DEEZEDBRAH
Master Don Juan
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It's biblical the quote about only serving 1 master.I have about 6 months of living expenses saved up and I did not want to use them at all, I thought I'd keep saving up in case I want to buy a house in the future. After a date today that went sour solely due to the crap I had to deal with at work, I decided that enough is finally enough. I am going to put my two weeks in Monday without another job lined up. Recruiters have been really ineffective in getting me anything other than scammy offers or just workplaces that cannot last long-term.
I'm a random person on the net so blindly quiting the job maybe not ideal. I can only share my personal opinion and experience.
I Have lost absurd amounts of people in my life. Since high school and college, I lost count on the body's who dropped for a number of reasons. Death stalks us all. It's coming when least expected.
You can't buy back good health. The pay, the job, the money is all replaceable. All it takes is 1 system of the body to go tits up. It's like domino's thereafter.
Chain gun your resume out. Use LinkedIn. Hell, worst case scenario, do labor or whatever you can even temporary. You aren't going to prosper in that role nor will you get wealthy. It's pointless. Even worse, you can't get the time back.
Even worse, you are seeing the remnants of the fallout in the form of poor dates or game outcomes. Have you checked your blood pressure? Had a physical? I'm betting your cortisol stress hormone is spiked.
Meditate. Pray. I trip. Explore consciousness. A silence meditation and yoga retreat would be a great detox. Austen Summers has a 10min guided meditation. You can try Eckhart Tolle. I found monumental meditation. It's a huge difference and found Ecky from Tyler. Go into nature. Do a sensory deprivation float tank. Do something out of the ordinary to shake yourself out of this state.
Your work is the epitome of anti game. It's not you. It's adventure calling elsewhere.
@Jesse Pinkman mate, if you are red lining it, I'd ghost or quit effective immediately. Alternatively, if you can hold go, line up alternative options, it might be a good idea.It is going to suck not having a regular paycheck come in but at the very least, I have enough saved up for the time being.
I have had it.
I thought I read you are remote?
It's time to get the F out.It ruined a good date for me today but even for months, I have been suffering. I have to force myself out of bed, this new manager sucks. I am not going to deal with it anymore, I am losing my sanity. No amount of promotions are worth it, I am done. I am too exhausted mentally to even go out.
I think every man experiences in their lifetime.
Clarey is 1 of the few RP fellas I like. He's mentioned his time in banking with sociopaths. Led him to entrepreneurship.
The future is entrepreneurship. Clarey recommended leaving corporate to Karens. I think the future play is entrepreneurship, side hustle, freelance or consulting. Not actually working directly with a corporation but consulting.
Beginning of a new path forward. Adventure beckons.