Women who state their biggest quality is loyalty

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This is something my current gf brings up a lot if there are ever any doubts or issues. She says how loyalty is important to her and she is extremely loyal. It's the one trait her friends will accolade her with. (Is that the right term?)

Its also something I came across when I was dating. Women would say how they're fiercely loyal yet to me, it's something that should just go without saying.

If I look into it, I think its because the women who state it have been hurt in the past or something has happened in a previous relationship or their parents have committed adultery. Either that, or they're the biggest cheats on the planet. Just an interesting one i thought would be interesting as I'm sure a lot of you have had the same expression thrown at you.
 

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If I look into it, I think its because the women who state it have been hurt in the past or something has happened in a previous relationship or their parents have committed adultery.
I'm inclined to agree with this. A lot of time it's for protection, meaning it's putting themselves first. Selfishness hiding behind the presumption of virtue.
 

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This is something my current gf brings up a lot if there are ever any doubts or issues. She says how loyalty is important to her and she is extremely loyal. It's the one trait her friends will accolade her with. (Is that the right term?)

Its also something I came across when I was dating. Women would say how they're fiercely loyal yet to me, it's something that should just go without saying.

If I look into it, I think its because the women who state it have been hurt in the past or something has happened in a previous relationship or their parents have committed adultery. Either that, or they're the biggest cheats on the planet. Just an interesting one i thought would be interesting as I'm sure a lot of you have had the same expression thrown at you.
It's just talk. What counts is her actions.

My ex boss would say that I'm extremely lazy. But that's because he's a liar.
 

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The art is to always show aloofness, and never display such insecurities and doubts in the first place. Even when you have them.

A woman might be loyal to friends , family and pets, those all have nothing to do with v-box tingles.

Remember, an "agreement " with a woman today, might mean nothing to her tomorrow. Imo you should simply never trust a woman 100% , while always keeping this to yourself. Eliminate the conversations about doubts and just look at her actions. Things might actually improve thjngs where neccessary.
 
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Loyalty is the bare minimum, beneficial to your life is what separates a good woman from a mediocre loyal woman. I've had loyal exes in the past, but they would make my life a living hell with their drama and BS.

This is also a red flag for an Alpha Widow/High SMV chaser because these men tend to blatantly cheat on women they don't really care for.
 

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A woman's loyalty depends on her sex appeal.

If she's young, she doesn't care so much about loyalty. Why? Her sex appeal can grab her another guy.
If she's becoming menopausal, loyalty is of the utmost importance. Why? Because her sex appeal is down the drain.

A woman's body is on the clock. The way she acts day-to-day is dependent on that clock. An 18-year-old girl, whose face is fresh and whose body is fertile, will never say "where have all the good men gone?" or "I want a guy who is rich with a house and car" But a 33-year-old will.

Be strong men.
 

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All females, on some level act the same.

They want to shape themselves into what you want them to be and in return they get you to emotionally invest in them.

With these girls that come from broken homes, it's female behaviour in its extreme, and they are vapid and shallow. You have to stay on your toes with them. Don't lower your guard, she could switch on you at the drop of a hat.
 

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A major incident for me happened last night. On the talk of loyalty and trust, she threw it right out of the window. It might seem minor to you but for me this is big. I was out at an event, I called her to see how her day went. The phone went to voicemail. She called me back when she was outside, told me about her day, said she was helping her daughter with homework and said I'll see her later. Something didn't quite sit right with me and anxiety kicked in. I got home and found out she had had her sister and friend over for a drink. She was drunk and was in bed, I saw the wine glasses in the sink and just couldn't believe she would lie to me over something so small. Why didn't she just tell me there was people in the house and why did she go outside to speak to me? What else is she going to lie about? This is a 40 year Old woman we are talking about. She should act better.
 
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A major incident for me happened last night. On the talk of loyalty and trust, she threw it right out of the window. It might seem minor to you but for me this is big. I was out at an event, I called her to see how her day went. The phone went to voicemail. She called me back when she was outside, told me about her day, said she was helping her daughter with homework and said I'll see her later. Something didn't quite sit right with me and anxiety kicked in. I got home and found out she had had her sister and friend over for a drink. She was drunk and was in bed, I saw the wine glasses in the sink and just couldn't believe she would lie to me over something so small. Why didn't she just tell me there was people in the house and why did she go outside to speak to me? What else is she going to lie about? This is a 40 year Old woman we are talking about. She should act better.
imagine what else she lied about loo
 

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If she's young, she doesn't care so much about loyalty. Why? Her sex appeal can grab her another guy.
If she's becoming menopausal, loyalty is of the utmost importance. Why? Because her sex appeal is down the drain.

A woman's body is on the clock. The way she acts day-to-day is dependent on that clock. An 18-year-old girl, whose face is fresh and whose body is fertile, will never say "where have all the good men gone?" or "I want a guy who is rich with a house and car" But a 33-year-old will.
I agree with all of this. The 33-37 year old woman that demands a rich man with a house and car has no rational reason based on SMV to demand that. Her SMV is declining. When SMV declines, demands need to decline. However, in the real world, 30 something childless women are extremely demanding.

If you met her online OP don't belive a word she says, women will say they wanna see you again after you creampied her the first night just to ghost you

yes this happened
That's a wild story. I could see a woman ghosting after bad sex from a late night same night lay from a bar or a first date from an app/cold approach resulting in sex with an ejaculation inside the vagina. It's recommended to do those sorts of ejaculations inside of a condom.
 

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Woman: I'm loyal to my men
LL: Oh yeah? Wern't you married before?
Woman: Yes
LL: What happened with the ex-husband?
Woman: I left him because he (pick one or more): was abusive, was always working, stopped caring about me, looked at porn, liked his goldfish more than me, looked at me wrong, didn't understand me, could no longer work because he got sick, etc.
LL: Not sure where you got married, but "until death do us part" is in most marriage vows I know about. Was that line in your vows?
Woman: Yes, but bla bla bla bla
LL: So your not really loyal to your men then, gotcha..
Woman: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
LL: :rofl: :rofl:
 

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I agree with all of this. The 33-37 year old woman that demands a rich man with a house and car has no rational reason based on SMV to demand that. Her SMV is declining. When SMV declines, demands need to decline. However, in the real world, 30 something childless women are extremely demanding.



That's a wild story. I could see a woman ghosting after bad sex from a late night same night lay from a bar or a first date from an app/cold approach resulting in sex with an ejaculation inside the vagina. It's recommended to do those sorts of ejaculations inside of a condom.
I'm not proud of it but it's something we discussed, then she did the Michael Jordan "Fadeaway" after asking her out again twice and getting the "I'm busy" I told her it's not for me and blocked her number

I get it women are busy and live happens but even if a woman has a family die (as she claims) and is busy they will be in communication with you and we all know on this site a woman will see come heck or high water
 
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