Anyone know any careers with a strong hookup culture?

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Hamurabimbi

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It has to be co-workers. The job itself has to have the hookup culture.
all of the above. as far as ‘hookup culture ‘ that’s harder to figure. If a coworker wants to get with you, she’ll let you know. I’ve been in a 7-person software start-up to a thousands of employees healthcare organizations. I’ve had hookups in both & in between. Women are horny & I’m not sure the job makes all that much difference.
 

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It is. In general, waiters hook up with each other. Bartenders hook up with other bartenders, retail store workers hook up with other retail store workers, DJs/Bouncers/Promoters hook up with female bartenders. At strip clubs, bouncers bang strippers.
Okay, so I picked the wrong restaurant to work for because mine had no hookup culture. So how do I find the right restaurant, does anyone know?

all of the above. as far as ‘hookup culture ‘ that’s harder to figure. If a coworker wants to get with you, she’ll let you know. I’ve been in a 7-person software start-up to a thousands of employees healthcare organizations. I’ve had hookups in both & in between. Women are horny & I’m not sure the job makes all that much difference.
I think you may not be understanding what I'm looking for. I'm not looking for a place where it's possible to hookup with your co-workers, I'm looking for a place where it's encouraged. Where people are doing it left and right all around you and you're some kind of weirdo if you don't.
 

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Most McJobs are good enough for having sex with co-workers.
lmao @SW15, you surprise me with your random knowledge everyday
Having sex with co-workers is one of the main selling points of working a McJob. Low wage service sector jobs are ideal for sex between co-workers. Most low wage, service sector workers have short tenures at jobs, so it doesn't matter when an interaction goes bad. One person will leave the job soon enough anyway. McJobs are not that difficult to replace, unlike white collar, office work which has long interview cycles. A lot of McJob workers are fairly temporary anyway.

Sometimes office worker guys will hit on female service sector workers. This can happen at high end places like Nordstrom or lower end places like Hooters. Tons of male customers hit on female bartenders at pretty much any conventional bar. There is competition for low wage, service sector females from outsider guys.

I forgot to mention that male personal trainers and female personal trainers commonly bang each other. Additionally, many personal trainers and paying customers have sex.
 
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Having sex with co-workers is one of the main selling points of working a McJob. Low wage service sector jobs are ideal for sex between co-workers. Most low wage, service sector workers have short tenures at jobs, so it doesn't matter when an interaction goes bad. One person will leave the job soon enough anyway. McJobs are not that difficult to replace, unlike white collar, office work which has long interview cycles. A lot of McJob workers are fairly temporary anyway.

Sometimes office worker guys will hit on female service sector workers. This can happen at high end places like Nordstrom or lower end places like Hooters. Tons of male customers hit on female bartenders at pretty much any conventional bar. There is competition for low wage, service sector females from outsider guys.

I forgot to mention that male personal trainers and female personal trainers commonly bang each other. Additionally, many personal trainers and paying customers have sex.
lol I know what they are. I’m just laughing that you knew that term lol.
 

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@forcerecon01 mentioned this, but are the hookups encouraged between co-workers, or with customers? I need it to be with co-workers.
I personally wouldn't mess around with coworkers unless the job you are in is something temporary or not that important, like a laid back side gig or something along those lines. The positive of working in an environment like this is simply due to the sheer amount of women you'd cross paths with, I honestly can't think of any other job you could easily get that could compete with this. Sure, you'd have your regular party girls but there are huge swaths of women that only got out here and there and you'd mostly likely never see them again.

If your goal was to find a quality woman and get into a relationship this is not at all the place for that lol. However, if you are looking for an easy hookup it's totally possible. I'd also factor in some of the negatives of working in an environment like this though.

1. You'll be around a lot of drunk people, obnoxious and wild behavior but also probability of getting into physical altercations.
2. You'll be awake at hours that are not at all healthy or natural
3. You'll find that people who frequent environments like this, both patrons and workers, are generally not the greatest people to be around. There is a very popular spot in my metro that was closed down for quite a while because the management was using it as a front to sell drugs. I'd definitely heavily factor this in.

With all of this said, why not just go out regularly and just try night game on your own.
 

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I'm not looking for a place where it's possible to hookup with your co-workers, I'm looking for a place where it's encouraged. Where people are doing it left and right all around you and you're some kind of weirdo if you don't.
Good luck with that search. 99.9% of business ownership wants employee’s to focus on doing their job…
 

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With all of this said, why not just go out regularly and just try night game on your own?
A good portion of college educated, white collar workers value their education and jobs play their cards this way.

In the 1990s and 2000s, this was even more common. Why do you think Mystery did so well in terms of marketing his expertise?
 

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Good luck with that search. 99.9% of business ownership wants employee’s to focus on doing their job…
Maybe it could be an unspoken encouragement. The bosses don't need to care about my hooking up, the employees do. Same as how teachers don't really care about students hooking up, but students do.

But I guess what you're saying here is "That's practically non-existent as well. As you already guessed, there are no jobs where the culture is comparable to horny high schoolers. If you were hoping we had some information about that that you didn't, you hoped wrong."

I personally wouldn't mess around with coworkers unless the job you are in is something temporary or not that important, like a laid back side gig or something along those lines. The positive of working in an environment like this is simply due to the sheer amount of women you'd cross paths with, I honestly can't think of any other job you could easily get that could compete with this. Sure, you'd have your regular party girls but there are huge swaths of women that only got out here and there and you'd mostly likely never see them again.

If your goal was to find a quality woman and get into a relationship this is not at all the place for that lol. However, if you are looking for an easy hookup it's totally possible. I'd also factor in some of the negatives of working in an environment like this though.

1. You'll be around a lot of drunk people, obnoxious and wild behavior but also probability of getting into physical altercations.
2. You'll be awake at hours that are not at all healthy or natural
3. You'll find that people who frequent environments like this, both patrons and workers, are generally not the greatest people to be around. There is a very popular spot in my metro that was closed down for quite a while because the management was using it as a front to sell drugs. I'd definitely heavily factor this in.

With all of this said, why not just go out regularly and just try night game on your own.
Not interested in conventional night or day game. Just "talking to somebody?" That doesn't really do it for me like living in and being part of a community of hooker-uppers. Where I am basically peer pressured into having sex.
 

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It sucks that your asking a pretty legit question but are receiving sh1t responses. Along with getting labeled a troll and desperate.

That's because they themselves haven't lived it, so they're unable to give you decent response.

I can only tell you what I'm doing. And that is going back to school (I'm 30 but can pass for 22-23) to get a culinary arts degree at a 2 yr college. Then entering the restaurant industry. Where hookup culture is notorious.
 

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It sucks that your asking a pretty legit question but are receiving sh1t responses. Along with getting labeled a troll and desperate.

That's because they themselves haven't lived it, so they're unable to give you decent response.

I can only tell you what I'm doing. And that is going back to school (I'm 30 but can pass for 22-23) to get a culinary arts degree at a 2 yr college. Then entering the restaurant industry. Where hookup culture is notorious.
You mean like cooks? The only thing I know about the restaurant industry is my job as a waiter. None of the staff, back or front of the house, seemed very hookuppy. No one was, like, flirting with the head chef or anything.
 

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You mean like cooks? The only thing I know about the restaurant industry is my job as a waiter. None of the staff, back or front of the house, seemed very hookuppy. No one was, like, flirting with the head chef or anything.
Yeah that's def gonna depend on the restaurant. Whose working there. They're age. Whether they sell alcohol or not.... Obviously not ALL restaurants are gonna have everyone hooking up everyone left and right. You could walk into a restaurant and just tell, "yeah nobody's hooking up with anybody here". Nor would they want to.
 

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Yeah that's def gonna depend on the restaurant. Whose working there. They're age. Whether they sell alcohol or not.... Obviously not ALL restaurants are gonna have everyone hooking up everyone left and right. You could walk into a restaurant and just tell, "yeah nobody's hooking up with anybody here". Nor would they want to.
Where are the right restaurants? How do you find them? I would go back to working for tips if I was at the right restaurant.
 

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Where are the right restaurants? How do you find them? I would go back to working for tips if I was at the right restaurant
Still gotta finish with schooling before I start looking at where I'd like to work. But besides the factors I listed above, def something close to my college campus/near the high school.
 

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By ‘hookup culture’ do you mean women who will bang random coworkers? If that’s the case. Porn-type work. Sex-work. Any job that entails lots of alcohol/drugs.
 
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