To guys who have had a one night stand ghost them afterwards

[Jesse Pinkman]

Do you ever worry about being MeToo'd?

I feel like it is a fear I have. Usually when I get a ONS I text her afterwards telling her I had a great time and we have a friendly conversation over text. That puts me at ease knowing that she had a great time and it will usually be good from there since she put it in writing. However, I have had a couple same day lays and one night stands that left and never texted back afterwards. I don't even care if that is the last time we see each other as much as I care about how they perceive it afterwards given the MeToo society we live in.

How do you guys mentally handle a one night stand ghosting you afterwards?

 

[Velasco]

I take it as she wasn't interested in anything beyond a ONS. On to the next one.

 

[lost_blackbird]

Old joke but somehow appropriate.

What's the best form of contraception?

False name and address.

 

[TheGambino]

Just ghost if she’s a 5.5 or below imo.

If she’s hot try to fwb

 

[Macadellic]

She has a boyfriend that she lives with

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Just take the W and move on lol.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You cant live in fear, op.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

You cant live in fear, op.

This hit differently but I needed it bro. Sometimes I worry about this stuff but realize it is out of my control. If a girl changes her mind the next day and decides to come after me, all I can do is hire a good lawyer that knows the system and prove my innocence. It does get me to how these sorts of things can consume the minds of men, like you are helpless and forever bond to whatever the other person has in store for you, awaiting their decision. In a way, it is the definition of hell.

 

[The Duke]

I never worry about it being something I did wrong. I always chalk it up to her being embarrassed/ashamed of her actions.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Just ghost if she’s a 5.5 or below imo.

If she’s hot try to fwb

Serious question: why would you even want to have sex with a 5.5 or below? Do you actually find it enjoyable? Unless you've never had sex before and are just trying figure out what all the fuss is about, I just don't see the point.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Serious question: why would you even want to have sex with a 5.5 or below? Do you actually find it enjoyable? Unless you've never had sex before and are just trying figure out what all the fuss is about, I just don't see the point.

Wait, I thought every guy on the internet only had sex with 10/10s

 

[Bokanovsky]

Wait, I thought every guy on the internet only had sex with 10/10s

Wait, I though there was wide range of women who fell between 5.5 and 10?

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Serious question: why would you even want to have sex with a 5.5 or below? Do you actually find it enjoyable? Unless you've never had sex before and are just trying figure out what all the fuss is about, I just don't see the point.

I will chime in as I have made that mistake before. Usually, it is due to:

1. Wanting to break out of a dry spell

2. Wanting a quick lay up

3. Being way too obsessed with lay count

However, as Chase from Girlschase even said before, it is often the uglier and less attractive girls that push the false accusations.

 

[SW15]

Serious question: why would you even want to have sex with a 5.5 or below? Do you actually find it enjoyable? Unless you've never had sex before and are just trying figure out what all the fuss is about, I just don't see the point.

I will chime in as I have made that mistake before. Usually, it is due to:

1. Wanting to break out of a dry spell

2. Wanting a quick lay up

3. Being way too obsessed with lay count

This is a good answer to the question.

Do you ever worry about being MeToo'd?

How do you guys mentally handle a one night stand ghosting you afterwards?

It is normal in this era to have concern about it. When you get ghosted after sex, feel good that you had sex. In most cases, stuff doesn't happen.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I will chime in as I have made that mistake before. Usually, it is due to:

1. Wanting to break out of a dry spell

2. Wanting a quick lay up

3. Being way too obsessed with lay count

However, as Chase from Girlschase even said before, it is often the uglier and less attractive girls that push the false accusations.

Man sometimes the girl is just different and you don't see the uggo part til after the bedroom action happens. I think it's called post nut clarity lol.

 

[Velasco]

Man sometimes the girl is just different and you don't see the uggo part til after the bedroom action happens. I think it's called post nut clarity lol.

Nah u def knew she was a 5 beforehand. U just didn't care because u wanted to get your nut off.

 

[Scars]

Most of my ONS end up turning into plates. Also, I wouldn't be that concerned with being METOO'd. Most of these girls have their own agenda. They have BFs, husbands, or already talking to someone.. most girls don't like to brag about ONS and adding to their body count.. they will generally stay quiet about it and not tell anyone. Maybe tell their closest GF but that's about it. If she's interested she will hit you up again. You should be ghosting them anyway.. whether you plan on sticking to it, or meeting up again.. too many guys are needy.. be the opposite. If a girl gets upset you didn't text her say you were busy.. you're not gonna get METOO'd for being a busy man.. females find it attractive actually, even if they act like they hate it. Unless you're fvcking b!tches way too sauced or spiking drinks with drugs, you shouldn't worry about this type of stuff. Don't give yourself another excuse not to approach.