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[Injess]

Don Juans iam f#$ked i need dire help. I got a girl i like. She likes these college discos. Ever since we started going out we would attend together. But today we didnt coz it was chilly for me nd it was stationed outdoors. After i told her she could go alone she made a text to her male friend to come pick her up to take her to the dance and the dude came the guy is actually her classmate but in such situations what should i think

 

[Dr.Suave]

So you are going out with this girl and she runs to a male friend at the first opportunity? Hmmm sounds a little bit disrespectful. Maybe shes not LTR material, FWB only.

 

[Gamisch]

Let's look at the facts shall we?
- she has male friend
- these friends are ready to jump in every time when you cant make it.
- she tells you about them( no fear )
-she still goes to the party even though she probably knows it bothers you

First of all you should not go too deep with women like this , but that's easier said than done. You are 23 , tricky age though.

These is indeed a f up situation, as in you messed it up. It's a real b1tchy reason to cancel ( chilly wheater). So now another dude is willing to take your place and the first comparison with him is already a loss for you. Women don't like whiney men, especially when they dont even complain about the circumstances.

What to do? You could still go. But now this other dude is already a part of it. So perhaps you just gotta ride this one out. Look at it as if your testing her. So DONT text her amd check up on her, actvlike you dgaf. Her behaviour tomorrow will show you all you need to know.

Next time just go , and decide with the same alcohol in your body whatbwio be the next move . Maybe she would agree , have a few drinks with you and than back to your place.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Don Juans iam f#$ked i need dire help. I got a girl i like. She likes these college discos. Ever since we started going out we would attend together. But today we didnt coz it was chilly for me nd it was stationed outdoors. After i told her she could go alone she made a text to her male friend to come pick her up to take her to the dance and the dude came the guy is actually her classmate but in such situations what should i think

You should stop pedastilizing this woman and go out and find other women to date.

Then you wouldn't have time to post this type of stuff worrying about what she is doing because you'd be too busy with them.

Do you think she is worrying about you? She already knows she has you wrapped around her finger trust me.

 

[Billtx49]

After i told her she could go alone she made a text to her male friend to come pick her up to take her to the dance and the dude came the guy is actually her classmate but in such situations what should i think

The facts are, It was a dance, you told her to go without you, girls don’t dance alone…
Try not to make that mistake again, it was a social event and you set her free to go, she Will find a way to interact with other men…
Wasn’t too cold for the other guy, you got outmanned and opened the door for her to let it happen…

 

[Gamisch]

Don Juans iam f#$ked i need dire help. I got a girl i like. She likes these college discos. Ever since we started going out we would attend together. But today we didnt coz it was chilly for me nd it was stationed outdoors. After i told her she could go alone she made a text to her male friend to come pick her up to take her to the dance and the dude came the guy is actually her classmate but in such situations what should i think

Women can be ruthless sometimes haha.

OP, I was wondering how do you know she texted that guy? You went through a " he's just a friend" argument ?