I don't want a same day lay from online. I approach women in person with the intent to get her ***** wet and potentially get a same day lay. I do this using Alan Roger Curries Mode One approach, which is all about being direct, bold, and straightforward. When it comes to OLD my approach is more for the long game. I like to get the girl caught in my web by texting, voice notes, phone calls/FT. If I feel like there's sexual chemistry between us, then I'll set the meet up. A OLD same day lay is rare, so nothing to talk down on, but I just feel as if it makes me look needy and excited. I'd rather the girl get the impression that I'm busy and have a lot goin on.