FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
This is a topic rarely discussed, and may slightly border on black-pill. Before you read on, I'd highly suggest watching this video:
I've now realized most women do low-key gaslighting by default, and it may even be unconscious. While other women may do more malicious, intentional gaslighting (ie implanting false memories), that's another subject altogether.
Many men will advise to act "aloof" and "indifferent" when women do low-key gaslighting tactics (some shvt tests and "games" fall under gaslighting tactics). No. Stop thinking like this. Unless you are autistic (ie Nathan Fielder), you are not going to be truly unreactive, after a certain point. You might not care for the first few months but if they continually do gaslighting tactics and your only response is to be "aloof" you're being too passive and all you're doing is enabling further disrespect.
The first time a women gaslights you, you must address it. You will know it immediately. The offense might seem like something small, but that's just it: it's not small. It is exactly what you think it is. You would not feel it in your gut if it was something small.
For instance, she might do some borderline "flirting" right in front of you. This is not acceptable. This does not make you "insecure" or "jealous" or "controlling" to call her out, that is exactly what she wants you to think, and many men here literally buy into that ****. It shows how effective women have been in controlling the narrative. Let me emphatically state that even if it does not affect you (which it shouldn't) if you do not nip it in the bud, it may very likely only get worse.
Things like this are a blatant sign of disrespect. Understand that some women will stay with you if they lose genuine attraction and respect for you, just for the security of having the power in the relationship. This is a beyond worthless position to be in. If a women cannot respect you, it means she cannot love you, and she should be nexted immediately.
Many men have the attitude of pretending not to care. But you do care, stop kidding yourselves. We act so idealistic, but refuse to acknowledge that we're all flawed human beings with insecurities and vulnerabilities. But again, it's moot: even if you truly don't care, the mere fact that she's doing it at all is the issue. To put this in another context: if a girl mentions she wants to get drinks with "a friend" and spend the night, whether or not you care, and whether or not she's planning on fvcking him is irrelevant: the very fact she mentions this to you is a serious sign of disrespect because she's trying to make you insecure.
Stop being passive. Stop enabling this. Put your foot down and be a fvcking man. When women actively try to gain the power, your only response should be to call them out on it, calmly, and in few words, then withdraw attention. If they don't stop, WALK AWAY.
I've now realized most women do low-key gaslighting by default, and it may even be unconscious. While other women may do more malicious, intentional gaslighting (ie implanting false memories), that's another subject altogether.
Many men will advise to act "aloof" and "indifferent" when women do low-key gaslighting tactics (some shvt tests and "games" fall under gaslighting tactics). No. Stop thinking like this. Unless you are autistic (ie Nathan Fielder), you are not going to be truly unreactive, after a certain point. You might not care for the first few months but if they continually do gaslighting tactics and your only response is to be "aloof" you're being too passive and all you're doing is enabling further disrespect.
The first time a women gaslights you, you must address it. You will know it immediately. The offense might seem like something small, but that's just it: it's not small. It is exactly what you think it is. You would not feel it in your gut if it was something small.
For instance, she might do some borderline "flirting" right in front of you. This is not acceptable. This does not make you "insecure" or "jealous" or "controlling" to call her out, that is exactly what she wants you to think, and many men here literally buy into that ****. It shows how effective women have been in controlling the narrative. Let me emphatically state that even if it does not affect you (which it shouldn't) if you do not nip it in the bud, it may very likely only get worse.
Things like this are a blatant sign of disrespect. Understand that some women will stay with you if they lose genuine attraction and respect for you, just for the security of having the power in the relationship. This is a beyond worthless position to be in. If a women cannot respect you, it means she cannot love you, and she should be nexted immediately.
Many men have the attitude of pretending not to care. But you do care, stop kidding yourselves. We act so idealistic, but refuse to acknowledge that we're all flawed human beings with insecurities and vulnerabilities. But again, it's moot: even if you truly don't care, the mere fact that she's doing it at all is the issue. To put this in another context: if a girl mentions she wants to get drinks with "a friend" and spend the night, whether or not you care, and whether or not she's planning on fvcking him is irrelevant: the very fact she mentions this to you is a serious sign of disrespect because she's trying to make you insecure.
Stop being passive. Stop enabling this. Put your foot down and be a fvcking man. When women actively try to gain the power, your only response should be to call them out on it, calmly, and in few words, then withdraw attention. If they don't stop, WALK AWAY.
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