Words to beat Last Minute resistance?

[Reyaj]

I have gotten last minute resistance quite a bit when messing around/foreplay with girls..

Does anyone have some specific words/phrases they use to beat this?

Basic things that come to mind..
"It will feel so good baby"

"I want you..."

But I need some better proven lines to help close the deal.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Usually, the girl just hops on my dvck. Get better at foreplay lol.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have gotten last minute resistance quite a bit when messing around/foreplay with girls..

Does anyone have some specific words/phrases they use to beat this?

Basic things that come to mind..
"It will feel so good baby"

"I want you..."

But I need some better proven lines to help close the deal.

I dunno...honestly I rarely deal with it.

The last time it happened the girl basically initiated it by jumping on me and straddling my lap while I was on the couch and making out with me, then we ended up naked and she was stroking my c0ck, and randomly blurted out "Just so you know, we aren't having sex". I just said "OK" and started fingering her and rubbing my c0ck on her cl!t and then she begged me to put it inside her...so I did.

Usually it's just something they say without thinking before sex the first time I think and doesn't mean much...it's only happened twice and both times I fvcked her with little further resistance once I started fingering her.

My reaction is to just say OK and then proceed to fingering her and rubbing her cl!t...they can't really resist much when they are that turned and horny. Usually they will be begging for it if you do it well enough.

 

[Reyaj]

Usually, the girl just hops on my dvck. Get better at foreplay lol.

Yeah honestly in the past I have teased and pulled back myself. I've learned this is not how a guy should act.. probably just need to go caveman...

My reaction is to just say OK and then proceed to fingering her and rubbing her cl!t...they can't really resist much when they are that turned and horny. Usually they will be begging for it if you do it well enough.

Yeah plausible deniability I'd say right? If they say that and then it happens they feel it's not their fault. I had a hot girl I was messing around with in her car literally say to me "I want you..". Since we were in her car in a public parking lot and I didn't have a hotel room, I thought purchasing one would kill the mood, and we couldn't have sex in a public parking lot.. in retrospect I should have at least tried to hang her in the car and tell her to move it somewhere more discreet. It was the first and last time I ever saw her as I couldn't get her out again.

It takes me a while to learn things..

 

[Reyaj]

I dunno...honestly I rarely deal with it.

The last time it happened the girl basically initiated it by jumping on me and straddling my lap while I was on the couch and making out with me, then we ended up naked and she was stroking my c0ck, and randomly blurted out "Just so you know, we aren't having sex". I just said "OK" and started fingering her and rubbing my c0ck on her cl!t and then she begged me to put it inside her...so I did.

Usually it's just something they say without thinking before sex the first time I think and doesn't mean much...it's only happened twice and both times I fvcked her with little further resistance once I started fingering her.

My reaction is to just say OK and then proceed to fingering her and rubbing her cl!t...they can't really resist much when they are that turned and horny. Usually they will be begging for it if you do it well enough.

I've had several girls stop my hand when I went to try and unbutton their pants even though they were playing with my cvck... Should I try more forcefully to unbutton their pants, or is that a sign they are committed to not having sex? Both girls ended up blowing me..

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've had several girls stop my hand when I went to try and unbutton their pants even though they were playing with my cvck... Should I try more forcefully to unbutton their pants, or is that a sign they are committed to not having sex? Both girls ended up blowing me..

That usually means you need to get them turned on more first before you try again. They are not excited enough yet.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah honestly in the past I have teased and pulled back myself. I've learned this is not how a guy should act.. probably just need to go caveman...




Yeah plausible deniability I'd say right? If they say that and then it happens they feel it's not their fault. I had a hot girl I was messing around with in her car literally say to me "I want you..". Since we were in her car in a public parking lot and I didn't have a hotel room, I thought purchasing one would kill the mood, and we couldn't have sex in a public parking lot.. in retrospect I should have at least tried to hang her in the car and tell her to move it somewhere more discreet. It was the first and last time I ever saw her as I couldn't get her out again.

It takes me a while to learn things..

Going to a hotel is super hot for most women not mood killing...I've gotten rooms several times and it usually leads to amazing sex...

 

[Reyaj]

Going to a hotel is super hot for most women not mood killing...I've gotten rooms several times and it usually leads to amazing sex...

Ok first meets though?

 

[espanish]

I have gotten last minute resistance quite a bit when messing around/foreplay with girls..

Does anyone have some specific words/phrases they use to beat this?

Basic things that come to mind..
"It will feel so good baby"

"I want you..."

But I need some better proven lines to help close the deal.

ignore and pull back. for example if you were trying to play with her breasts and she shows resistance, ignore and play with her neck now. saying anything will make it worse. "it will feel so good baby" you been watching too much porn.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Ok first meets though?

Twice...usually it was on the 2nd or 3rd

 

[Reyaj]

Twice...usually it was on the 2nd or 3rd

Gotcha, yeah these times were on the first meet up I felt weird. But I probably should have tried or told her to move her car somewhere more discreet. Nothing to lose.. I don't know why I get shy sometimes..

ignore and pull back. for example if you were trying to play with her breasts and she shows resistance, ignore and play with her neck now. saying anything will make it worse. "it will feel so good baby" you been watching too much porn.

This our world approach I heard works.. saying like don't worry this is our world... My ex at 17 had someone run this on her...I feel kinda corny saying it though

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Gotcha, yeah these times were on the first meet up I felt weird. But I probably should have tried or told her to move her car somewhere more discreet. Nothing to lose.. I don't know why I get shy sometimes..



This our world approach I heard works.. saying like don't worry this is our world... My ex at 17 had someone run this on her...I feel kinda corny saying it though

Ae you so hard up you need it to be on the first date?

It can make you look desperate if not done with finesse.

 

[Reyaj]

Ae you so hard up you need it to be on the first date?

It can make you look desperate if not done with finesse.

Well honestly I don't have a lot of time to play the slow game. But if I am able to get physical escalation on the first date shouldn't I still try to close the deal?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well honestly I don't have a lot of time to play the slow game. But if I am able to get physical escalation on the first date shouldn't I still try to close the deal?

I routinely get sex on dates 2 and 3. If it happens on date 1 great, if not I don't worry about it.

You seem too concerned about it to be honest and I would bet this is making you push too hard and come off as sex starved to these women.

I'm not saying don't try, I am just saying don't put so much emphasis that you try so hard that it ruins your chances to see them again...it's a fine line you are walking and on balance, I would bet most guys screw up their chances of banging a woman by focusing on this

 

[bat soup]

I have gotten last minute resistance quite a bit when messing around/foreplay with girls..

Does anyone have some specific words/phrases they use to beat this?

Basic things that come to mind..
"It will feel so good baby"

"I want you..."

But I need some better proven lines to help close the deal.

For religious girls:
"Just the tip isn't sinful"

 

[Reyaj]

I routinely get sex on dates 2 and 3. If it happens on date 1 great, if not I don't worry about it.

You seem too concerned about it to be honest and I would bet this is making you push too hard and come off as sex starved to these women.

I'm not saying don't try, I am just saying don't put so much emphasis that you try so hard that it ruins your chances to see them again...it's a fine line you are walking and on balance, I would bet most guys screw up their chances of banging a woman by focusing on this

I actually tend to stop when I get some resistance and even that time the girl flat out said "I want you" cause we were in the car and I thought asking her to drive somewhere else would kill the mood and we were too in public to do it.. But anyway I'm ok with not necessarily doing it on the first date.. but i guess my question is if I get car isolation should do I go for it? If not should I ever bother kissing on the first date?

OP. No words just stop. Wait and escalate again. Change subject and physically escalate. Rinse and repeat. If by the end of the night nothing. Go home and don't hang with her or boot her out of your place.

Yeah I guess conveying it doesn't bother me either way is probably key.