Nightclubs and online dating don't excite me. Is anyone else like this? Bored with how ordinary the world is?

[Gamisch]

Hmmm... that doesn't really sound like it either. Because the women aren't special. Like, uh... getting to have sex with a porn star. That's special. Porn stars are "out of the ordinary."

Haha oke you are trolling. This was a decent troll job. 7/10.


Pornstars are broken women. Some women might truly like the excitement of a camera on them whole having s3x, but most are prostitutes(escorts) whom advertise their business. Never forget that.

So now you want a pornstar gf plate fwb wifey mother ride or die biatch. But she is not on tinder and nor in the club...I am actually stuck in a loop right now.

NO WOMAN IS SPECIAL. None. The absolute cesspool of women are most definitely pornstars. Hell, I even respect an anonymous esxort more then a pornstar.

 

[Gamisch]

Haha oke you are trolling. This was a decent troll job. 7/10.


Pornstars are broken women. Some women might truly like the excitement of a camera on them whole having s3x, but most are prostitutes(escorts) whom advertise their business. Never forget that.

So now you want a pornstar gf plate fwb wifey mother ride or die biatch. But she is not on tinder and nor in the club...I am actually stuck in a loop right now.

NO WOMAN IS SPECIAL. None. The absolute cesspool of women are most definitely pornstars. Hell, I even respect an anonymous esxort more then a pornstar.

Oke I will take this serious.

Let's continue about community creating. Once upon a time I was so into porn and chasing pvssy , I seriously considered starting my own production company.

But when I took a realistic look at this idea it came down to simply fvcking different prostitutes ( and overpaying them in the process). That's a very achievable goal.

 

[Parallelophone]

Haha oke you are trolling. This was a decent troll job. 7/10.


Pornstars are broken women. Some women might truly like the excitement of a camera on them whole having s3x, but most are prostitutes(escorts) whom advertise their business. Never forget that.

So now you want a pornstar gf plate fwb wifey mother ride or die biatch. But she is not on tinder and nor in the club...I am actually stuck in a loop right now.

NO WOMAN IS SPECIAL. None. The absolute cesspool of women are most definitely pornstars. Hell, I even respect an anonymous esxort more then a pornstar.

I don't want anyone to ride or die, I just wanna hook up with porn stars and not have to pay them for the privilege. Or something equally as cool.

If that's not cool, then nothing is cool. I'm certainly not braking for the common clubgoer either.

 

[Solomon]

One of the first things they tell you to do in the seduction game is go to a place and look for women you wanna ****. But what happens if you can't find any anywhere? What happens if you find yourself surrounded by mediocrity? What if your life has been this boring, ordinary thing that for years now you've been trying to escape, for there is nothing in it that excites you? Except for brief windows into other lives that you think probably will excite you?

For instance, I go to a nightclub. I look around. I'm not interested in anyone. On the other hand, I think I'd like to escape this boring, ordinary life of mine and be a nightlife industry insider. Which is itself pretty boring most of the time, I know. But what would be fun is being part of this "scene." This "community." And hopefully getting to meet, like, models and **** and hook up with them. Because models also tend to be part of this community/industry.

But if that fantasy is even possible, no one will tell me how to pursue it. I can find advice on how to start up or invest in a nightclub or something, and lots of warning about how risky and taxing it is, but no advice on "How do I become the kind of guy who kicks it with other cool nightlife people in the nightlife industry?"

This is where I'm stuck now. Bored with the ordinary, no idea how to escape the ordinary and become extraordinary. Have you ever felt like this? Did you ever find anything to fulfill yourself?

Sounds like you're broke if you had money you wouldn't be talking like this
Not trying to shame but when you're around motivated and ambitious people they don't hang around medicore ones unless they are giving them intrusctions on what to do!

 

[Parallelophone]

Sounds like you're broke if you had money you wouldn't be talking like this
Not trying to shame but when you're around motivated and ambitious people they don't hang around medicore ones unless they are giving them intrusctions on what to do!

I don't understand. I live comfortably enough, save for the fact that my life is boring.

 

[lost_blackbird]

Anhedonia is a real thing. I have anhedonic tendencies myself so I kinda get it.
The only thing I really enjoy per se is riding motorcycles but it's no fun in the wet
and this being England we get a fair bit of that. We had a pretty dry year this year
but I had an agreed trade in price on my old bike when I ordered my new one back
in March and subsequently a cap on how many miles I could do on it before I started
chipping away at the trade in price. So I missed a (relative) lot of sunshine this summer.

What Is Anhedonia?

Anhedonia is the inability to feel pleasure. It's a common symptom of depression as well as other mental health disorders.

www.webmd.com

 

[logicallefty]

OP, you do sound depressed to me. Many of us have been there. I certainly have. You have to snap out of that before anything will be enjoyable for you at this point. The question to ask yourself next is have You been like this your whole life, or were things once enjoyable for you at one time? And if so, what was? When do you fix your depression those same things should be again, if there was anything.

 

[MatureDJ]

One of the first things they tell you to do in the seduction game is go to a place and look for women you wanna ****. But what happens if you can't find any anywhere?

It's OVER for Can'tFindWomenAnywhereCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

What happens if you find yourself surrounded by mediocrity?

Move to where you aren't surrounded by mediocrity; for me, it is GeoMaxxing in EE.

 

[Parallelophone]

OP, you do sound depressed to me. Many of us have been there. I certainly have. You have to snap out of that before anything will be enjoyable for you at this point. The question to ask yourself next is have You been like this your whole life, or were things once enjoyable for you at one time? And if so, what was? When do you fix your depression those same things should be again, if there was anything.

I've always been like this, in that I've always had dreams of escaping my mediocre life for something greater. Over time the specifics of what I wanted has changed, but the goal of "be a somebody" was always the goal. For instance, once upon a time I really liked video games. Wanted to be a notable name in that industry and community. I've never wanted to be ordinary.

Move to where you aren't surrounded by mediocrity; for me, it is GeoMaxxing in EE.

I need a place I can go where I can be surrounded by beautiful women, a place that it's a privilege to be. A place where I won't be like "Nah, anyone could **** these women. I want something special."

Anhedonia is a real thing. I have anhedonic tendencies myself so I kinda get it.
The only thing I really enjoy per se is riding motorcycles but it's no fun in the wet
and this being England we get a fair bit of that. We had a pretty dry year this year
but I had an agreed trade in price on my old bike when I ordered my new one back
in March and subsequently a cap on how many miles I could do on it before I started
chipping away at the trade in price. So I missed a (relative) lot of sunshine this summer.

What Is Anhedonia?

Anhedonia is the inability to feel pleasure. It's a common symptom of depression as well as other mental health disorders.

www.webmd.com

Your signature suggests this might be kind of a thing for you. I'm in this thread checking to see what other people do in this case, so far the main two suggestions are "But you really don't like any of the women you see?" and "Try travel." Have you tried travel? I've tried travel, but then I haven't been everywhere. But then again, the places I have been have not given me respite.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That's nowhere. I go to the gym and I see no one that I even wanna talk to, be they male or female. Because they all seem so boring. And everyone I talk to ends up being boring.

But would becoming a promoter put me in with the nightlife industry? Am I likely to meet women in the industry that way?

Sounds like you may be the problem.

 

[Parallelophone]

Sounds like you may be the problem.

I'd like to be interesting enough to attract the women I do want to attract, but no one has any practical steps for me to take as far as doing that. I'm trying to be a part of an exclusive scene. I would need advice from people who are part of that exclusive scene already.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'd like to be interesting enough to attract the women I do want to attract, but no one has any practical steps for me to take as far as doing that. I'm trying to be a part of an exclusive scene. I would need advice from people who are part of that exclusive scene already.

Why? To be surrounded by fake friends and faker people?

 

[Parallelophone]

Why? To be surrounded by fake friends and faker people?

I understand a lot of people don't like it. But man, the alternative is so boring to me. I look at "normal" people and I just feel nothing. My co-workers try to come over my house or ask me to come over to theirs and I'm always desperately looking for some excuse as to why that can never happen. Because my co-workers are not the crowd I'm trying to be a part of.

I wanna find myself in some back room somewhere at some nightclub, and one of my friends introduces me to some Instagram/TikTok super starlet they know from some promo work or something. One thing escalates to another. That's the kind of life I'm trying to live.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I understand a lot of people don't like it. But man, the alternative is so boring to me. I look at "normal" people and I just feel nothing. My co-workers try to come over my house or ask me to come over to theirs and I'm always desperately looking for some excuse as to why that can never happen. Because my co-workers are not the crowd I'm trying to be a part of.

I wanna find myself in some back room somewhere at some nightclub, and one of my friends introduces me to some Instagram/TikTok super starlet they know from some promo work or something. One thing escalates to another. That's the kind of life I'm trying to live.

As a former club DJ who met a lot of people in the way you describe and at after hour parties at the rich club owners houses, I will let you know it's way better in your mind than it will be in real life.

But go find out for yourself I guess.

 

[Parallelophone]

As a former club DJ who met a lot of people in the way you describe and at after hour parties at the rich club owners houses, I will let you know it's way better in your mind than it will be in real life.

But go find out for yourself I guess.

What was wrong with it? Is it hard to close or something?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What was wrong with it? Is it hard to close or something?

I didn't have to do much of anything for that...women tried to close me pretty much all night at the club. That was easy.

Just not a fan of fakeness. I'm a pretty deep person who would much rather have 2 to 3 very close friends than 50 acquaintances.

They try and make you believe their bullsh!t and I saw through it from a mile away and tried to get away from it as much as I could.

When you associate with fake people long enough, you become fake as well without even realizing it

 

[Parallelophone]

I didn't have to do much of anything for that...women tried to close me pretty much all night at the club. That was easy.

Just not a fan of fakeness. I'm a pretty deep person who would much rather have 2 to 3 very close friends than 50 acquaintances.

They try and make you believe their bullsh!t and I saw through it from a mile away and tried to get away from it as much as I could.

When you associate with fake people long enough, you become fake as well without even realizing it

Not common clubgoing women. I mean the exclusive women that this life introduces you to. Like... Instagram/TikTok starlets that do promo work for friends of friends of the club. The women that would be at the club owner's afterparties and whatnot.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Not common clubgoing women. I mean the exclusive women that this life introduces you to. Like... Instagram/TikTok starlets that do promo work for friends of friends of the club. The women that would be at the club owner's afterparties and whatnot.

You are in for a rude awakening but go find out.

Also you must be clueless in regards to the type of people at those after parties.

 

[Parallelophone]

You are in for a rude awakening but go find out.

But wait a second, are you saying that models and **** would approach you and try to close you?

I don't know what "fakeness" you're talking about, but winkler in the vadooter is real. And if these exclusive women are like "Let's go have that winkler put in my vadooter and I don't want any of your money/financial support I just wanna screw" then I can't imagine being bothered by anything else being "fake" about that relationship.