Honestly, I think this all comes down to whether or not the woman in question is ACTUALLY attracted to you or not. If some guy that is 6'6", fit and handsome is courting her she doesn't care about any of this stuff, all she knows is that she is highly attracted to him to the point where just about anything he does she is already fully aroused and will climax easily.
There was a guy I knew a couple years ago and he was dating some girl that he honestly wasn't all that into. I recall him talking about the sex not being good and that he had a hard time ejaculating. After a bit of discussion there was nothing really wrong with her, he just wasn't all that attracted to her but she picked up on this and it started having an impact on their relationship.
I remember reading an article a long time ago where a large percentage of women never climax/orgasm when having sex with a man. However, it also revealed that a substantial number of these women were not really all that attracted to the men they were with. It then said that as a woman's attraction towards a man increases, her ability to be highly sexually satisfied from the encounter is significantly more likely to occur.
This whole thing reminds me about the fallacy of "game". Game does not exist, she is either attracted to you or isn't and just about nothing you can realistically do will ever change that. The only exceptions to this are if you are completely inept, which would lose you some points for sure.