Daygame logistics in college

[20Humble5050]

When I approach a cute girl on campus in a daygame setting with the intention of casual sex, what steps should I take between chatting her up and taking her back to my room in order to make that transition? My old instinct would be to just ask her out to a cafe or bar date, but she's only highly likely to have time on the weekends, which is no use if it's Monday, and many girls aren't 21 yet and can't go to bars - not to mention the fact that they'll almost certainly flake. So since saying "Have some Madeira, my dear!" and immediately leading a girl back to my dorm room is likely too direct, what is the most efficient way to escalate in a college daygame setting?

 

[RangerMIke]

The first thing you need to do is not get ahead of yourself. Going from seeing a girl to banging her is a process.

If you approach a woman the only thing you should be doing is seeing if she is interested... then if she is available... then if she gives you her number.... next will she meet you on a date.... does she actually show up and not flake. I don't care what PUAs say, you can not make anything happen with any woman want. A woman has to want what you have or you are just wasting your time. It is a numbers game, in college you should be trying to strike up conversations with any girls you are attracted to then see how she responds. Trust me... this is a lot easier than focusing on one woman and busting your @ss trying to make something happen.

Only when she is willing to meet you alone on a date do you have something to work with.... at that point is is all about not screwing up. As far as what you can do in college... well... I don't know where you are, but where I went there was ALWAYS something going on that didn't require money... free movies, parties, sporting events, extracurricular activity, you don't have to go to a bar or club. Figure out what you like to do and invite her along. If she doesn't like you she won't go, then you just move on to the next one. If she likes you, she'll go along with your plans to see if her assumptions are confirmed.

Get involved with activity in college that has nothing to go with PlayStation or X-Box, every university has many clubs and organizations that have nothing to do with Greek culture. Join something you like and this is the best way to meet college girls because you have built in rapport.

There are times when a woman will just meet you and you end up in bed, but really that doesn't have anything to do with you, it's her and where she is in that emotional moment, you really don't have any control over this accept not fvcking it up.

 

[SW15]

Getting a same day lay from a woman you meet in a non-bar setting is difficult.

Plenty of college women have time for dates on weeknights. I have no idea where you get the idea that they are only available on weekends. I did weeknight dates while in college. I even did ridiculous dinner dates on weeknights in college while I was 18-20.

If you're walking between classes or in the dining hall, there are plenty of ways to stop women and then propose a date. If you're not 21, you're going to have to be more creative with your dates. No coffee shop or dinner dates, and frozen yogurt/ice cream dates are debatable. I'd try to find some fun activity or event. A great thing about being a college student is that you can do dates at uncoventional times. Nothing is stopping you from going on a date at 3 PM on a Thursday. Try doing that with 2 post-college working people.

 

[20Humble5050]

Getting a same day lay from a woman you meet in a non-bar setting is difficult.

Plenty of college women have time for dates on weeknights. I have no idea where you get the idea that they are only available on weekends. I did weeknight dates while in college. I even did ridiculous dinner dates on weeknights in college while I was 18-20.

If you're walking between classes or in the dining hall, there are plenty of ways to stop women and then propose a date. If you're not 21, you're going to have to be more creative with your dates. No coffee shop or dinner dates, and frozen yogurt/ice cream dates are debatable. I'd try to find some fun activity or event. A great thing about being a college student is that you can do dates at uncoventional times. Nothing is stopping you from going on a date at 3 PM on a Thursday. Try doing that with 2 post-college working people.

So today I noticed that this cute girl that flirted with me on Saturday called me that day too after I got her number, but I missed the call. When I called back today she said she couldn't remember what she was calling about. When I asked if she wanted to meet up she said that she'd suggest something over text, but then I said that I'd do my own research and see if there was anything fun going on, then suggest something to her. Since I texted her yesterday, but she didn't even read the text, I think I will call her again to suggest something tomorrow (assuming I do find something) instead of texting. This is in addition to approaching other girls.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Colleges expel guys for "gaming" women, so tread lightly. As soon as one of them complains, that's it for your scholastic career.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Colleges expel guys for "gaming" women, so tread lightly. As soon as one of them complains, that's it for your scholastic career.

Where'd you learn this? Provide link to the article for info please.

 

[20Humble5050]

Where'd you learn this? Provide link to the article for info please.

No, I’ve gotten in trouble for this before actually. Except it was some onlooker who saw me asking out a couple of girls in the dining hall (at different times) and decided to be offended on their behalf; none of the girls I actually approached seemed remotely creeped out by me, and the office seemed to believe me. At this point it’s a “factored-in occupational hazard” more than anything because as a sub-Chad, there will always be girls who cry foul no matter how carefully I approach.