I treated my ex girlfriend poorly. I want her back.

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So far no-contact for a month but still see her 4/7 days of the week since we have class.

We broke up because I refused to compromise. It’s been about 5 months since we been apart.
 
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Just go up to her.... ask her if she has time to talk.

Go from there.

If she says no.... respect her wishes and move on... lesson learned.

Epi
 

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^^ Exactly, try to reengage her in conversation…
We say the man needs to be the leader with a woman, but keep in mind for future reference that what many men don’t know about leadership is it will occasionally require a compromise or deal making being led by the leader …
 

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If you see her 4/7 days a week with no contact for a month that's 6-months in 20 year old peoples time. She's either completely ****ed up hard headed, or she's GONE. If your the screw up then you may tell her "don't think I don't miss you" then walk away and see where she takes it. That's as far as I would take it.
 
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Young Jedi, I’ve been in your shoes. A chick your age has been having many rebounds after the breakup. Would you want her back after her adventures?

Probably not what you want to hear, but it’s truth


And keep your thoughts in this thread, we don’t need multiple ones to help you
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Your 21!!! Chase and tap other azz.
If you don’t change your mentality now, you’re going to age into another thirsty Beta with tears in his eyes.
Now go get ‘em.
 

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So far no-contact for a month but still see her 4/7 days of the week since we have class.

We broke up because I refused to compromise. It’s been about 5 months since we been apart.
Why? It's not because you actually want her back, it's because you have no other options, let's be honest.
 

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So far no-contact for a month but still see her 4/7 days of the week since we have class.

We broke up because I refused to compromise. It’s been about 5 months since we been apart.
I would suggest you to review my post history. I was miserable 2-3 months ago, now I am so busy with girls that I am almost stressed with the amount of girls I am seeing. Ask me whether I think about my ex, who I thought was the perfect girl? NO, I don’t and in some time neither will you.

Once you’ve broken up it’s done. Work on yourself (like, truly work on yourself) and you’ll be golden!!
 

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Never go back to an ex. Its like going through your own garbage. You can bang her if she´s really hot but dont give her exclusivity.
 
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