Thanks for that, I took a look over each of those threads and even read through some of the comments. Let me know if my takeaways are accurate...
You're welcome. Here goes.
1. Austin/Dallas probably isn't a great place for the reasons you mentioned above and the prominence of SJWs.
I've said repeatedly that Austin and Dallas are the two most challenging mating environments in Texas. Houston, San Antonio, and Fort Worth are better choices based upon the mating environments, though all 3 of those places also have downsides.
Austin's biggest downside is the feminist/SJW influence and the fact that it is the San Francisco of Texas. Call Austin San Francisco Light.
Dallas' biggest downsides are the pretentiousness of its White women and the bad attitudes of its White women. There is a bit of a careerist element in Dallas because a lot of adults end up relocating to Dallas due to the metro area have a lot of corporate headquarters of decent sized companies. Social circles tend to be weaker in Dallas due to the rootless nature of a lot of adults there. Swipe apps are big in Dallas due to this rootless nature. When a bunch of transplants from other parts of the USA descend on an area + some from other countries, it's going to be a bit more challenging. Superficiality becomes more of a thing, leading to the pretentiousness and the bad attitudes I discussed. Dallas has its own thread. See below.
Based on @Jesse Pinkman's write ups of New York City, Miami, and large state universities, I thought it would be worthwhile to write up Dallas, the city I call home. The Dallas-Fort Worth metropolitan area (DFW) is the 4th most populated metropolitan area in the United States. Dallas and Fort...
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2. Tempe is probably better overall than Phoenix, both in terms of the quality of women and being less miserably hot.
Tempe is a suburb of Phoenix. Downtown Phoenix to Arizona State's Tempe campus is about 10 miles away. There's no climate difference between Phoenix and Tempe. If you are looking for casual sex with younger women, Tempe is probably better than Phoenix. There are more college students and recent college graduates in Tempe than in the best neighborhoods for singles in Phoenix. However, Phoenix itself has some decent areas for meeting people.
3. Miami probably beats out Tempe by a small margin, but also has a more superficial view on dating. Also, according to one or two people in the comments, it seems that Miami overall still has a better quality of attractive woman, even compared to the hot co-eds near ASU.
I have no experience with Miami, whereas I have direct experience with the Dallas area and the Phoenix area. You can find casual sex with women in both Miami and Phoenix/Tempe. Some men have been critical of Miami's nightlife. Tempe's nightlife is likely less superficial and less challenging than Miami/Miami Beach. Another advantage of Phoenix/Tempe over Miami is that Phoenix/Tempe is less Hispanic. Miami is only about 12% White. Spanish fluency is going to be much more essential to daily life in Miami than Phoenix.
I'm 28, I've lived in Delaware all my life, and I f***ing hate it...it's boring, the women aren't anything special, and I have to travel about 30+ minutes just to go somewhere that other people will be for nightlife. I don't want to move somewhere JUST for the dating life but I want to have that as a strong option where I don't have to travel or spend a s***load of money to go out to even try my luck.
I know the above threads aren't all your personal experience, so please don't feel obligated to offer it if it's been a while since you've visited those places to give a personal account, but what is your opinion on where to go in the USA as a single guy if you're looking to have a good dating life? Mind you, I am NOT looking for relationships. I saw Jesse talk about how tourists and people only visiting 1-2 nights might be a downside, but that would be fine with me, for example.
How's your social circle in Delaware? Having lived in one place all of your life isn't bad. I've seen guys use that geographic constancy to their advantage. Guys with social circles sometimes experience less frustration and poor treatment from shallow women on the dating market, simply because they aren't needing to approach strangers to arrange dates. While these men might experience an advantage on the front end of relationships, they have a significant downside on the back end of relationships. The back end downside for social circle guys is that they'll usually have a beta male blue pill orientation and often get married/divorced.
I chose to live in Dallas, but I didn't choose it entirely based on the mating market. Dallas has a mediocre mating market but other lifestyle considerations, primarily the job market, is why I am here.
You could also look at Orlando, Tampa, and maybe Fort Lauderdale as compared to Miami. Living closer to the beach (Tampa and Fort Lauderdale) gives you the beach as an option for pickup. Fort Lauderdale has a larger White population, so you won't need Spanish fluency as much as you would need it in Miami.
