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First VR 180 ASMR experience (Bp/cope)

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(Note: This is intended as a black-pill cope where there is zero interaction with women or interest from them. As soon as I'm talking to any real life woman, for more than one hour of interaction time within a week, then this thing is off (as it's not functioning as a cope then.)

Went on the youtube vr app of the Meta Quest 2 and the Asian lady just popped out of the video. It was creepy at first because she looked so real. However, I'm bedazzled about how realistic that experience felt. I occasionally stare at her face and she smiled back (this is a video so there is no way for her movements to be synchronized with my own movements which was weird).

The idea here is to give myself some doses of interactions with women on the level of VR, and even blowing up some pick-up / approach videos into an IMAX level screen to make it feel more realistic (ie and make me feel part of the pick-up experience). The idea is giving myself some 20 min small doses in the VR and just see what this thing does. Does it reduce the psychological distance between how I'm feeling towards women by having a woman who is giving me attention to feel like she's in the same room as me? Am I going to feel hypnotized to start approaching girls and talking to them by watching IMAX videos of that happening in VR with Pick-up artists? Will want to see how good this device is in re-wiring or re-programming the mind.

Already the effects are interesting. I just saw some music videos and it felt different looking at the women in the videos, a bit more familiar and soothing than normal. It looks like there are subtle effects so far but want to continue testing it out. For 180 degree videos, there only appears to be a few Asian women making these videos, but not women of other races as much. There are other ASMR videos in 2d that can be blown up to IMAX.
 

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There was a sleep disturbance on this. Think using the VR like this is too intense on the brain because you can't change your bedroom into an Asian massage parlour room with an Asian girl cutting your hair infront of you and appear that realistic and expect there that won't hit the brain in some way. I'm suspending this since it caused a fap-relapse in order to beat the mental disturbance and insomnia. Just too jarring.

In VR in general, even with the Netflix apps, sometimes there is a reaction. I haven't had a reaction in a while and thought I could have handled this application of VR. The intentions I feel were right since I was focused on social rather than sexual types of videos.
 

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I've seen some ASMR videos at the pron sites. Having a soft, feminine voice talk to me is definitely turn-on. When I EscortMax and find one that's good with this, I come back for more.
 

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While I'm pausing this thing until Sept 1st, I am noticing some subtle shifts today. I noticed more girls in public and almost said hi to one of them through my car window. She was actually looking at me and expecting to say hi. There is a "softer" feeling towards nice looking young women in public and I think the VR is altering my perception of women in a good way. The soft-dose concept seems to be good in that way. When you see other guys approach women and they are nice to talk to on a virtual IMAX screen, then it will register in the subconscious mind and you'll also think "women are nice to approach". The mind should be able to be re-programmed like a computer in this way. This was based on whatever I did last night on VR so I'm seeing some little effects the next day.
 

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I've seen some ASMR videos at the pron sites. Having a soft, feminine voice talk to me is definitely turn-on. When I EscortMax and find one that's good with this, I come back for more.
That's cool. I'm deliberately avoiding escort pics, porn sites, and fapping, until at least until next month. I have stayed away from that over the past several months. I want to make sure I'm girl-hungry as hell, tried everything (or feel as thought i've tried everything in my mind as a normie-tier/or sub-5) to get a gf or lose my weight, before I go back there. Its important to me to feel like I've earned it rather than taking something that's readily available just because its there. I will stay away from these things in the meantime.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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