Be faithful or entertain other women in a relationship? Modern Man Need Advice

[TheManMasenko]

Hey guys,

I'm just reflecting on my current/past situations with women, I find that most women want me when I have another girl in the picture. Furthermore, when I deal with them and become more intimate they urge should I drop all other women I'm currently interacting with to be with them exclusively!

The problem is the women will eventually entertain other men on the side while I'm 100% faithful. In one scenario, when our relationship went downhill she started interacting with other men in her classes and eventually F*** the guy when we broke up.

So..my question?

Would you recommend entertaining other while women in a relationship or just be loyal and interact with her better (by addressing her wrong doings) when she's unfaithful?

I know for fact, I won't ask a women for her phone again!

I know I'm young but I just want a wife so I can build a family, I don't give two ****s about dating/hook up culture.

 

[EyeBRollin]

First, it is not a given that women will be unfaithful in a relationship. Women prefer quality of one man. If you have strong frame and she has high interest level, she ain’t looking elsewhere.

Second, if you agree to be exclusive, you should be exclusive.

 

[TheManMasenko]

If she fcks or entertains someone else you wont catch her. If you do? What will you do? If you are not the eye of other women then her eyes will wander elsewhere.

Female nature, I guess? I assumed in a relationship you will eventually get to the stage where it’s just me and this person forever. What do you think?

I’m seeing adults become step parents and divorces occur left/right. It’s disgusting imo, I wouldn’t want this for myself or anyone.

By any means necessary, I just want a family. Do you recommend I just become the best man I can be?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

First, it is not a given that women will be unfaithful in a relationship. Women prefer quality of one man. If you have strong frame and she has high interest level, she ain’t looking elsewhere.

Second, if you agree to be exclusive, you should be exclusive.

I wish this was restated a lot. Drake isn’t dying to make your random 7/10 gf from Denton, Tx cheat on you.

 

[Dr.Suave]

We all had that mentality when we were young, but reality hit us in the face. You got a lot to learn my friend.

Yes, he´s young but Im slightly older than you. After a while you might circle back to that mentality. At least I did

BUT you have to pull a girl that´s wife material. Less than 1% of women are worthy.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Im with @EyeBRollin on this one. IF you are at the top of her high score list, she wont cheat because the risk of losing you is not worth it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

What are you going to do when her natural inclination to boredom sets in? Dance like a monkey to entertain her?

If my wife wants to walk, she is free to do so. No one is forcing or begging her to stay. If I catch her cheating, I am the one that will walk. There’s no need to fear these outcomes if you are aware and decisive.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Im with @EyeBRollin on this one. IF you are at the top of her high score list, she wont cheat because the risk of losing you is not worth it.

Tom Brady's wife just risked it recently. Women will cheat on any guy they want.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Tom Brady's wife just risked it recently. Women will cheat on any guy they want.

She’s stupid. Play a stupid game win a stupid prize. She will never find another man of his caliber.

 

[HaleyBaron]

She will find a Batman. Lois Lane had dates with Bruce Wayne despite being in a relationship with Clark Kent/ Superman. As long as the legs are open, she will continue to find replacements.

 

[EyeBRollin]

She will find a Batman. Lois Lane had dates with Bruce Wayne despite being in a relationship with Clark Kent/ Superman. As long as the legs are open, she will continue to find replacements.

Thats a movie. Real life doesn’t work that way. Beyoncé was smart. Hillary Clinton was smart. Kim Kardashian, McKenzie Besos, Melinda Gates, soon to be Giselle Bundchen… good luck on the streets!

 

[HaleyBaron]

You're trolling. All those women you just listed do and will find other men. They always do.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You're trolling. All those women you just listed do and will find other men. They always do.

They find lower status men than their ex-husband. Downgrade. Not upgrade. Gisele will certainly get a rich simp or a young guy, but she will not get another Tom Brady.

 

[Scars]

Part of being a high value man is being truthful and holding true to your word. If you agree to be exclusive, then be exclusive. If you still want to chase other tail on the side, tell her you're going to keep your options open but would still like to enjoy her company from time to time. She will either submit to your frame or she will leave.. off to the next one. Most of my plates know I fvck/date other girls, these women aren't impossible to find. You just have to be truthful and vocal about what you want.

 

[Velasco]

They find lower status men than their ex-husband. Downgrade. Not upgrade. Gisele will certainly get a rich simp or a young guy, but she will not get another Tom Brady.

Kanye West was an upgrade over Kris Humphries. The guy Britney Spears married was an upgrade over K-Fed lol

 

[EyeBRollin]

Kanye West was an upgrade over Kris Humphries.

That was a decade and four less children earlier….

 

[Gamisch]

Hey guys,

I'm just reflecting on my current/past situations with women, I find that most women want me when I have another girl in the picture. Furthermore, when I deal with them and become more intimate they urge should I drop all other women I'm currently interacting with to be with them exclusively!

The problem is the women will eventually entertain other men on the side while I'm 100% faithful. In one scenario, when our relationship went downhill she started interacting with other men in her classes and eventually F*** the guy when we broke up.

So..my question?

Would you recommend entertaining other while women in a relationship or just be loyal and interact with her better (by addressing her wrong doings) when she's unfaithful?

I know for fact, I won't ask a women for her phone again!

I know I'm young but I just want a wife so I can build a family, I don't give two ****s about dating/hook up culture.

Men who struggle to get women whole they actually want marriage are the most vulnerable imo.

It blinds a man for a woman's true character. The blow will be that much harder when things go south and the man was oblivious to the signs.

Do you live in the USA?

 

[Velasco]

That was a decade and four less children earlier….

So?
I thought you said they can't upgrade.

I dunno if Gisele is gonna find someone with even higher status than Tom or that she even cares if he is or not. Think her priority is in finding someone who she can rely on being there for her and the kids. Which Tom wasn't too interested in.

 

[SW15]

I’m seeing adults become step parents and divorces occur left/right. It’s disgusting imo, I wouldn’t want this for myself or anyone.

By any means necessary, I just want a family. Do you recommend I just become the best man I can be?

Divorces, step-parenting arrangements, and blending families create a lot of messy issues. I can go on and on about the horse shiit of this. My mom re-married after I was an adult and the family blending issues have been rather unpleasant. Keep in mind in my situation, there are family blending issues where the two adult re-marrying are 55+ with adult offspring. Adult offspring don't want to socialize with other adult offspring of the person their parent ends up re-marrying.

 

[Murk]

I used to cheat, but now I don't. Even my current GF who I will be leaving soon, I refuse to cheat on (been close many times). I need to be a man of integrity, it starts and ends with me. I'm happy with myself, I trust myself.