'm remember correctly, but you said was "toast" after she broke up with A-ROD? (And Is Affleck higher status than A-ROD? Lol)

 

[EyeBRollin]

She was dating and then broke up with, a dude that is higher status than Kanye rn (who noone wants to be associated with. Not even sketchers).

Humphries has never and will never be higher status than Kanye.

Alright is Ben Affleck a simp for marrying J-LO?

Yes.

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is an interesting topic. No one seems to be taking the (I think) obvious conclusion which is that Tom and Kanye broke frame and are now betas in their woman’s eyes hence why they break up. Just sayin

 

[Velasco]

Humphries has never and will never be higher status than Kanye

Was talking about Pete Davidson, brother.

Yes

Damn.

 

[Velasco]

(I think) obvious conclusion which is that Tom and Kanye broke frame

Well with Tom it was more that he refused to break his frame. She wanted him to retire and be more around the house. But you see that's not what he wanted. He choose football over family. Idk about Kanye and Kim's divorce

 

[SargeMaximus]

Well with Tom it was more that he refused to break his frame. She wanted him to retire and be more around the house. But you see that's not what he wanted. He choose football over family. Idk about Kanye and Kim's divorce

I see. So inTom’s case he lost the girl by maintaining frame, whic has happened to me before as well. How is that a win? I’ve always struggled with that. Imo an alpha is a guy that gets the girls he wants. I certainly wanted the girls I lost when I kept my frame

 

[EyeBRollin]

He choose football over family.

That is a false choice. Only a controlling bvtch tries force her man to give up his passion.

I see. So inTom’s case he lost the girl by maintaining frame, whic has happened to me before as well. How is that a win? I’ve always struggled with that. Imo an alpha is a guy that gets the girls he wants. I certainly wanted the girls I lost when I kept my frame

Tom won because Gisele ultimately destroyed the family. The children will realize this when they reach adulthood. Also, Gisele will ride the CC then have to settle for an inferior simp. Tom will bang some younger chicks, retire and remarry on his own terms, start his lucrative broadcasting career, and may even get an acting gig if he wants it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That is a false choice. Only a controlling bvtch tries force her man to give up his passion.



Tom won because Gisele ultimately destroyed the family. The children will realize this when they reach adulthood. Also, Gisele will ride the CC then have to settle for an inferior simp. Tom will bang some younger chicks, retire and remarry on his own terms, start his lucrative broadcasting career, and may even get an acting gig if he wants it.

we will see

 

[devilkingx2]

My experiences with women so far have taught me that you should continue approaching and meeting new girls even while you have a girlfriend because you never know when your relationship will end or take a turn for the worse so you must always be prepared.

 

[Dr.Suave]

If Gisselle Bunchden cheated on Brady its because he wasn´t at the top of her high score list, if he ever was in the 1st place.

 

[RangerMIke]

Well... this is why I don't do 'relationships'. I do know that most men want this. I don't have any real advice for men that are looking for long term committed relationships because I honestly don't know how to do this.

But when I look around at couples that seem to make this work the common factor is the woman in that relationship is WAY below the SMV of the man. So I guess if this is REALLY what a man WANTS, he needs to lower his standards and keep busting his @ss. But even if the dude is a 9 and the chick is a 7, there will be a line of dudes waiting to tap that. All she has to do is go on Bumble, and she'll have a 1,000 dudes hitting on her.

Lower your standards, then HOPE that she has the personality disposition to remain loyal until she hits the wall, because you can not control her. At that point it is all luck.

I know this is depressing, it is also not fair, it is not what men want to hear, but it is reality.

 

[RangerMIke]

If Gisselle Bunchden cheated on Brady its because he wasn´t at the top of her high score list, if he ever was in the 1st place.

I can't help but wonder that this was the reason Brady came back to football at 45. She loved the fact that he was an NFL QB, and when he wasn't that anymore, while she still had a sh1t load of options, she lost interest in him. Brady's problem is that he chained himself to a super model... if he wanted marriage to work, he should have picked a chick that was WAYYYYY below his SMV... then he would have had a chance.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Well... this is why I don't do 'relationships'. I do know that most men want this. I don't have any real advice for men that are looking for long term committed relationships because I honestly don't know how to do this.

But when I look around at couples that seem to make this work the common factor is the woman in that relationship is WAY below the SMV of the man. So I guess if this is REALLY what a man WANTS, he needs to lower his standards and keep busting his @ss. But even if the dude is a 9 and the chick is a 7, there will be a line of dudes waiting to tap that. All she has to do is go on Bumble, and she'll have a 1,000 dudes hitting on her.

Lower your standards, then HOPE that she has the personality disposition to remain loyal until she hits the wall, because you can not control her. At that point it is all luck.

I know this is depressing, it is also not fair, it is not what men want to hear, but it is reality.

True 9s & 10s are bought with money. The hottest girls you see in relationships are just 7s and 8s with makeup.

 

[The Duke]

I see. So inTom’s case he lost the girl by maintaining frame, whic has happened to me before as well. How is that a win? I’ve always struggled with that. Imo an alpha is a guy that gets the girls he wants. I certainly wanted the girls I lost when I kept my frame

Thats a win because Tom still gets to play football, still keeps his kids, and he can always find another woman. I'd of done the same thing.

 

[The Duke]

Hey guys,

I'm just reflecting on my current/past situations with women, I find that most women want me when I have another girl in the picture. Furthermore, when I deal with them and become more intimate they urge should I drop all other women I'm currently interacting with to be with them exclusively!

The problem is the women will eventually entertain other men on the side while I'm 100% faithful. In one scenario, when our relationship went downhill she started interacting with other men in her classes and eventually F*** the guy when we broke up.

So..my question?

Would you recommend entertaining other while women in a relationship or just be loyal and interact with her better (by addressing her wrong doings) when she's unfaithful?

I know for fact, I won't ask a women for her phone again!

I know I'm young but I just want a wife so I can build a family, I don't give two ****s about dating/hook up culture.

Yes women find men that have women attractive. It shows you have value.

Women will always have another guy to run to after their committed relationship fails. You'll never control that. They all monkey branch swing to the next.

I wouldn't entertain other women in a committed relationship. Just too much drama. But if thats your thing, then state it from the start, it will still conflict with her inner psyche no matter what she initially agrees too. Just read the stories about guys with plates, eventually these girls want commitment. Its how they are wired.

When your girl is unfaithful in your relationship, you kick her to the curb. When women cheat, its never just physical. Its always mental. Thats why you don't take them back. It devalues you as a male. She will always know she can get away with the ultimate crime and you will take her back. A woman needs to live in some fear over your power in order to behave.