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Should I continue talking to this girl?

Plank

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So guys I have been having conversation with a girl for past few weeks. She came out of her relationship and still talking to her ex.

Day before yesterday we were talking in the night and it escalated to the topic of sex and got pretty hot.
Next morning she seemed a little cold. Now my exams are also going on, so pretty much the talking is at minimum.
She got back in touch with her ex and I think I shouldn't spend time with her. It will get pretty useless. We still have some casual conversation, but that pretty much it.

So what are your thoughts and if possible can I get a elaborated reply rather than just NEXT.
 

IKO69

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Your gut is telling you what the right answer is. You already know it; leave the girl alone if she's back with her ex/all she does is talk about her ex. You want to be #1 priority.

Nothing ever comes from this except catching feelings and waiting around for someone who doesn't feel the same way. In that time you could've met other chicks who would've let you put p in v.
 

Plank

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and you didn’t make a move?

Next. This one is over. Move on.
She at present is in a different city.After the semester she planned to come to my city so that we can meet.
 

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So guys I have been having conversation with a girl for past few weeks. She came out of her relationship and still talking to her ex.

Day before yesterday we were talking in the night and it escalated to the topic of sex and got pretty hot.
Next morning she seemed a little cold. Now my exams are also going on, so pretty much the talking is at minimum.
She got back in touch with her ex and I think I shouldn't spend time with her. It will get pretty useless. We still have some casual conversation, but that pretty much it.

So what are your thoughts and if possible can I get a elaborated reply rather than just NEXT.
Were you talking to the girl in person or via text?How long ago did she leave her previous relationship?These details are important.

If you haven’t even met her a few times it can be hard to judge how well sexual conversations are really going.

It doesn’t bode well if she just recently left her ex.It doesn’t bode well that she’s still talking to said ex.I’d leave her alone if I were you.
 

manfrombelow

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So guys I have been having conversation with a girl for past few weeks.
1. You should be asking her out, not having meaningless chit-chat with her via phone.

She came out of her relationship and still talking to her ex.
2. Big redflag. You're a rebound.

Day before yesterday we were talking in the night and it escalated to the topic of sex and got pretty hot.
3. Like I said, you have to understand the core principle here is that, you only fvck her in real life, not via phone no matter how much sexual your online conversations could get. Why didn't you ask her to come over your place or vice versa right then and there?

She got back in touch with her ex and I think I shouldn't spend time with her. It will get pretty useless. We still have some casual conversation, but that pretty much it.

So what are your thoughts and if possible can I get a elaborated reply rather than just NEXT.
Actually, to experienced guys (which you are not), girls who are in the rebound phrase are easy fvcks, and nothing more to expect from them because their heart + mind + emotions are totally belonged to the other dude, which is ok.

So, for now, ask her out. If she declines, forget about her.
 

Barrister

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So guys I have been having conversation with a girl for past few weeks. She came out of her relationship and still talking to her ex.

Day before yesterday we were talking in the night and it escalated to the topic of sex and got pretty hot.
Next morning she seemed a little cold. Now my exams are also going on, so pretty much the talking is at minimum.
She got back in touch with her ex and I think I shouldn't spend time with her. It will get pretty useless. We still have some casual conversation, but that pretty much it.

So what are your thoughts and if possible can I get a elaborated reply rather than just NEXT.
I stopped reading after the first sentence and was going to just reply but forced myself to read the rest.

These are never worth more than a potential quick smash. Reason being is exactly because of what happened here. There is a HIGH propensity that women who just broke up get back with the ex. In fact, there is almost always going to be a 2nd go before it is done for good. Now, you can get in there quickly for a smash, but if you spoke to her "for a few weeks" already that ship has sailed.

On to the next.
 

manfrombelow

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I stopped reading after the first sentence and was going to just reply but forced myself to read the rest.

These are never worth more than a potential quick smash. Reason being is exactly because of what happened here. There is a HIGH propensity that women who just broke up get back with the ex. In fact, there is almost always going to be a 2nd go before it is done for good. Now, you can get in there quickly for a smash, but if you spoke to her "for a few weeks" already that ship has sailed.

On to the next.
Yeah the window of opportunity for a quickie was right when she's most lonely and vulnerable during the process of breakup. You either fvck her right at that moment before she makes up with her ex or you never will.
 
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