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Master Don Juan
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yeah, I pretty much agree.seduction is mainly about how you are perceived and timing
master this and the results will soon follow
then it is about not being a simp and knowing when to persist and when to just leave things be
most guys that complain also have horrible fundamentals
always ask yourself this , would at least other guys have a good impression about me ?
if not even other guys have a good impression about you , why would women have ?
if other guys do not want tk be friends with you because they do not think that you are cool or interesting , why women would ?
I've always had lots of friends
More importantly, when I was getting into this, I was getting bad advice on FR's I was writing at the time who were suggesting there must be something super 'off' to ever be getting ignored by some hot 18 year old on a cold approach or whatever. I was too naive and took their advice when i should have trusted my instincts, as it really stressed me out thinking back lol
But in hindsight, even when I was writing them FR's all that time ago, i'd banged like 20 girls or something from cold approach. There's no way that would have been possible if my fundamentals were super bad or I was a mega weird dude who gave off bad vibes etc.
The actual answer, that the deluded old armchair theory goons at rooshv forum or wherever it was didn't tell me, was that it's a numbers game, and of course you're gonna get a lot of bad reactions from girls way younger and hotter than me on a cold approach. Even more so in the UK where we don't even tend to talk to strangers lol. A lot of 'awkward' interactions are actually because she chooses to make it 'awkward'. It's literally just a way of rejecting a guy